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  • Category: Entertainment & Arts
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  • Location: Bronx, NY
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CHECK IT;...I think youll all agree with me that seeing your partner usually a female, in an absolutely vulnerable position cannot be any hotter! With her hands shackled above her head and her thighs shackled on either side of her so that her feet cannot touch the ground and shes forced to suspend above the floor with her legs wide open, exposing her tight little cuunt, a picture perfect position of helplessness.Its really an art if you look at the way shes suspended, her pumpum lips spread open, her mouth gagged so that she cannot yell. I have always loved watching and giving,i wont say anymore about it or else Ill probably ruin it for you,lol.

True story; A member of this group,name i wont mention,once sent me a note to thank me for the group.her story unlike others,moves me in so many ways, so much that she's became my number one member.she called herself Slave.To the outside world a dedicated wife and mother, but only she knew the different needs and desires that had tormented her mind since her teens.her need to serve, to submit and to obey, how powerful those needs had grown over the years but her husband really didnt care to explore that other side of her after their 10-years marriage,and in search for a new lover, she joined this group and were finally able to meet the man of her lifestyle.She express's how great their sex life is now,so good that she feels really young again.GOSHHHH!! i love it..you wanna hear something else,They're planing to get marriage ASAP..cant get any better that that..GOOD LUCK! girl dont forget to send us some invitation or photos...you see,her story is so remarkable; stories like her's are the reason im doing this....

In fact..Many people practice some element of BDSM in their sexual lives without even being aware of it. They may think of "S&M" as "That sick stuff that people do with whips and cattle prods and stuff," yet still blindfold one another from time two times, or tie one another down n break out the whipped cream. All of these things are "BDSM." BDSM is not necessarily hardcore sadomasochism; it can be remarkably subtle and sensual and soft.


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submissive SIGN IN !
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Please shout which state and/or country you're from!
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westindian6969


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What do u enjoy most when engaging in dom/sub/switc...role?!
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westindian6969


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I GET WET or HARD WHEN YOU........
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Poetrykitten


westindian6969


PAIN SLUTS
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MoJoe_Man


Any Fem Dom BP members in New Orleans, or visiting
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Very few people actually have what it takes to be successful dominants, and real dominants are actually quite rare, as many more people have the desire to dominate someone sadomasochistically than have the ability to do it well.

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Very few people actually have what it takes to be successful dominants, and real dominants are actually quite rare, as many more people have the desire to dominate someone sadomasochistically than have the ability to do it well. To dominate someone sexually requires a lot of very hard work on the dominant's part; a successful dominant does this hard work because the rewards, for him, are worth it.

As an example, to dominate a deep and needy submissive successfully (in other words, in a way that ensures that both of you are happy and fulfilled)--even a highly motivated, sincere, and obedient submissive--requires an ability to cope with numerous emotional freakouts, resistances, and confusions in one's submissive partner, especially during the first few live-in years of the relationship.

If you can't control yourself--your vices, your emotions, your tendency to act out--you cannot control another person. You are too weak and self-indulgent to control another. As mentioned above, all submissives, even the best, resist control at times. Dealing with that resistance in a way that encourages good behavior in the submissive and helps to train her to be a better submissive and a happier person means

realizing from the start that your submissive's actions, however you may dislike them, are not about you. They are, rather, about her problems with submitting. Learning not to respond narcissistically--i.e., with anger, personal affront, hurt, or defensiveness--when she behaves in a resisting or manipulative way, is part of self-control. Instead of overreacting, a self-controlled dominant will rationally and over time devise workable strategies based on his intimate knowledge of his submissive that discourage the behavior and attitudes he dislikes.

It's incredibly easy to dominate someone from a distance. It's so easy, in fact, that many men who are not genuinely dominant have discovered that if they put on this "act," they can have as many no-strings-attached cyber-slaves as they like. The problem comes when such "dominants" begin, as they often do, to believe their own propaganda and start to consider themselves to be superdoms, even though they've never had any experience in controlling anyone in real life. Such a superdork, er--

excuse me--superdom, thinks that actually dominating someone in real life is identical to the virtually effortless fantasy play that he conducts on line or over the phone. So, considering himself to be eminently qualified, he orders some poor, lovestruck submissive to leave her home and to move in with him. And when both he and his gullible partner are forced to deal with the reality of dominance and submission, the disaster begins. Actually to dominate someone who lives with you requires much, much more from you than the ability to create a sexy fantasy on a computer screen or to assume a stern tone or to issue commands over the phone or in email to an always compliant and willing part-time submissive who spends the majority of her largely independent life without you.

Very few people actually have what it takes to be successful dominants, and real dominants are actually quite rare, as many more people have the desire to dominate someone sadomasochistically than have the ability to do it well. To dominate someone full-time and in person requires a lot of very hard work on the dominant's part; a successful dominant does this hard work because the rewards, for him, are worth it. It also requires information, even wisdom, about what both dominant and submissive must do to make this sort of relationship work that at present is unavailable in the fantasy-laden S&M Scene community and its written materials.