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Female, Age Private, Charlotte, NC
Posted Mar 23
When you start getting up in the ranks, dating just isn't what it used to be.Doesn't seem like people are just going out to have a good time and get to know each other anymore. Its more like an interview process for the person you may potentially spend your life with/have kids with.----Women: do you notice different behavior in men if you let on that you want more than just a good time... and want to be married in the near future?Men: do you behave differently when a women lets on that she feels she's approaching an era in her life that should include a husband and a more permanent deal?Just curious.
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Male, 37, Madison, AL
why are you talking about marraige and forever with someone you just met?? Yeah I would say it would scare most guys off because you come off looking like you are looking for ANY guy to have kids with. Why not get to know the dude a minute first before those things even come up??
Male, Age Private, New Orleans, LA
when i was younger and a women would come out and tell me that they were looking for a relationship and prolly foreverness. It would make them an easy target to get fukked in a couple of days. I could sell them a dream really fast and be out. But when i met a woman who came out and said that they not looking for anything serious, I didn't have much sucess with those women. Not until i matured and became a little more wiser. I don't think a biological clock would turn a man away from a woman. A woman can run a man away with that marriage talk.
brutal honesty is refreshing (sometimes).i think the ticking clock inspires the marriage talk because a woman who's still just dating to have good company probably wouldn't even bring it up.its sad that some men see a woman who's looking for something permanent as an easy target to hit and quit. i don't know if i understand the logic behind that... matter of fact, just seems down right trife.so would it be better for a woman who's actually thinking about marriage to just keep her mouth shut about it and let it happen if it happens?
Female, Age Private, Abbyville, KS
Its trifling ..........but men dont care. Men will sell a 'dream', and when they are finished or bored...............its easy for them to pick up and move on. Many women get caught up in this...........because they are listening, but not paying attention to his actions..Its always best to keep your desires to yourself, when meeting a man. Allow him to express his desires..........and wait for him to 'show' you, instead of 'telling' you.I dont believe a thing that comes out of a mans mouth. Show me first, and then we can go on from there.
man sits at dinner thinking: "I really hope to be in your panties by the end of the night"woman sits at dinner thinking: "I hope this isn't a waste of time and can actually lead to a real relationship"and just like you ask *why would a woman think about commitment so soon...* we ask *why is he trying to hit so soon*its a mars/venus thing... why do men seem to be scared off more easily than women?
Male, Age Private, Atlanta, GA
why do you think so many women 24 - 4o are single
the same reason so many 24 - 40 year old men are single?
lol @ "i dont believe a thing that comes out of a man's mouth..."yes, there are some magnificent story tellers out there... worthy of a vh1 special
I have a male friend that has a module that he say's called PTA(Promise Them Anything)anyways. I tell all my female friends not to tell a man what they are looking for. Think about it. If you tell me that you are looking for a relationship all i have to do is spend time and treat you like a queen and all is good for a short moment. Another thing i tell my female friends is not to answer the (What kind of guys do you like?) None of your business! Let's just continue to get to know each other and we'll see where it goes. If a guy get angry at that then you can't miss anything that you never had. The reason why it is so easy to fuk a woman who is looking for a relationship is because they are thirsty and they don't even no it. It's the ones who have been fooled and have learned or either have had someone teach them about men that don't fall for the okey-doke all the time.
ah yes, the double-edged sword of B.S.ONE SIDE OF THE NECK:"black women have their guard up... are so cold... have attitudes... don't trust anyone... bla bla blizzybla..."OTHER SIDE OF THE NECK:"you can't tell a man what you want... dont let him know your intentions... don't be honest... don't open up..."lol
Female, 33, Chicago, IL
People need to stop using dating as saying we are together and this is where our lives begin. Dating is basically an interview process, but you don't have to give interview questions. You just talk...when you talk to a person about general things you learn about that person and you learn if this is the type of person you want to be with. When you straight out ask interview type questions...you're scaring men away. No one wants to feel like the person they are with has an agenda. There is much to be said about just "going with the flow"...When you don't pressure a situation you get a much better outcome. people have to understand that there is no deadline on life, love, and happiness...So they need to act accordingly.
agreedthere are some over-the-top women who forget that if they just relax and keep the vibe right between themselves and someone they're interested in... things will happen naturally without all the talking.
actually notmore 24-40 year old black men are married than 24-40 year old black womenand there are more 24-40 black women in this country than 24-40 black men
well then you answered your own questionthere are more SINGLE 24-40 year old women because there are simply MORE women
You right I answered itbut you wrongYou obviously didn't get my aswer so I will try to say one moe ginthere are more black women than black menbut more black men are married than black women
um yes, i completely understand lol
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