All i wantto kno is how is the effective way to set boundaries? If you are a very giving person this is hard to do. When you kno people need you or want you to do ceratin things naturally in my case i want to do it for loved ones an out of compassion for strangers if its something i can do. But a lot of times people now are out for what they can get out of a person an they will use you as long as you are willing to do the things they want or make there lives easier. So how do you set certain... (continue reading)

Is it better to save money or spend it. I know that tommorrow is never pomised to anyone so should we try save our money or do what makes us happy at the time???. At this point I see that saving jus may be the key to save us a lot of grief later on and allows a finacial safety net. I am the type of person who like to live for the moment I would consider myself a social person. What is the best way to find a good medium between saving and yet still purchasing some of the things we want. I would... (continue reading)