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Grandma...

Posted August 06th, 2008 at 02:20am

Grandma
The one who elevates my esteem.
You are .
Truly
Beautiful inside and out
Your smile is joy when you allow me to see it
Just looking upon your eyes,
Dark,
Full of power and wisdom
Your face: the essence of a true black woman
The cheerfulness in your talk
Sweetness of you calm
The pain of trials long ago, now forgotten
The sweetness in your face
In between my fingers, your hair flows, so smooth and silky
Your laughter so rotund,
With effervescent bubbly sounds
That linger long after you mouth them.
Your effortless beauty hits your height
To the ground.
The love you spread is overflowing
What I see when I look deep inside of me

Are echos of you

in the image of me.



Me, my Mom, and my Grandma
( yea i know we have good genes!!)

W.E.B. Du Bois

Posted August 06th, 2008 at 02:12am

W.E.B. Du Bois


"It is a peculiar sensation, this double-consciousness, this sense of always looking at one's self through the eyes of others, of measuring one's soul by the tape of a world that looks on in amused contempt and pity"


The quote above talks about seeing yourself through the eyes of another and not truly knowing a person's true self.


"He would not Africanize America, for America has too much to teach the world and Africa. He would not bleach his Negro soul in a flood of white Americanism, for he knows that Negro blood has a message for the world. He simply wishes to make it possible for a man to be both a Negro and an American, without being cursed and spit upon by his fellows, without having the doors of Opportunity closed roughly in his face."


Double-consciousness is also the thought that black people are in constant struggle with their African heritage and their American citizenship. Neither one totally defines a black person; forgetting one would be neglecting an important aspect of themselves. The battle between these two creates a double consciousness.


This was a genuine issue at that time, is a genuine issue of this time, and will continue to be a genuine issue in the years ahead. In living daily life African Americans not only struggle with how much, if at all, to conform with American/white society, but also how much to embrace their African heritage. It becomes a struggle to totally accept one without neglecting the other, both creating the person who they are. And to be accepted in each community becomes a struggle also; the limitation of acceptance increases their hesitance to conform wholly to either side.

12 types of females.... which one/ mix of one do u think i am!?!?

Posted August 06th, 2008 at 01:52am

12 types of females! ..... which one is ashley!??! u let me know!!! lol






1. Ms. Gold-Digger Advantages
a. You have some one to manage your money.
b. She always looks good.
c. She makes your other niggas jealous.
d. She makes you look good.
Disadvantages
a. When you get broke she'll be gone and take what you have left.
b. She makes sure she has a child by you to sue you for child support.
c. Once your nigga comes up she'll be on his arm the next day.






2. Ms. Freak (secret lover) Advantages
a. She knows all the right positions.
b. She'll try everything more than once.
c. You're never unsatisfied.
d. She'll do all the things your girl won't do.
e. She doesn't mind being your freak, as long as she catches one too.
Disadvantages
a. Eventually, b/c she's a female, she'll end up catching feelings.
b. She starts to act like she's your "main".
c. She fucks wit ya boy and act like you in the wrong for telling her that she's a freak.
d. Eventually her shit gets old. And you need a replacement.






3. Ms. Independent
Advantages
a. You don't have to worry about buying her anything. She got it.
b. She's intelligent, sassy, confident and determined.
c. She's great for (business) conversation.
d. She keeps it real and has goals.
e. She knows how to please a man.
Disadvantages
a. She will continuously let you know, that she can handle it on her own.
b. She will eventually say fuck you and get a dildo.
c. She will consider you another one her play toys, or goals.






4. Ms. Dyme
Advantages
a. She's top of the line.
b. She stays looking like a fantasy.
c. She has the body of a goddess with the face to match.
d. She considers herself a "model"
e. Gets you on hard whenever you see her.
f. All the girls envy her, but she doesn't care.
Disadvantages a. She's superficial. She cares only about her looks.
b. She honestly lacks confidence and will annoy you about the way she looks.
c. She's probably dumb as hell and if she's not her personality is dry.
d. You have to constantly keep your game up b/c every nigga is gonna try to get her.






5. Ms. Tomboy
Advantages
a. She's cool and laid back.
b. She'll be willing to play rough with you.
c. Of course, she loves sports.
d. Her body is athletically divine.
e. She's easy to talk to and fun to be around.
f. She's a diamond in the rough.
Disadvantages
a. She'll remind you too much of your nigga.
b. She might not want to change her appearance.
c. She might actually beat you in basketball, football and track.






6. Ms. Ghetto
Advantages
a. She's not afraid of any other female or male. She will fight to keep you.
b. She's down for you. She'll be there to bail you out of jail.
c. She's always stays fresh.
d. She can cook up a storm. She can make the best out of a bad situation.
e. She keeps it real and keeps you satisfied.
Disadvantages
a. She doesn't know how to act in public.
b. Your mama can't stand her.
c. You get into with her every other second.
d. She's willing to fight another girl looking at you or her PERIOD.
e. Her weave colors are distracting and her vocabulary is minimal.






7. Ms. Good Girl
Advantages
a. She's always there for you.
b. She's intelligent, classy, kind, sweet and cool.
c. Your mother loves her.
d. You can see yourself falling in love with her.
e. You are her first everything.
f. She makes you feel like a man.
Disadvantages
a. She's an A or B situation either:
A. You're not gonna get any until ya'll are married
B. She said she's never done - she said she's never tried - she's sitting there telling a muthafukkin' lie.






