I am a confident, secure, attractive, intelligent, mature,
fun-loving, sensual, compassionate, loving and giving individual. I
don't accept drama, nor do I bring drama to a relationship. What
baggage I carry, has been accepted and stored away, not to be
dumped on the next man in my life. I believe in open and honest
communication, sharing joys and tears with someone special and
having the willingness to try ALMOST anything.
My ideal man would have many of these qualities and beliefs, as
well as bringing laughter, love, companionship and most of all
friendship. He is secure, emotionally and financially. Giving,
caring, not afraid to show his feelings (in public as well as in
private), affectionate, a great kisser and possesses even more
finessed in the bedroom, when the time comes. He has a sense of
humor, but knows when to be serious and supportive.He is someone I
can lean on, who will put his arms around me and hold me when I
need it and then make me laugh to chase away the shadows. He loves
life, his family and God, but is not so wrapped up in any one of
them, that he neglects the others. He loves to travel, whether it
is weekend getaways or long cruises to exotic places. He loves
music, sports, and cuddling in front of the TV, but he NEVER hogs
the remote. If he can cook, that is all good, but he enjoys eating
a home cooked meal and appreciates good wine. His friends are
important and he gives them time in his life, but not to the
exclusion of me. He has his interests and goals and allows me to
have mine. He DOESN'T feel the need to know where I am every minute
or who I'm with, because he has trust in me (unless given reasons
not to trust, which I never would) and he doesn't worry that I will
be any less trusting unless given cause. He can come to me and talk
to me about anything, without screaming, temper-tantrums or flying
objects. He may not like what he hears, but it will be from my
heart and my truth! If he is out there, then I hope he will contact
me so we can talk. You can reach me at gabbygirl941 on yahoo
Your Birthdate: May 7
You are an island. You don't need anyone else to make you
happy.
And though you see yourself as a loner, people are drawn to
you.
Deep and sensitive, you tend to impress others with your
insights.
You also tend to be psychic - so listen to that inner voice!
Your strength: Your self sufficiency
Your weakness: You despise authority
Your power color: Maroon
Your power symbol: Hammer
Your power month: July
IF A MAN WANTS YOU
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not
meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly
happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a
friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he
probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you
later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even
if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a
quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord!? If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a
two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute
about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not
supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are,
and your
always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that
you need.
