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Female, Age Private, Pleasanton, CA

Posted May 12, 2012

My brother is graduating from college this month.
He had a party for himself and invited family members that I don't like because they mistreated me.
I went anyway to the party. But I left because they were laughing at me and acting fake and ignoring me so it pissed me off.
I got home that night and told my brother off. I told him I don't want them at the graduation ceremony. He said to bad because they're coming. I said we'll then Im not going.
He said oh well.
Mind you he hasn't given me a ticket to the graduation. He has n't told me the date or time.
I just now its on a Sunday.
He tried speaking yesterday morning but I ignored him.
Now were not speaking. He's talking on the phone to those family members. They're taking my brother away now. They already badmouthed me to my friends. Now my own brother.
smh.
I feel so hurt. Is this God's will?

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Male, Age Private, Suisun City, CA

Posted May 16, 2012

Have a one on one with ur bro telling him how you really feel about the situation and why you dislike these family members. Thats really the only way your questions will be answered.

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ptfcuteness

Female, 48, Murfreesboro, TN

Posted June 20, 2012

I assuming your grown, so you dont have to take any crap from these family members. as far as telling your brother who to invite to his graduation, when did this day become about you, that selfish! how is selecting his guest list going to make him happy, he has a rite to have who he wants to come and celebrate his day with him. He wanted you there, so you were important but to try to make him chose to satisfy you is selfish he only graduate once he dont get this day back so grin and bare it or you can always stand up for your self with your family and stop being that child they mistreated! I'm just saying!

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dayzee

Female, 31, Beverly Hills, CA

Posted June 22, 2012

ptfcuteness

Female, 48, Murfreesboro, TN

I assuming your grown, so you dont have to take any crap from these family members. as far as telling your brother who to invite to his graduation, when did this day become about you, that selfish! how is selecting his guest list going to make him happy, he has a rite to have who he wants to come and celebrate his day with him. He wanted you there, so you were important but to try to make him chose to satisfy you is selfish he only graduate once he dont get this day back so grin and bare it or you can always stand up for your self with your family and stop being that child they mistreated! I'm just saying!

"as far as telling your brother who to invite to his graduation, when did this day become about you, that selfish!

- yep. Why did you make this about you? Your brother has done a great thing by graduating from college. If you cannot sit in the same room as them for a couple of hours to honor your brother you are being very, very selfish.

You should apologize and ask him if you can still attend. This is his day and you shouldn't make this about YOUR drama.

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