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UPDATED 11/22/09:

Okay fellas... since I haven't updated my personal message in about 7 years, I figured it's time to make some updates. I get a lot of notes asking to know about me. I am really not one to offer information about myself, but I will try my best. I will post some of the questions I get all the time and my answers:

1. AM I SINGLE? --- YES, but currently dating. (Never married, no kids)

2. WHAT DO I DO FOR FUN? --- It just depends! I am actually pretty simple. Occasionally, you may find me at a particular bar downtown Seattle on a Friday. As much as I love to dance, the club scene isn't like it used to be. I need my space on the dance floor, so going to a place where the person next to me is so close I can feel their sweat, just doesn't work for me. I'd much rather go to a place that plays the cuts but isn't as packed. If you saw me dance, you would understand why I need my space. My style is a little unique and I use my arms a lot. I can definitely get my groove on. I used to dance in a Hip Hop group way back . My style really developed after taking belly dance lessons. Somehow I started coordinating moves I learned in belly dancing with my hip hop. Needless to say, I do have a sexy style and it is not hard to draw attention on the dance floor. If I am not out kickin it, I am usually just chillin at home. Possibly playing some bones, spades, or whatever sounds good at the time (and sippin on my Grey Goose and tonic of course)! ;-) It is also possible you would find me out playing pool somewhere. I don't have many friends to play pool with anymore, so that is almost a rare occasion these days.

3. HOW OLD AM I? --- What do you think?

4. WHAT IS SOMETHING GOOD TO KNOW ABOUT ME? --- I am as REAL as they come. I am not one to keep secrets and don't mind someone knowing my business. The only way someone can accept me for me, is if they actually know me. I don't try to be something I'm not. I will always keep it REAL and if you ask me a direct question I will always tell you the truth. Just be careful what you ask, as I may not always tell you what you want to hear.

5. WHAT IS SOMETHING THAT PEOPLE UNDERESTIMATE ABOUT ME? --- Guys always seem to underestimate my intelligence. I am a problem solver by nature, so few things get past me. Trust me when I say you should take that statement literally. My mind thinks too logically so it catches any inconsistencies or things that do not make sense. I know a little about a LOT of things so it usually keeps me steps ahead of everyone else. Don't try to get over on me... you'll find I will totally play it off as you entertain me, but in the end the only one who looks like a fool is YOU.

6. FAVORITE SPORT TO WATCH? --- Boxing!!! Always been a fan. Grew up fighting with my older brother as a kid and we used to box it out all the time. Plus, my uncle used to box so I have grown up appreciating the sport.

7. HOW WOULD MOST OF MY GUY FRIENDS DESCRIBE ME? --- I am one of the only females (if not the only female) they actually consider to be like one of the guys (only sexier of course)! ;-) They like to have me around because I am not about drama (AT ALL), I can provide input from a female perspective without everything else that comes with it, and I am just all around cool as hell! I don't take things personally and can pretty much hold a conversation about ANYTHING. Like I already mentioned, I know a little about a lot of things so there are really no limits as to what I am willing to talk about. (So far anyway...) LOL

8. WHAT AM I PASSIONATE ABOUT? --- Music and Dancing! I LOVE to dance and there are just certain songs that put me on that level. The beat and the flow of the song are what catches me. My body either responds to a song or it doesn't. You are experiencing a few of those songs on my page right now. These are songs I can't sit still to. Unfortunately, I don't know of many places to get my groove on anymore. Can't do the packed clubs. I have to admit, the best time/place I have had out kickin it at a club was back in the day at T'nT in Kirkland on Tuesdays. Those who can remember that place may or may not be able to relate to me. You'd find me on the pool tables before midnight, and on the dance floor until close. I do miss those days... :-(

9. A POPULAR QUESTION: - WHY AM I STILL SINGLE? --- Well... evidently I have independence issues! Contrary to most people, I actually don't mind being by myself at all. I don't get lonely so it has never really been an issue for me. Not to mention that I just cannot commit myself to the "wrong" person. I think we ALL know when we are dating or in a relationship with someone, whether or not that person could potentially be that "one" person, or at least is still a good candidate should it end up that way. I have a problem with commitment in the sense of who it is to. I have NEVER cheated on a boyfriend, nor would I ever. Too many people jump from relationship to relationship because they either don't like being alone, or it is what is socially accepted or expected. Yet everyone I know has cheated on their girlfriend/boyfriend. There are too many people who don't hold relationships sacred... I am a little unique in that way as I am completely opposite. A committed relationship is totally sacred to me which is why I can't just enter one as easy as it is for everyone else. Dating is a good alternative for me. Any guy I date does become special to me, whether I commit to him or not. To me, it is all about friendship and respect. Keep it REAL, and you will never disrespect those you care about. I am still fairly close to guys I have dated over the years because there were never any bad experiences or drama. That is why I am VERY selective. These guys become friends for life, even as we move on with our lives in new relationships. Seriously guys... your best relationships will be the ones you can really open up and share things with, regardless how emotionally involved you are.

MORE TO COME SOON...

In case you guys don't know what a GOOD WOMAN wants...

A woman wants a man...
- who will talk to her
- who wants to know her
- who is honest and sincere
- who will always show her respect
- who is compassionate for other people
- who is emotionally and financially stable
- to know what he wants in life and to go after it
- will show her appreciation for the things she does for him
- who can recognize when he's made a mistake and admit it
REMEMBER THIS ONE - Every woman "WANTS" to be loved, buts she "NEEDS" to feel appreciated.

Some other words of wisdom... If a woman is with you because of what you told her you would do for her, then you deserve whatever you get. There is nothing wrong with taking care of your woman, because you should. You just have to know when the right time to do it is. If a woman is with you because you made her laugh and smile, that is a woman who is sincere. Because she loves you more than the things you give her. But if she loves the things you give her before she loves you, then you'll never truly know. Best of luck to you fellas lookin` for a good woman! They are limited these days...