goodblkman901 I am who I am, your approval is not needed. If you don't like don't look. - July 20, 2011 add/view comments (2)

Hello and Welcome to my page on BP. Take me as I am. WHO AM I? "I've been poor, rich & now I'm poor again. Just a penniless mAn who is rich within." ARE YOU STILL READING? Some make it seem like a bad thing to know yourself and what you want in your life. Okay, I'm a bad thing I guess.I know that I'm GOD fearing, no not the most religious but spiritual. I am loyal & honest. Why? Because I have ZERO TOLERANCE for liars and drama. I am not a perfect man but I'm perfectly made for HER. I value TRUE friends and cronies who enjoy living life to the fullest with NO REGRETS. I am alone but not lonely, a COMMON MAN who had a bitter past that is now building a sweeter future. I am passionate & confident not arrogant but your opinion about me don't concern me. I LOVE traveling, cooking, staying fit, writing and reading poems, shooting pool, drawing, photography, board games (dominoes, spades) and dancing. I am very protective of my time with my sons. (sorry if you don't understand) I completely understand about pain and heart ship. Oh yes, I can truly relate to the feeling of deception toward the same person who CLAIMED to love you unconditionally. Now I rather the love of a true friend, than lust of a fake lover. NO,I'm not here for SEX! What am I looking for? BEST FRIEND WANTED! I'm at a age where I desire quality and not quantity but I see this dating scene has changed a lot. No more friends 1st? (what a mind game) How can you seek a serious relationship without having casual encounter? (get real) Is there ONE FAITHFUL, assertive, HONEST, NON-SMOKING black sister left? That seek to be found? That has goals and is self-motivated. I want my soulmate not a playmate. One who know how to overcome objectives and willing to learn, teach, and share a emotional bonds. An outspoken, sane, proud but respectful black lady. Who is opinionated by not closed minded. A lady of substance & purpose.(Why are you so damn hard to find?) I would love for her to care about her health (fit) and physical appearance. A lady who is blessed with words that comfort, support & encourage. That is WILLING to give and receive love freely without any comparison to friends, family or even pasted relationships. Meaning she would allow a man to stand on his merit and look beyond the stereo-type that society has set on how a man should act, look, and what he should have worldly before she may consider giving him the time of day. I don't want a sister I can live with, I PRAY for that ONE I can't live without. R U HER? I would like to add some of my work. My Heart Speaks

I can whisper I love you and you can say it in return
But my heart always ask me boy when will you learn
That love should be shown and felt through admiration
It can only be kept with unconditional dedication
But from you these words should never be spoken
Baby-boy, I just can't do it because I'm tired of being broken.
You should only settle for what you desire in life and nothing less
My only purpose is to see you happy but on me it's to much stress
While you sleep my pace is slow as I pray for Allah to help you out
HE replied to my surprise,"THAT YOU MUST LEARN WHAT LIFE IS ABOUT"
Time show blessings He'll lead the way
Through hurt & pain strength you gain to see a brighter day
So in closing be-careful because I don't want to depart
I'd embrace you if I could Samuel listen to your HEART
TRUE hopeless romantic, (A DREAMER) I still believe...... in GOD & the POWER of PRAYER, MIRACLES, AND BLESSINGS. thx Mom I still believe......that it's nothing wrong with treating a sister as a Queen, (even if sometime she is not acting so majestic) because it's alright to have a bad day. I still believe....... in putting to use of the manners that our parents & life have taught us, cuddling time, long walks, good dating (courtship), cooking together, becoming a friend FIRST and if it lead to more then don't fight it unless the two involved feel the friendship would be in jeopardy. I still believe...... in open lines of communication (NO LIES) and it's alright to agree to disagree, and there is no need for harsh words or physical abuse to be used to get one's point across. I value your opinion as I value you. I still believe...... in HONESTY, RESPECT, MORALS, BEING FAITHFUL! I still believe...... in slow dancing with my lady even when there is no music playing except from the rhythm of our hearts, giving her gentle kisses of appreciation for being in my life and that new founded love. I STILL BELIEVE....... because I believe in ME! BE CLEAR! I'm not GAY or DL, I'm single by choice. I rather be alone than be a fling.

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