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SOULMATE-PLAYMATE In our quest for happiness we must be sure that we don't settle for a Playmate when God has a Soul mate waiting for us. Sometimes this is a hard distinction to make. Playmates are tricky. They are so much fun to be with that even the smartest of us will be fooled into thinking this has to be our Soul mate. Worse yet too many of us attempt to make a Soul mate out of a Playmate. The danger of this is that later, after years of playing we will meet our Soul mate, but it may be too late then. We may have already made a Life mate of our Playmate, and created life-long bonds (emotional, children, etc.) Or we may have been hurt from playing so hard that we are in no shape ourselves to be anyone's anything. How can we distinguish between the One, and just another one? First, we must be open with ourselves about who we really are and what our soul yearns for. Only you and God know what is truly in your heart and mind. Only you know what will make you truly happy and whole. In order to find your Soul mate you have to know you, first. You must be willing to listen to that inner voice. And is that voice telling you that the nerdy person you enjoy talking and sharing your thoughts with, could be he? What about that friend who is always willing to go the extra mile for you when no one else will. Oh no! He's too short or too tall, balding or too hairy, and on and on? Just too ordinary looking for me! Then there's that boy or girl who makes you feel so special when you're around him or her, but she/he doesn't match that ideal you have conjured in your head. She/he's too tall, not slender enough, not light or dark enough, not shapely enough, not attractive enough, and on and on. She just couldn't be for me! So what if he or she doesn't look like Denzel Washington or Angela Bassett! He or she is going to treat you like the jewel that you are. Not only that, his or her soul and yours will commune in ways you never imagined possible! In order to heed that voice, we have to put on the back burner our own superficial thinking. Could it be that your inner desire is for a truly genuine person with a good heart? If you enjoy playing, stay on the playground. There are plenty of Playmates out there to occupy your time. But don't spend too much time playing or you may play your life away. Eventually the playing loses it appeal and your soul begins to crave a deeper, more meaningful connection. Your soul begins to crave your Soul mate. BOTTOM LINE, our hearts are tricky and will deceive even us. To top it off, it's DESPERATELY wicked (Jeremiah 17:9). Only God knows what will truly make us happy, what we need and when we need it - so don't trust your heart, lean and depend totally on God.
BRAND NEW ME!!! SAME FACE, SAME PERSON!!

"Don't let know one get close to you except the chosen
Stick with the ones who meant the most to you
when you were broke and blue, that's how fam do
That's how you stay true around these snakes
that freakin' smile when they hate you"

"When I think of home I think of a place where theres no over-flowin
And all my family and peeps I knew when I was growin"


In this world we live in now, we, as people, need to speak our minds and stop hiding our feelings!!

FIRST OFF, I WANT TO GIVE SHOUT OUT TO MY BRUHS OF ALPHA PHI ALPHA, 190000000000000000000066666666 666666666666!!!!!!!!

Whats up to everybody, I just moved to the DC/Maryland area out of North Carolina but originally from Paterson, New Jersey (P-town); so far I am loving it here and i hope i will meet some new people soon.
I just recently recieve my masters degree in computer science with a concentration in IT Security. I use to play football ,but thank god im done with it, now im back freestyle wrestling trying to compete for the 2008 olympics in China. I am not your average type male. I love to get to know a female mentally instead of physically(the inside part it what counts). My hobbies is to lift weights(my favorite), chill with frat, write and read poetry, shop, cook, wrestling, just have positive fun.

I am also a very very independent, very deep, sensitive, educated, smart, funny character and when i mean funny i mean like the dave chapelle show!!!

Now to all the golddigging, materialistic, money hungry females out there that always ask those material questions and everything let me answer them to you now so you wont ask me again!!!

Do I have my own place? YES
Do I have my own car? YES
Do I make my own money? YES
How much money I make? THATS NONE OF YOUR DAMN BUSINESS!!!!
What kind of car I have? ALTIMA

well thats enought about me, if u want to get to know me IM me at:
yahoo: shawnehodgeswood_43_99
msn: thewood43@hotmail.com
aol: ferret43usa

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