I just wanted to include my success story on this site as well. Many may not think of it as one but I sure do. Through my involvement with blackplanet over the past 4 or 5 yrs, I have come to realize that happiness can not be defined through meeting or finding that perfect someone. I have met a few guys on here that have become good friends and many more that are not worth the words to type. Through all of this experience, I realized that I do not NEED to meet someone to be happy. This was my success. I have learned that sometimes a person needs to be alone and spend time with themself. I know what makes me happy, what makes me sad, I know what's important to me. I never forget a dinner date or my birthday, and always buy myself the perfect gift. To me true success and happiness comes with the knowledge of SELF. Loving one's self is the first step to any worthwile relationship, and I thank blackplanet for having part to my journey and knowledge of self. To all those who have made a connection on here (none of which I noticed were Canadian) my best wishes and heart felt blessings to you all. Your union shall be blessed as HE sees fit. Good luck to all on that journey of life, whether it be of self, or union.