darkclarknyc whomever invented naps knew what they were doing I'm a new man right now - December 07, 2011 add/view comments (0)

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Why is it love or nothing at all with some women? I belong to several social sites and it seems every profile I come across comes with warning to us guys like," don't be a liar, and no baby mama drama,. Must like long walks on the beach etc etc as if the person with all those things going on in their lives will actually fess up and keep it moving. Ultimatum after ultimatum, and what does it get you? Absolutely nothing from where I am sitting. You see because I am that guy that would send you an email, without all that crap going on and still I remain single, so it really doesn't matter one way or the other how you fill that questionnaire out, you're still going to get a dud every now and then. Finding a good man is just like shopping for fruit, you have to pick it up, hold it in your hands, squeeze it a little bit, you know. I don't know many guys who actually like yoga or long walks on the beach, but what we do like is an attractive, intelligent, fun woman by our side whether it's the beach or the local corner store. I also believe we are not engaging in actual conversation these days, I feel as though we should find something we have in common and build on that, instead of playing 20 questions. I have experience on more than one occasion where I have been asked 15 questions back to back before I could get a word in edge wise. " Are you married? If the answer is no the next question is " why not" If you're divorced the woman instantly assumed you cheated on your wife, the rest are obvious do you have kids, how many, where do they live? And it goes on and on and on. I'd much rather you fax me a form this way I won't have to feel like I was downtown at the 10th precinct. There is nothing romantic about that course of action ladies but still you want us to be some guy out of a romance novel after dealing with all that.(ok maybe not a romance novel but you get my point) I think Chris Rock was correct when he said men only do some of those thing you have listed on that profile just to meet you, not much different than a secret handshake, you either know it or you don't, in this case you either do it or she won't. Now I cannot speak for all men not even myself because I actually enjoy a nice night out on the town listening to some jazz or a nice long walk on the beach, call me corny, It makes me feel like an adult. :o) But I think the majority of us is going about this thing all-wrong. It would make me happy to see a profile for once say, "let's hang out sometimes", "see what happens" Without all the he must haves and I don't wants spewed out on your profile like a spilled drink, it tasted good for a second and then it was all over the place. I guess what I am trying to say is relax, and this goes for both genders. I honestly believe love should be like a kids baseball game, you should get a reward just for trying. With all the crap going on in relationship these days I can understand the distrust and the walls that goes up, but the problem for me most of the time is when you show that distrust from the front door. It makes me feel at least you don't trust your own judgment of character. Is it really all or nothing? And if it is I fear all of us are missing out on some interesting moments in our lives where we can at least enjoy each other without all the expectations. So let's hang, see what happens.

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