why do some black women opt to only date black males? - Topic

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hudamuhammad

Female, Age Private, Phoenix, AZ

Posted August 18, 2010

Why do some black women date only black males? Most black women I know who date only black males say they do so because they are 'proud' to be black and they feel as though they are betraying the black race. The black guy can be a drug dealer/addict, have no job, and no aspirations of getting one, or having one that is NOT legal, have 15 diseases, 8 babies mommas and are an ex con, or rapists, child molester... but BECAUSE he has black skin, they feel that his skin color DICTATES, he worthiness in breeding with or marrying.

I ask, no matter what the color/ethnicity, if the person treats you with RESPECT, has a JOB, a job that pays ALL THE BILLS, and does not have 15 kids by 8 women, isn't this saying you RESPECT yourself and are showing that you are intelligent and will have INTELLIGENT progeny, by making the INTELLIGENT choice of NOT breeding with a LOSER, no matter what the color of his skin???

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Male, 36, Lithonia, GA

Posted August 19, 2010

What are you implying? Are you a recruiter for interracial relationships? There have got to be some worthwhile black guys out here somewhere. Every black guy isn't low down rotten dirty scum of the earth people. So spare me. Please? You are giving me a headache. PLEASE? If dating other races solve your problem good luck. You don't have to recruit all the other black females.

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hudamuhammad

Female, Age Private, Phoenix, AZ

Posted August 19, 2010

I am not recruiting for interracial relationships 'roper', but for intelligent women to not settle for a loser or an abuser because he has the SAME skin tone as them... obviously you are not very bright, otherwise you would of understood the words I wrote... READING is FUNDAMENTAL!

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hudamuhammad

Female, Age Private, Phoenix, AZ

Posted August 19, 2010

P.S. your 'sexist' face is showing 'roper', you called women 'females' but did not refer to men, as 'males' which is implying that you are comparing WOMEN, to animals and not males. You MUST be one of these 'lesser' persons I spoke of...

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Male, 36, Lithonia, GA

Posted August 19, 2010

hudamuhammad

There is nothing about me that is sexist. I respect you and all other women and men too. You are correct women do not need to be with any abusers or losers. You just put down black men a lot. I did not think that was cool at all. I will take your insults though. It's all good.

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hudamuhammad

Female, Age Private, Phoenix, AZ

Posted August 19, 2010

'roper' I do not put down black MEN, I however, DO put down masculine persons who are by their actions/behavior NOT MEN.

MEANING: respectful, intelligent, responsible persons who treat society male/female, black/white and all of earths inhabitants with RESPECT, as warranted. Meaning, I do not consider persons who also treat child molesters, murderers, rapists with respect as intelligent, moral or respectful of society.

I ALSO put down feminine persons who by their actions/behavior are not WOMEN.

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Male, 36, Lithonia, GA

Posted August 19, 2010

hudamuhammad

Understood. I do apologize if I disrespected you.

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