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Met October 2002, Mississauga, ON Posted

Hello Black Planet.

I just wanted to include my success story on this site as well. Many may not think of it as one but I sure do. Through my involvement with blackplanet over the past 4 or 5 yrs, I have come to realize that happiness can not be defined through meeting or finding that perfect someone. I have met a few guys on here that have become good friends and many more that are not worth the words to type. Through all of this experience, I realized that I do not NEED to meet someone to be happy. This was my success. I have learned that sometimes a person needs to be alone and spend time with themself. I know what makes me happy, what makes me sad, I know what's important to me. I never forget a dinner date or my birthday, and always buy myself the perfect gift. To me true success and happiness comes with the knowledge of SELF. Loving one's self is the first step to any worthwile relationship, and I thank blackplanet for having part to my journey and knowledge of self. To all those who have made a connection on here (none of which I noticed were Canadian) my best wishes and heart felt blessings to you all. Your union shall be blessed as HE sees fit. Good luck to all on that journey of life, whether it be of self, or union.

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Female, 33, Saint Louis, MO

Posted August 05, 2007

That is truely deep and many fail to realize that you must love SELF before you can fully love someone else.


Female, 27, Chapel Hill, NC

Posted August 07, 2007

This is actually the best success story i've read so far. It pretty in depth. I really liked your story and you reminded that no one can really love you better than you, but I do have to say that I still cant wait to meet that special someone to share my life with because I dont want to live it alone.


Female, 43, Lexington, KY

Posted August 13, 2007

I could not agree more.. I too have meet a few too many fellas from BP and I stay in contact with a few but only by email.. They are not worth typing about either and I join you on your journey to Self.. God is teaching me to sit down and be patient through my many "trial period" relationships.. But as long as I have God I can't ask for more..
God Bless you on your jorney..
Peace and Bless, Maria B.


Female, Age Private, Jacksonville, AR

Posted August 14, 2007

This is one of the greatest gifts we can give to ourselves as women. Oftentimes, we cause most of the problems we find ourselves in because we have not taken the time to find out who we are, what we are, and what we really need and want. Personally, my ultimate goal is to know God and see his face. You are an encouragement to many sisters. Keep the faith and may God continue to bless you abundantly is my prayer.