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YOU'LL WANT TO READ TO THE BOTTOM, I'M WORTH IT....

UPDATE JUNE 13, 2010

God makes no mistakes, and having said that I think it pertinent that I let this be known: I AM A FATHER. No matter what YOU may think, there is nothing about it that I am ashamed of. I went through a period where I viewed the choices I made that resulted in the births of my children as mistakes and I now see that they were given to me for a reason. YOU don't have to like it, that is your choice. However if you are looking to date me and that is a hang-up for you.... DON'T WASTE OUR TIME...

I know this is not the tone most are accustomed to me writing but I'm tired of those who feel that children are a mistake when the parents aren't together. The truth is children are a GOD SENT BLESSING. I'd be a dog for sure had he not blessed me with little me's to slow me down and mature me.. OK now if you are still here reading you really are in for a treat....

Just had to get that off my chest for all of those with these illusions and fairy tale about men with children.... Oh did you ever think that I might have been married too so they aren't all "little bastard children" as one BP member so rudely stated... I'm just saying... And she wonders why she can't get a man....

 

If you are here for love, my only suggestion is that you really take the time to develop friendships from the site; all else that may follow is a blessing in and of itself. Not all are going to be pleasant experiences but know that BP really does have some members who are real and willing to pursue love with the right person. Don't fall for just any ole' bull, become friends and take it from there. Most importantly have fun and be safe, and i'll see you around the planet at some point or another.

UPDATE MAY 30,2008

 

I opened this page and thought maybe I should write a short message in hopes of actually getting some type of response from the planet (Ladies primarily). That has proven to be ineffective. Howbeit, I have had some responses, the overall experience has been null. I'm still trying to figure out EXACTLY what others are using this site for. If you know, please, do tell.

MY COMPLAINTS~~~ IF YOU'VE NEVER SEEN THE ENTIRE LIST, I APOLOGIZE BUT SOMEHOW I DELETED THEM WHEN I DID MY LAST UPDATE...

If you have a page listing you as searching for friendship and/or possibly more, but don't respond to sincere notes.... That's just rude and inconsiderate. A simple "Thanks, I'm flattered but..." will suffice.

If you list yourself as being SINGLE, and conversation reveals you are not... That's called LYING!

If you are a TRANSSEXUAL/TRANSGENDER listing yourself as the sex YOU WANT TO BE but really aren't.... That ain't cool. We have enough problems with racial identity, and now we have to deal with sexual identity...... Can we get a break from this madness?

If you judge me by the number of people in my friends list.... MOST I don't know and PROBABLY won't ever get to know. Those who do know me, VALUE every bit of my friendship.

 

ABOUT ME:

I AM SOMEONES SON, BROTHER, FATHER, UNCLE, COUSIN, and FRIEND... I love the outdoors... I am an Intellect and enjoy being engaged in stimulating conversations... I am a photographer who loves to see the world through his own eyes and capture that moment in time to be preserved FOREVER... The beauty of a woman is something I could not live without for the purest essence of a woman lies in her ability to put up with MEN (Me)... I am happiest when I am making someone else happy, someone else smile, someone else think beyond the box of normalcy... I am not complacent and do not desire to surround myself with people who are... I thirst for knowledge and try to learn something new each day, no matter how big or small it may be... I live for the thrill of what life has in store and wouldn't trade that for the world. Each day brings a new challenge that I am up to figuring out... I believe that life is too short to live it with regrets sans I HAVE NONE... I was a boy who grow to become the man I am today through the lessons of life I experienced, and a better man through the trials those lessons put me through...  I AM SADIKI.... You should get to know me.....

 

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  • Member Since:

    September 14, 2007

  • Sex:

    Male

  • Age:

    37

  • Last Login:

    January 29

  • Location:

    Oklahoma City, OK

  • Race:

    Black/African American, Native American

  • Zodiac:

    Cancer


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