Earland contacted me on line, at first we were sending notes back and forth to each other, we then shared phone numbers. Once we connected face to face, it was on! Yes he lives in nyc and i live in maryland and every other weekend i travel 3 hours to be with my love. We are very happy and we are in a wonderful and honest relationship. I thank GOD each day for sending this wonderful man into my life. Thank you to black planet!