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    May 19, 2000

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    Female

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  • Age:

    42

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  • Last Login:

    December 28, 2011

  • Education:

    Vocational - Degree

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    Healthcare - Business Office & Finance

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    Black/African American

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    Capricorn


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*****Update!! I am not looking for anything but friendly conversation and friendship. So please stop sending me notes about hooking up or what you can do for me. I see nothing wrong with chatting every now and then or signing people`s guestbook. And if I do happen to pass by your way I`ll let my presense be known, and I would hope you would do the same.*****

To the ladies who stop by you are more then welcome to sign my guestbook, sometimes it's nice to get some love from one another in a postive way. We need to stop all the hate and lift each other up!



Why Is Personal Happiness So Important?

I have a theory. No, it's more like a dream. It's not a unique dream, many have dreamt it. It's the desire for the all those on this planet to be loving towards each other. For peace and tranquility among mankind. For a song, which if heard by distant planets, would sing out, We Love.?

My theory is about HOW I see this dream manifesting. And it all starts with you. It begins with personal responsibility for yourself.

Others have spoken of it. You see it drift through our culture in the form of songs and books. It's quiet and its subtle. You can hear it in a song by Michael Jackson...?if you want to make the world a better place, take a look at yourself, and make a change....I'm starting with the man in the mirror?.

Theres a movement towards claiming ourselves. Claiming our thoughts, feelings and actions as our own. Of taking back the reins of ownership, responsibility, and consequential control that comes with ownership. Were starting to take that outstretched finger we've been pointing at every one else, and turning it back towards ourselves. Not in blame, but for answers.

We started with Freud thinking that our subconscious was responsible for our emotions and behavior.

Then we became the product of our childhood's, believing our past determines our future.

Astrology, birth sequence, genetics, you name it, we continued to search for the reasons we are the way we are. But in looking outside ourselves we are left feeling helpless. Victims to things outside our influence.

Hopelessness lives in the idea that who we are is somehow dependent and controlled by someone else or some outside circumstance. We start believing the best we could do was learn to cope and adapt. Taking the good with the bad, I think they call it.

The idea that we ourselves create who we are, can for many, be terrifying. We associate responsibility with guilt and blame. At first we want to turn away from this responsibility and the power suggested in that concept. The power over who you are. It can be overwhelming to some. But with that responsibility comes a freedom that no country can offer you and and no man can give you.










The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or touched. They must be felt with the heart.







WHAT IS A FRIEND?



A friend is somebody who knows you and likes you, exactly the way that you are. Someone who`s special and so close in thought, that no distance can ever seem far.A friend is somebody who shares all your secrets and laughs at the same things you do. who helps you make plans and is happy to hear when something nice happens to you, and whether you`re neighbors or live miles apart, A word from a friend gives a lift to your heart and your spirit that shows you once more...WHY FRIENDSHIP IS LIFE"S DEAREST GIFT!!!
*If you can hold a decent and respectable conversation I can be reach on AOL MESSENGER as Irrestisibleone*





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cognac9
cognac9

Male, 53, Virginia Beach, VA

Posted December 30, 2009



cognac9
cognac9

Male, 53, Virginia Beach, VA

Posted January 01, 2009



KnightKen9
KnightKen9

Male, 45, Southfield, MI

Posted August 05, 2008


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cognac9
cognac9

Male, 53, Virginia Beach, VA

Posted July 18, 2008


WHAT IS A FRIEND??

What is a friend? I will tell you. It is a person
with whom you dare to be yourself!! Your soul can
be naked with him. He seems to ask of you to put on
nothing, Only to be what you are. He does not want
you to be better or worse when you are with
him. You feel as a prisoner feels who has been
declared innocent. You do not have to be on your
guard. You can say what you think, so long as it is
genuinely you. He understands those contradictions
in your nature that lead others to misjudge you.
With him you breathe freely. You can avow your little
vanities and envies and hates and vicious sparks. Your
meannesses and absurdities and, in opening them up to
him, they are lost, dissolved on the white ocean of
his loyalty, he understands. You do not have to be
careful. You can abuse him, neglect him, tolerate him.
Best of all, you can keep still with him, it makes no
matter. He likes you. He is like the fire that purges
to the bone. He understands.
You can weep with him, sin with him, laugh with him,
pray with him. Through it all, and underneath- he
sees, knows and loves you. A Friend? What is a
Friend? Just one, I Repeat, With whom you dare
to be yourself.


Ken_Star1
Ken_Star1

Male, 39, Richmond, VA

Posted June 20, 2008


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MyHotComments God Bless.Much Love


carpet
carpet

Male, 58, Oklahoma City, OK

Posted May 26, 2008


I LIKE THAT SONG.


CAPPACHINOCREME
CAPPACHI...

Female, 48, Temple, TX

Posted May 25, 2008


HELLO MY FRIEND...JUST WANTED TO WISH YOU A SAFE AND JOYFUL HOLIDAY FROM CENTRAL TEXAS!!


angel_4_u64
angel_4_u64

Female, 47, Arkansas City, KS

Posted January 21, 2008


Martin Luther King


angel_4_u64
angel_4_u64

Female, 47, Arkansas City, KS

Posted January 02, 2008



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Female, 49, Fairfax, VA

Posted December 28, 2007





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