LADIES! Here is an excerpt from SEX-THERAPY -A Woman's Guide To Understanding Why Men Cheat-
It's off the chain!!!!
Okay. You meet a guy online named
Johnny. Hes really attractive, with a great sense of humor. You chat back and forth for a few days, until you decide that its okay to give him your number, and then he calls, and you begin talking on the phone.
Johnny has a great voice, and hes really easy to talk to. So you spend the night conversing about everything and about nothing, as you are lulled to sleep sound of his voice.
This goes on for almost a week. It is at this time you two agree that its time to meet. You figure that if the serial killer hasnt come out by now, then hes probably okay.
You and Johnny both love Thai-food, so you arrange to meet for dinner at your favorite spot uptown.
When you arrive at the restaurant, Johnny is already there. You immediate spot him sitting at a table in the center of the dining room. He is way cuter than he looked in the pictures he posted on facebook.
Hes talking on his cell-phone, and seems to be engrossed in some kind of really deep conversation, so he doesnt even see you as you approach the table.
You stand there without saying a word, politely waiting for him to look up and acknowledge you. During his conversation it becomes apparent by the smoothness of his tone and his sly facial expression that he is speaking to a woman. So you clear your throat to gain his attention.
When he looks up, and realizes that its you, he is startled. He immediately changes his posture, and abruptly ends his phone call, as he stands in a hurry to greet you.
Oh, wow! I didnt see you standing there. He says, as you couldnt already tell that by his nervous rambling.
Im glad you made it Please have a seat., He says, stepping beside you to pull out your chair, like a gentleman.
You are some what impressed by his manners and gentleman like courtesy as you sit down. That is, until you happen to turn around and notice him making eyes at the two girls who are sitting at the table across from you.
He turns back around to find that he has been caught in the act of reckless eye-ballin. He smiles at you in a bogus attempt to play it off, and Johnny is just so damn cute that you quickly forget all about his rude behavior, chalking it up to a momentary lapse in judgment.
He takes his seat just as your pretty little Asian waitress arrives at the table to get your order. As you peruse the menu, trying to decide what you want to eat, you look up again at your date to catch him now sizing up Suzy Wong, like she was an appetizer on the dinner menu.
Johnny turns around to find you with your arms folded, and almost rolling your eyes right out of your head. He smiles and throws on the charm, as you again catch amnesia, and melt like soft butter on a hot cornbread muffin.
This foolishness continues through out the night. Even after you leave the restaurant, hes flirting with the girl behind the ticket window at the movie theater. But, you let him slide!
Then, when you leave there, hes winking at the girls in the car next to you as he drives you home. And you continue excusing his insensitive behavior as just being friendly. Because after all, he is really cute, and besides, boys will be boys.
So, you and Johnny hook up, and start seeing each other on a regular basis. Things soon become serious.
Fast forward ahead six-months to the present. Now Johnny is your boyfriend, and here you are crying your eyes out to your three best friends, like a climactic scene from Waiting To Exhale.
Because unbeknownst to you, Johnny is everybodys boyfriend.
Apparently, Johnnys been busy. For the past six months hes not only been dating you, but hes also been tip-toeing through the tulips with Suzy Wong from your favorite Thai restaurant, and the ticket girl from the movie Cineplex, in addition to four other chix he was already messing around with on facebook.
Your girls shake their heads, each whispering, I knew it all along underneath their breath, as you cry a fist full of tears.
And all this, simply because you failed to read the signals that were right in front of you from the very beginning. But you dont need me to say I told you so, your girl-friends already took care of that.
Now, comes the part where you look at yourself in the mirror, and say Never again! Right?
Wrong! Because until you learn to stop making excuses for butt-headed jerks who wouldnt know a good thing if she walked up and kicked him square in the cahones, then you will always be heartbroken and frustrated.
But dont worry.
Kole Black has you covered!
Just sit back, relax, and take note, as I reveal the real reasons that men find it so hard to be faithful.
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