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ebonilace721

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Judge not lest ye be judged. Do you think people really understand this commandment?

Judge not lest ye be judged. Do you think people really understand this commandment?

Attempting to manipulate a person through emotional manipulations is foolhardy. This is evidence by the person who always complains about something another person may or may not have done. Often they lead out with "You said..." "Remember when you" "Why did you..." "You don't..." "You always...All at the same time never addressing their contribution or lack of for the situation. Very prominent behavior in passive/aggressive people.

Attempting to manipulate a person through emotional manipulations is foolhardy. This is evidence by the person who always complains about something another person may or may not have done. Often they lead out with "You said..." "Remember when you" "Why did you..." "You don't..." "You always...All at the same time never addressing their contribution or lack of for the situation. Very prominent behavior in passive/aggressive people.

Love is an option. We choose to love or not. We choose to be loved or not. Don't be your worst enemy and let the blessing of love pass you by.

Love is an option. We choose to love or not. We choose to be loved or not. Don't be your worst enemy and let the blessing of love pass you by.

You can not have a successful relationship with a doubter a liar an unhappy person an angry being nor anyone without self development from the spirit.

You can not have a successful relationship with a doubter a liar an unhappy person an angry being nor anyone without self development from the spirit.

When your criteria for companionship is based on superficial elements you are bound to be disappointed and lonely.

When your criteria for companionship is based on superficial elements you are bound to be disappointed and lonely.

Freedom isn't only a physical state. Freedom is also a state of mind.

Freedom isn't only a physical state. Freedom is also a state of mind.

So many excuses from mature aged people. Always talking about what someone else may or may not have done to you. Really?! What have you done for yourself? No one is responsible for your grown self so stop whining and complaining looking for sympathy. Remember can't another body do anything to us that we don't sanction. So whatever is going on in your life you are alright with it otherwise it wouldn't exist.

So many excuses from mature aged people. Always talking about what someone else may or may not have done to you. Really?! What have you done for yourself? No one is responsible for your grown self so stop whining and complaining looking for sympathy. Remember can't another body do anything to us that we don't sanction. So whatever is going on in your life you are alright with it otherwise it wouldn't exist.

Just let go and move on....really simple. I don't understand why people have a need to act out when a relationship comes to an end. It didn't work. Such is life. At this late stage in life you should know that whatever feelings realized will pass. Get over yourself.

Just let go and move on....really simple. I don't understand why people have a need to act out when a relationship comes to an end. It didn't work. Such is life. At this late stage in life you should know that whatever feelings realized will pass. Get over yourself.

It's so draining dealing with an emotionally needy person. As we know desiring attention and being needy is different. Whereas one fulfills the body and emotions in a healthy manner since the recipient understand the giver is not their savior while the other drains the giver because the recipient is undefined and clueless to their identity and looks toward the giver to fulfill them.

It's so draining dealing with an emotionally needy person. As we know desiring attention and being needy is different. Whereas one fulfills the body and emotions in a healthy manner since the recipient understand the giver is not their savior while the other drains the giver because the recipient is undefined and clueless to their identity and looks toward the giver to fulfill them.

The best thing we can do for self is remove unhealthy relationships from our life. It feels good to release negative and toxic relations.

The best thing we can do for self is remove unhealthy relationships from our life. It feels good to release negative and toxic relations.