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01/28/07 "Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails" First Corinthians 13:4-8.

This is one of my favorite scriptures because this is what I call true love. The name of this love is agape love and this is the godly love; the way God loves us. This is how we men are supposed to love our wife and how women suppose to love their husband. With two people loving each other like this you won't have to worry about falling out of love because this love is not based upon "what have you done for me lately." This love doesn't go away or lessen because you gained weight over the years, you have fallen on some financial difficulties, all your muscles aren't as tight as they use to be, your hair is turning gray, etc. This love isn't like a song we love and we always want to hear it but after awhile of listening to it over and over again we get tired of it and don't want to hear it anymore or maybe just everyone once in a blue moon. This love will always love the song, it will be an all time favorite, classic, and it will always be appreciated. Not taking for granted because you got it now and you feel it will always be there. This love is very possible to have in a relationship but it is almost impossible if we don't have love for God. It is hard to truly love another person (agape love) when we do not have the love of God because "God is love" (I John 4:16)

I love, love but before I can get there I first need a firm foundation of friendship. True friendship not the one who is just doing what you are doing to try and make the person like you. Not one with hidden agendas just truly let what happens happen and let things take its natural course. The one where you can be yourself and the person is your best friend. You can tell them the good with the bad and they still accept you because they know we all have our faults and things we are working on. As far as a relationship you have to really know is this the one for you (the one God wants for you). Just because he is a good man and your good woman doesn't always mean that you all are meant to be together in holy matrimony.

Thank you all who have taken time to read my page. As you can tell I love God and love talking about Him. I'm in no way a holly roller, meaning that I don't think I'm better than anyone because of this or that. Like I said before no one is perfect and it's not in my character to judge anyone. There is so much more to me than what is on my page on so many different levels. I won't even try to go through everything but I'm a good listener and I'm open to chatting up here on BP. Also, please excuse me if you see that I looked at your page and I didn't leave a note. Usually when I'm up here I just read pages and check my notes. Don't let that stop you from hitting me up and let me know if you felt I was being rude.

Originally wrote on 12/01/06 Edited on 01/28/07

"The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord, and he delights in his way." Psalm 37:23

One reason I know I am a good man is because God is number one in my life. I am following Him and I'm enjoying this path my life is on. Whatever state I am in I have learned to be content with it as well as keep my joy and peace in Him. Now I am not trying to convey that I am perfect or near perfect. I can look back even recently and see where I did my own thing for a little while and I did not let the Lord order my steps. I have gotten into situations that I rather had not been in but I am still a work in progress. However, no matter how many times I fall I will get back up again. I want to learn from all of the mistakes I have made. So, when a similar situation comes back up I will already know how to defeat it and claim victory over it. I will always love the Lord first and strive to know Him more intimately. Also, when I say I'm a good man I don't merely mean I have a great potential to be a good mate but also a good father, brother, uncle, son, role model, leader, follower, friend, and more. I'm not cocky but I am confident in who I am in God. Also, I'm truly about growing my life on a holistic level; spiritually, emotionally, financially, educationally, physically, and mentally.

Thank you for reading just a little about the man I am. Also, know that there are still good God fearing black men out here. Have a blessed day and if you have any questions about what I wrote or any other comments send me a note. I reply to basically all of my notes.

"A good man obtains favor from the Lord" Proverbs 12:2a