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 Peace and Blessings in 2012!

Just made the decision to move BACK to Northern Georgia.  I'm going home!  Mid 2013 is the plan if all goes well).  I travel there often and would enjoy making a new friend in the area so I have a welcoming party.  Remember, I just need ONE.  Been gone for 6 years and I can't wait to get back...That is to say the people (both women and men) of Texas are truly delusional and want play mind games.  It is sad but I am glad to know that I am past the stage falling prey.  I'm good.  Goodbye Texas and I can't get out of here soon enough!

          I'm excited about the prospects of 2012.  It is such a blessing to look forward to growing and exploring new things and places.  I am a lover of life and find good in most things.  Unless you can verify your American presence with a US phone number, don't bother contacting me.  Also, if anything is marked "private" on your profile when you hit me up and I take a peek, you just blew your best chance at getting my attention.  I don't respond to those who I cannot see and see in a few pictures with different people in different settings.  I am not going to contact you via YAHOO or another other outside site unless I feel comfortable.  Not playing games, been there done that, it's a new year and I don't have the time.  Again, if you are in Africa, another third world country or deployed in the military, move on.  Now for those who are still reading... Please relax, sit back and get to know a little about me.  I've tried to show a little of all the aspects of who I am here. 

I found the following quote that inspired me to update my spot and I hope you appreciate also...

“Love comes when manipulation stops; when you think more about the other person than about his or her reactions to you. When you dare to reveal yourself fully. When you dare to be vulnerable.” (Dr. Joyce Brothers)

Love and Be Loved in 2011!

To enjoy the ear candy, scroll down so the player auto loads.  As the selection that will play first is random, it's devinely selected just for you.  You may just hear something that brings back fond memories.   While listening, if you smile, send me a note to share the thought the music evoked. 

A Friend sent this to me to ensure I don't forget the goal.   Enjoy..

A real man calls you beautiful instead of hot or sexy, calls you back when you hang up on him, stays awake just to watch you sleep, kisses your forehead, shows you off to the world, holds your hand in front of his friends, is constantly reminding you of how much he loves you and how lucky he is to have you, turns to his friends and says theres my baby.

Something so simple, yet unattainable in today's world of "Brotha's on a mission".  What's up with that?
 

To help you see how special you are, please read this poem and take it to heart. 

Don't undermine your worth by comparing yourself to others.
It is because we are different that each of us is special.
Don't set your goals by what other people deem important.
Only you know what is best for you.
Don't take for granted the things closest to your heart.
Cling to them as you would your life, for without them life is meaningless.
Don't let life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live up all the days of your life.
Don't give up when you still have something left to give,
Nothing is really over . . . till the moment you stop trying.
Don't be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect.
It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
Don't be afraid to encounter risks.
It is by taking chances, that we learn to be brave.
Don't shut love out of your life by saying it's impossible to find.
The quickest way to receive love is to give love;
the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly;
and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.

-Author Unknown

Before we get started, how about a chuckle.  No offense intended, if taken...lighten up!

The husband came home early and found his wife in their bedroom making love to a very attractive young man. He was somewhat upset. 'You are a disrespectful %#&@$!' he cried. 'How dare you do this to me -- a faithful husband, the father of your children! I'm leaving you. I want a divorce right away!' And the wife replied, 'Hang on just a minute, love, so at least I can tell you what happened. "Fine, go ahead," he sobbed, "but they'll be the last words you'll say to me!"   And the wife began -- "Well, I was getting into the car to drive home, and this young man here asked me for a lift. He looked so down and out and harmless that I took pity on him and let him into the car. I noticed that he was very thin, not well dressed and very dirty. He told me that he hadn't eaten for three days. So, in my compassion, I brought him home and warmed up the enchiladas I made for you last night, the ones you wouldn't eat because you say I can't cook. The poor thing devoured them in moments. Since he needed a good clean-up, I suggested a shower, and while he was doing that, I noticed his clothes were dirty and full of holes, so I threw them away. Then, as he needed clothes, I gave him the designer jeans that you have had for a few years, but don't wear because you say they are too cheap. I also gave him the underwear that was your anniversary present, which you don't wear because you say I don't have good taste. I found the sweater my sister gave you for Christmas that you don't wear just to annoy her, and I also donated those boots you bought at the expensive boutique and don't wear because someone at work has the same pair." The wife took a quick breath and continued –   "He was so grateful for my understanding and help that as I walked him to the door, he turned to me with tears in her eyes and said, Please ... Do you have anything else that your husband doesn't use?"  The motto of the story what's trsh to one man is treasure to another! 

Hello BlackPlanet and welcome to my spot,

Although this profile says I'm new, I've been here for years and got lost when the system got upgraded. I'm back with a new and improved attitude.

PLEASE READ THE FULL PROFILE!

If interested in possibly dating, please read the dating tab.  The information in the "in my own words" is VERY important.  Please don't waste our time by not reading it whether you feel you are the one for me or not. 

