I saw James sitting on his motorcycle with the caption, I love it when you call me Big Pop pa. I thought he was handsome, confident and from his page knew that he knew how to treat a woman. I sent him a crush, he responded in kind. He sent me his phone number... I took a little while to call. When I finally did, I was instantly taken in by his strength, confidence, sense of humor and kindness; the sound of his voice made me melt. From our first conversation we knew we were connected. We are in our 40s and know what we want and where we want to go. Yes I have found my soulmate. It turns out we joined BP 4 days apart at the advice of friends.