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This page was created primarily to Uplift Spirits, Inform, Challenge, Provoke thought and simply Encourage all of my female friends to be Aware of and Trust in their Inner Power and Woman`s Intuition, to use it wisely and to hold on to it and never let it go!
I was raised by a very Strong, Wise and lively single Mom and because of her I have grown up to Respect the female point of view, to Respect the Super-Strength of a woman, to witness first hand the importance of a woman/mom to her family! To put it simply I love women..I love their energy, I love to see them smile and laugh, I love to see them strut their stuff, I love to Encourage them to be & stay Strong and follow their Dreams! I wish all of my female friends would know and believe in their hearts how much power they truly have as a woman, and to realize that in this sexually charged society and culture, men are raised up to want what women have physically their "Stuff" in most, but not all cases. That does not mean women have to give up their "Stuff" (physical gifts) so easily. I would feel better knowing that my female friends are placing the focus where it should be when dating guys out here asking the tuff important questions that I know I would be asking if I happened to be a woman and feel free to take some or all of what I say and use it in your own voice and style, questions like: You want to ask in some kind of way: What kind a guy are you? = are you a guy who has an understanding of where he is from and some idea of where he is going or are you still totally clueless about all of that! You also want to know: Are you competent at what you do?=no matter what school you go to or what job you work are you good at what you do? are you respected by your teachers or are you respected by the people you work for and with? You definitely want ask: Are you really going to show me that you want to know all about me and not try and hit and run?=How often does the physical partof a relationship come up,especially at the beginning? It takes 90 days to get hired on permanently at most good jobs so why would you allow a guy to enjoy the most precious intimate part of you without proving he deserves to know you like that in the first place-a kiss here and there is okay but he must prove himself before he can come close to getting you in the baby-making position andat least give you some hope that if a baby should be concieved he will be there for you and not run from his responsibilities! You may want to know: What do you believe spiritually and why? If you have a true belief in a higher power-GOD then you must know where the guy trying to get close to you stands on that issue! You really have to ask:Whats your family like? are they DRAMA-FILLED or are they typical day to day ups and downs kind of family-you must observe how he deals with his family to get insight on how he relates This is a revealing qustion:How do you get along with your moms? I would definitely want to know:What kinda of time will we spend beyond the physical if it even gets to that point? However you want to ask this is fine as long as you do it:Will you show by your words and actions that you will protect my heart once I let my guard down with you? Women should also observe behavior and watch for signs of low self-esteem or jealousy, if he is possesive or whether the guy might need anger management classes. I was raised up to know that It is the man`s responsibility to prove that he is worthy of your time and if he does not do that, show him the door. Until he is ready to prove himself giving him a whole bunch of chances to disrespect you and surround you with Negative energy, or when he has lied or has shown inconsistent behavior, will only encourage them to do it even more, unless the door is closed on that negative energy! Now of course as a woman you should be "TIGHT" in your own way as well, if both male and female keep it real knowing that no one is perfect and some things may need to be worked on like education or even finances. That should not be a problem if revealed upfront and a plan set in place that is realistic to both people. Understand that a relationship is like a team and you want people on your team who who want be there and who want to make the team better. If both male and female involved keep that in mind then it should be the start of a good friendship, relationship, team or wherever you 2 decide to take or leave it! To chat you can find me on: aol-jclevehts yahoo-dropnknowledge2 msn-platonicfriend@hotmail.com favorite pages |
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I began working in the communications industry 11 yrs ago (AT&T, BellSouth, SprintPCS and currently VerizonWireless) as a consultant but primarily as a customer service representative, I have received extensive training designed to increase and improve my listening & people skills. Connection and TouchPosted
Connections between a Man and a Woman include: Word connection, Emotion connection and Touch connection. |
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