8. Ms. Main
Advantages
a. She is the one you respect.
b. She probably may know about the others but might not care.
c. She has all the qualities you want in a female.
d. You've been with her forever.
Disadvantages
a. She starts getting very suspicious and calls you every moment.
b. She will devise a plan to catch you in your act and then kick your ass






9. Ms. Psycho
Advantages
a. She's fun and spontaneous.
b. She's down to earth.
c. She loves you unconditionally.
d. Everything about her is too good to be true. So everyone loves her.
e. She makes you feel loved.
Disadvantages
a. Don't you break up with her. She will stalk your ass.
b. She keeps pictures of you everywhere and knows everything about you.
c. She can manipulate the hell out of you.
d. She will consider herself wifey even if she may just be that chick on the side.
e. Fuckin' with her can make your life a living hell.






10. Ms. I have a Man
Advantages
a. She may have a man but she'll mess with you anyway.
b. She looks good.
c. You have an intense night of passion with her.
Disadvantages
a. She'll always come crying to you about the problems with her man.
b. She'll get you caught up and then leave you anyway for her man.
c. If you piss her off she'll get her man to come beat your ass.
d. She'll unofficially make you her man once she gets pissed off at her real man.






11. Ms. Tease
Advantages
a. She's tempting and a nice piece of eye candy.
b. She's intelligent, athletic, respectable and SEXXXXXXY.
c. She knows how to turn you on without touching you.
d. Everything she does is just so sensual.
e. She can bring you to that point and make you wait to get it.
f. Every time you see her you catch a mini orgasm.
g. Every nigga wants her b/c she's so mysterious and that makes you want to get her first.
Disadvantages a. NO matter what you think or do you never get it.
b. She probably has a long distance boyfriend somewhere that you will never know about.
c. She gets you hard and leaves you like that. (Unbearable)






12. MRS. RIGHT
Advantages
a. She is not sexy, fine, or a dyme she is Beautiful and therefore encompasses all of these descriptions.
b. She is intelligent, sassy, funny, outgoing, determined, strong and classy.
c. She can cook or at least order a meal that is just like your mother's.
d. Her personality is just as beautiful as her body.
e. She believes in God and follows his virtues.
f. She knows that a relationship requires a 200% quota yet she gives her man an extra 10%.
g. She can please her man in anyway. Mentally, Spiritually, and Sexually.
h. She makes you recognize your full potential as a man and completes you.
i. She's always there for, no matter what your dreams are.
j. She's not afraid to tell you the truth and set you straight.
k. You can talk to her and confide in her, she's your best friend.
l. You love being around her more than your boys.
m. You can share your most intimate moments with her without sex.
n. You can have a bad argument with her and have the BEST Mind Numbing and passionate love making fest ever.
o. She's always willing to find a way to work out your problems and will often take most of your *bleep*. But she's also intelligent enough to leave.
p. She's nothing like any other girl you've met. She's your woman.






Disadvantage
a. You've probably met her, or had her in your life but got too consumed with all the other types that you let her go

apples and women

Posted September 30th, 2007 at 01:17am

I THINK WOMEN ARE LIKE APPLES ON TREES.THE BEST ONE`S ARE AT THE TOP OF THE TREE. SOME MEN DON`T WANT TO REACH FOR THE GOOD ONES BECAUSE THEY ARE AFRAID OF FALLING AND GETTING HURT. INSTEAD,



THEY JUST GET THE ROTTEN APPLES FROM THE GROUND THAT AREN`T AS GOOD BUT EASY. SO THE APPLES AT THE TOP THINK SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH THEM,WHEN IN REALITY,



THEY ARE AMAZING! THEY JUST HAVE TO WAIT FOR THE RIGHT MAN TO COME ALONG,THE ONE WHO`S BRAVE ENOUGH TO CLIMB ALL THE WAY TO THE TOP OF THE TREE.

to: my "ex"..... *sob*

Posted September 30th, 2007 at 01:14am

Tear inside my closed chest
Through the skin and the bone
Take hold, take arrest
Of that heart beat now stone

No longer is it alive
That heart not beating or red
There is no hope to revive
That pounding organ is dead

Unknown; the cause of its demise
Was it his tricks, was it his lies?
Maybe the way he made me smile...
Laughing and joking all the while...

Not realizing convenience was all it was
Mere distraction with a little flare
But it collapsed all because
I showed I loved him and I cared

not red, a little pink tho ;)

Posted September 30th, 2007 at 01:10am

the basis of capitalism is competition
the basis of racism is competition
If A= C
B=C
then does...

A=B


does that then mean that capitalism = racism!? you tell me

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Wasup? I'm Ashley-lol not "ma" . I currently am in school for physical therapy and i work 2 jobs--Adminstrative Assistant and i sell Mary Kay. I have Multiple Sclerosis- and am fine with having it-God and my Dr. are keeping it in remission so thats always a good thing!! Hobbies? hmmm shopping, chillin with my friends, cooking (yum my foods great -lol), reading, buying SHOES(oops I already said shopping!, clubbin-lounges, watchin movies n whatnot--- yup thats me.

 

Just an FYI- my fav drink in the club/lounge is an apple martini.... and when that doesnt work (cause i know it wont, it just looks cute) its shots of patron- lol yea

 

my yahoo im is wai2kute

 

 

 

(oh, and below is my cuzzin who i love dearly-- i dont have any kids of my own-- i dont have the patience!! lol)


 



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