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Met May 2006, Birmingham, AL Posted




Mario and I exchanged messages around June of this year. But, the messages were sent way before then, Mario sent me a message a year earlier that I didn't respond to. So, now it is 2006 and I was living at home b/c of college money was low. So, I was online one night bored to death and I get this message from bluboi60. He was really polite and respectful. He wasn't into the "let's have sex or Damn you sexy". So after a couple of messages back and forth we decided to exhange phone numbers. This lead to many nights on the phone until the wee hours of the morning. But, we both managed to make time to talk even if we were tired. I felt like I was 13. Going to sleep on the phone and seeing who would hang up 1st after counting to 3 we apart of our routine.

By the time August came around, I was moving back on campus and he was coming home (from Hawai)i before he was to be deployed to Iraq. I forgot to mention he is a Marine. But, the night before I moved in, we spent some time together but not much. I brought along my best friend Champagne to give the sign to run or stay. But we had a good time. The next day he was leaving to go to Selma and I had to move my things in. So, in order to get some extra time in he helped me move all of my heavy stuff. While at my dorm, people took notice that there was an attraction.

In September, we begin talking about a possible relationship. I thought things would go smoothly. Plus we talked everyday. This was a hard decision for me mainly because he was leaving for Iraq in a week. Then his birthday was the following week. So, we decided to let things fall into place. He accused me of not wanting him. This was our 1st major discussion and in my mind a basis to see how we would work out our differences. This discussion ended both of us realizing if were to start a relationship that it would be harder than others based on the distance between us.

In October we declared ourselves as a couple that was in love. The distance between us made us both fall harder than what we were used to. He would be able to forget he was at war and clear his mind of what he saw everyday on the battle field. He said one day, " The thought of you keeps me alive."

November and December have been sort of hard. I want to have my man by my side as much as he wants to be here at home enjoying the holidays. I know that GOD sent him to me and I didn't have to look for him. The love that we share is genuine. The fact that we love each other as much as we do keeps us grounded. GOD has told us both what he expects for us. We are talking about getting enganged when he makes it home in March. A possible wedding in 2008 or 2009. But we will keep you updated.


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thelma1976
thelma1976

Female, 40, United Kingdom

Posted January 04, 2007


all i think that is sweet i hope yall togather i want to find somebody nice and sweet can u help me please my name is tee


missbuckner
missbuckner

Female, 41, Roanoke, VA

Posted January 04, 2007


I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK! I HAVE NOT FOUND TRUE LOVE YET BUT TO SEE IT HAPPENING AROUND ME IS TRULY A BLESSING!!! HOPEFULLY HE WILL BE HOME SOON AND YOU TWO WILLBE TOGETHER!!!


Luvssinginmuzic
Luvssing...

Female, 29, Irmo, SC

Posted January 05, 2007


That was an amazing story. I really feel you on the whole being far apart from each other. My boyfriend is in Iraq as well and I haven't seen him in so long that all I want him to do is to come home to his family and myself. We've had our battles while he was home, but now the battle is even harder because of temptation and random obsticles that have been coming in both of our directions. I hope that your lover comes home to you in one piece, safe and sound, with the same love and mind frame that he left with. God bless both or you and your relationship. I really hope that you two stay happy and prosper in the relationship to the up most high in your life.

Sincerely yours,
Erin A.K.A Luvssinginmuzic


Frankie_5
Frankie_5

Female, 38, Oklahoma City, OK

Posted January 07, 2007


That's what I'm talking aboutl I was once in the military so I know how hard it is to be in love with someone and not be able to be there with them. Just make sure if he's the one you hold on to him. I let the best thing I had get away from me because I couldn't handle the distance. Best wishes to ya both and remember to keep GOD first!


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Female, Age Private, Leesville, LA

Posted January 09, 2007


this is a beautiful story. it brought tears to my eyes


mzblkdiva29
mzblkdiva29

Female, 40, Jesup, GA

Posted January 14, 2007


thats wonderful all things are possible thur god.congrats on ur up and coming wedding.u found one of the few good ones on the site all the ones i talk to r jerks so no matter wat wen times ger hard dnt let the good man go that god has given u.hope i hav luck like that one day.
sincerley,
mesha a-k-a mzblkdiva


nuage
nuage

Female, Age Private, Gloucester, ON

Posted January 15, 2007


these love stories are going to make me cry-
ghettostocracy


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Female, Age Private, Orlando, FL

Posted January 16, 2007


Honey reading your story was like reading a good novel. I was like what next, no, awwww, thats what time it is, there is somebody for everybody, may GOD bless you and yours but girl this is your man what are you waiting for now is the time 2007 just got here and you talkin about 2 more yrs. dont u think u've waited long enough to find the right man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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Female, 46, Detroit, MI

Posted January 21, 2007


THIS WAS A BEAUTIFUL STORY..MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS THE BOTH OF YOU ON YOUR JOURNEY TO MARRIAGE.


hannahdavid
hannahdavid

Female, 41, Nigeria

Posted January 23, 2007


these are beautiful and impressive stories.I strongly believe in true love.i would like to get a soul amte, someone really loving.please assist me


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