Lets just keep it real.. I am single parent and my first priority are my kids. They already have a dad, So I want someone for ME. I work hard and I like to play hard, good food, friends and fun. I love horror movies, dinner out, or I can cook for you, I would love you to cook for me.. Concerts, plays, comedy clubs, there are a million things I enjoy. I am drama free and would like to stay that way. I'm at a point in my life where I'm done with the games. Lets be honest with each other..
Sex to me is icing on the cake it can make or break a relationship, but i ain't spreading my icing until I know the flavor of the cake. So if your looking for a hit it quit it, booty call or one night stand, keep it moving... Thats not the flavor I'm intrested in, just keeping it real..
Accepting Reality What else could you have done? You keep turning the experience over in your mind. You are rethinking your actions and responses, which leads to questioning and doubting yourself. Instead of making yourself crazy, why not ask and honestly answer this one simple question, "What else could I have done?" Then take it one step further by asking, "If you could have done it, why didn't you do it?" Could you have been more considerate? Compassionate? Understanding? Probably. Could you have been more patient? More tolerant? More cautious? Well what do you think? Could you have said more or less? Could you have listened a bit closer? Could you have planned better? Waited longer? Of course you could have, but you didn't. When you feel sufficiently remorseful, overwhelmingly confused and totally beaten down, you will be on the brink of a divine revelation! You will be face to face with something you probably never considered. Something too simple! Too easy! The truth is, if you could have done it, you would have! the fact that you didn't means you couldn't for reasons you may not be aware of right now. Second-guessing yesterday will not help you today. Holding yourself hostage to what was not will not propel you into what will be. As you accept the reality of what you did not do in the past, you open yourself to the luxury of knowing it does not mean you will not do better in the future
