People who try to convince you that you aren't good enough do so because they believe they aren't good enough. People who see your value have the dignity to point out why you're good enough. And it's just that simple.

Today, someone near and dear to me looked me in the eyes and encouraged me to pursue my passions. Even better, she gave me specific reasons that I will be successful in my future endeavors. After taking in that refreshing air of encouragement, it occurred to me that a big reason I am not where I want to be is I have been holding on too tightly to my experiences in the Valley of the Can'ts. You see, I was introduced to the Valley of the Can'ts a long time ago. I started my career in a... (continue reading)

Being a member of a Divine Nine fraternity or sorority is a privilege. It is not a right. Had Alpha Phi Alpha not recognized my worth or talents, I would have been disappointed, but I definitely would have moved on. I would suggest that two young ladies who wish to become members of Alpha Kappa Alphajust move on and make their respective graduate chapters an option if AKA means that much to them. If you're not familiar with the frats and sororities of the National PanHellenic Council NPHC... (continue reading)