We still argue about who messaged who first. I think she sent me a note saying I look cute, and then I replied, and said thank you and I hope we can talk in the future. We kept in touch and eventually were instant messaging and talking on the phone daily. After about 2 months I asked her to come visit me. She stayed about a week and we hit it off. We talked on the phone everyday from when she left til she came back 2 months later, to stay!! Fast forward 7 months, we're very happy and expecting a baby boy in december. Thank you BP!