The window through which we look..... A young couple moves into a new neighborhood. The next morning while they are eating breakfast, The young woman sees her neighbor hanging the wash outside. "That laundry is not very clean", she said. "She doesn't know how to wash correctly. Perhaps she needs better laundry soap." Her husband looked on, but remained silent. Every time her neighbor would hang her wash to dry, The young woman would make the... (continue reading)

Just in case you are having a rough day, here is a stress management technique recommended in all the latest psychological journals. The funny thing is that it really does work and will make you smile.

1. Picture yourself lying on your belly on a warm rock that hangs out over a crystal clear stream.

2. Picture yourself with both your hands dangling in the cool running water.

3. Birds are sweetly singing in the cool mountain air.

4. No one knows... (continue reading)

Sara Baartman
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While at a parent's meeting last night, I realized that there were ZERO fathers there. Though I guess I shouldn't be, I was very surprised. I know that there are numerous absent father's but I am still amazed at how they choose to completely negate their responsibilities as Dads. When will men who choose to be absent fathers wake up? When will they step up and be the men they need to be? Perhaps, I'm just naive to even think that they ever will. So to the fathers like... (continue reading)

So, I'm pissed again. I'm sick and tired of people blaming Down Low men for jeopardizing their families as if THEY'RE THE ONLY ONES!!! First of all, DL men are damned if they do and damed if they don't. HONESTY will harm them and LYING harms them. They're between a rock and a hard place. YET, they are singled out as the men who put their families in danger. Heterosexual men who have extra marital affairs (or cheat on their significant others) put their families in just as... (continue reading)