A little about me

Not looking for a man I can live with, I'm looking for the man I can't live without! The requirements are the requirements and I will not SETTLE. Would U? OK if you are unhappy with self and desperate, maybe. I'm not. I’ll wait for HIM. Young at heart. I am "GROWN and SEXY". Functionally divorced, no baggage. I am intelligent, outgoing, adventurous, spontaneous, uninhibited and very forthright. I do not play GAMES so if you are not genuine and serious about finding your life long mate then pass me by. I am looking for a friend/lover to share events, trips and quiet evenings with. I live alone and own my home. I am a professional and have been for some time. It does not define me, it's a means to an end. I am very private. A lady in the streets, a vixen in private. Love to kiss. Please respond with a picture profile only. No pic, no consideration. I am done trading messages with those who want to control and analyze. No more crazies. If you don't meet the requirements, please don’t be offended by my response. My man will step correctly. Let’s chat opening about who we are. We all have one shot to show our best. Looking for my best friend. My Superman, I'm waiting!!!

What am I looking for in a partner?
I am hungry for the company of a real man. I crave thinker, a gentleman, someone who can capture me with a look, someone who enjoys the better things in life, someone who can touch my intellect. I want an assertive man. You MUST be over 6'3" and any flavor of chocolate. You must be financially stable and self-sufficient. Please be happy with who you are in life. Make me laugh, that goes a long way. I like to be touched in a sensual way. I think ears are sexy. I see my perfect mate as being GOD fearing, chasristimatic, strong, tender, handsome, tall, successful, sensual, loyal, moral, physically fit, aggressive and intelligent with a sharp intellect. He is the kind that will outwit a competitor but stop and help an injured animal if possible. He is competitive without being sinister. He does not compare his success to others, instead he sets the bar. He must love to travel to exotic. He is well groomed and always puts his best foot forward to make the best first impression. He will protect me in every sense of the word and allow me to be the "weaker vessel" by making sound decisions for our future. He doesn't do in mind games but discusses ideas and issues like a gown-up. His libido, high. In private he makes me sizzle and melt.  Part of the definition of sizzle for me is to be able to look at my man and say “I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you. Thank you for loving me when I least deserve it, because that's when I really need it."

I'd just like to add...
I love to go new places, free or at cost. I do expect a 4 star hotel at a minimum. I love to pamper and be pampered. I workout at the gym three times a week. I swim and bicycle. I love Jazz, NeoSoul, R & B and will try most things once. I love live comedy. My reading and listening tastes are varied but constant. I am looking for someone to be themselves. Being genuine and authentic is 10+. I want someone to make me feel like a desirable lady worth romancing. I want to be best friends. I have high self esteem and respect myself. I will never ask for more than I am willing to give. The perfect scenerio is that we come together naturally. No working it out to get into relationship.
 

Before you contact me, please ask yourself the following questions and be prepared with your answers:

1.What's "common sense"?
2. What is your five year plan?
3. What is your "life dream"?
4. What is the most significant change you feel you are able to make in your life today to move you forward toward your dream?

If/Once we get there, I am HIV tested and negative, I require the same. Testing and condoms is not optional.

Why...?

Read the stats on my home area.  NO EXCEPTIONS.  http://www.thebody.com/content /news/art56395.html

I regularly travel to:  Atlanta, Georgia

In closing...

When contacting a lady who represents the things you want in your life, honesty, devotion, managomy... think about what you ask of her.  If she will send pictures of herself over the internet to you, wouldn't she do the same with Tom, Dick and Harry?  Is that who you really want?  If so, don't bother contacting me because I'm not the one.  I respect myself and I respect my image. 

Guys I'd like to add,"a few extra pounds" means, in my case, I could lose a little booty and not miss it but the waist is a 30”. Let’s live the dream now.

Great quotes we all should try to live by

"Take no one for Granted!  Hold everyone close to your heart because one day you may wake up and realize that you have lost a "diamond" while you were too busy collecting rocks!"  (Anon)

"Don’t make someone a priority in your life when you’re only an option in theirs." (unknown)

“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.” (Dr. Seuss)

  What kind of Chinese animal am I? 

What signs are I most compatiable with?

 What do my stars say about me?

A soul from Venus with a sexual appeal 9.1 of 10.

Guys, hold your breath...

You Are an Old Soul

You are an experienced soul who appreciates tradition. Mellow and wise, you like to be with others but also to be alone. Down to earth, you are sensible and impatient. A creature of habit, it takes you a while to warm up to new people. You hate injustice, and you're very protective of family and friends A bit demanding, you expect proper behavior from others. Extremely independent you don't mind living or being alone. But when you find love, you tend to want marriage right away. Souls you are most compatible with: Warrior Soul and Visionary Soul

 

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Your Seduction Style: Ideal Lover

You seduce people by tapping into their dreams and desires. And because of this sensitivity, you can be the ideal lover for anyone you seek. You are a shapeshifter - bringing romance, adventure, spirituality to relationships. It all depends on who your with, and what their vision of a perfect relationship is.

Places I've visited on this continent

 

visited 30 states (60%)
Places I been outside of the USA
visited 11 countries (4% of the world)
 

In 2012 I am planning a mid year trip to Europe.  Although I have no problem traveling alone, I would love some company.  Wanna come along? 

In closing...

Thanks for visiting my spot on the planet.  For those of you just curious, I hope you were enlightened and found something to take away that caused you to smile.  For those of you that are interested in finding out more, please send a note and I will respond.  Unfortunately, I do not do "friends" without knowing you so send a note instead and let's see what we have in common.

~ The Lamb...