If you are here for love, my only suggestion is that you really take the time to develop friendships from the site; all else that may follow is a blessing in and of itself. Not all are going to be pleasant experiences but know that BP really does have some members who are real and willing to pursue love with the right person. Don't fall for just any ole' bull, become friends and take it from there. Most importantly have fun and be safe, and i'll see you around the planet at some point or another.
UPDATE MAY 30,2008
I opened this page and thought maybe I should write a short message in hopes of actually getting some type of response from the planet (Ladies primarily). That has proven to be ineffective. Howbeit, I have had some responses, the overall experience has been null. I'm still trying to figure out EXACTLY what others are using this site for. If you know, please, do tell.
MY COMPLAINTS
If you have a page listing you as searching for friendship and/or possibly more, but don't respond to sincere notes.... That's just rude and inconsiderate. A simple "Thanks, I'm flattered but..." will suffice.
If you list yourself as being SINGLE, and conversation reveals you are not... That's called LYING!
If you are a TRANSSEXUAL/TRANSGENDER listing yourself as the sex YOU WANT TO BE but really aren't.... That ain't cool. We have enough problems with racial identity, and now we have to deal with sexual identity...... Can we get a break from this madness?
If you judge me by the number of people in my friends list.... MOST I don't know and PROBABLY won't ever get to know. Those who do know me, VALUE every bit of my friendship.
If you say you only respond to profiles with pictures, and post a picture of yourself when you were 18 and now you are 35 experiencing the effects of gravity.... If you thought you were cute then, don't let gravity convince you that you aren't cute now. Hold your head up high or do your part to reverse those effects. Don't MISLEAD anyone, it seriously has proven to be fatal.
If you have that he/she ain't cute enough attitude.... Its the internet, your possibilities are endless, but don't let the best thing to ever happen to you slip away because of bad lighting on a picture or you thought JOE1 looks better than JOHN2. JOE1 could turn out to be your WORST nightmare, and JOHN2 could end up your bestfriends Knight in Shining Armor.
If your profile reads like THIS LIST of COMPLAINTS and nothing more.... You should try another avenue of therapy. In my opinion, EVERY profile should say something POSITIVE.
AND MOVING RIGHT ALONG............
Hello to you all and Thank You for stopping by my page. I am Sadiki and I would like to meet people of excellent caliber. I feel College Degrees are meaningless if your character lacks true substance. Please don't brag, it's really a piece of paper. There is a difference between Educated and Intelligent, you've come to the right place if a healthy mix is what you desire.............
I want to meet like minded individuals with goals and aspirations, who are fun and fun to be around. I like to get out and do things of all sorts, especially travel. I am a photographer by trade/passion and I have an extreme love of most music. I DO NOT DANCE, but I will go to the club/bar with GOOD COMPANY. I would like to meet someone I can click with on all levels, but good friendship is first and foremost..................
Oh! By the way, I'm originally from Oklahoma City, Oklahoma a "Country Boi", but don't let the cowboy hat fool you! I AM NOT PRIMITIVE.
