James and I met shortly after checking him out on black planet,we noticed how we have soooo many of the same values,principles,morals and goals for family and our daily lifestyle,we have the same intrests,we went through almost the same struggles growing up,which made it easier for us to relate to the other's problems and struggles. We talk constantly on the phone and one of us always calls when we're both thinking about each other,that's so weird. James has been doing something right because God has sent him his missing rib. We're getting married 3-9-08 so we can bring Valentine's day in right.(If you know what we mean!!! :) Thanks BP! We'll have wedding pictures soon!