Well we had been browsing BP not knowing each other and I ran across a photo of a nice looking young black man and I decided that I would take down his info maybe contact him. He seemed to be looking for the same things I was looking for in a man. So I did that but I was too afraid to actually contact him until one day he emailed me and asked me about myself. We kept BPing each other until we finally started talking on the phone and then we decided to go out on a date with each other and now we have been together for 10 months and plan on staying together for a long time. So I found my soul mate on BP.com!!!!