Life is a theater - invite your audience carefully. Not everyone is spiritually healthy and mature enough to have a front row seat in our lives. There are some people in your lives that need to be loved from a distance.It's amazing what you can accomplish when you LET GO, or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not-going-anywhere relationships/friendships/fell owships!

Observe the relationships around you. Pay attention to: Which ones lift and which ones lean? Which ones encourage and which ones discourage? Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and a which ones are going downhill? When you leave certain people, do you feel better or feel worse? Which ones always have DRAMA or don't really understand, know and appreciate you and the gift that lies within you?

The more you seek growth, peace of mind, love and truth, the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the FRONT ROW and who should be moved to the balcony of your life. You cannot change the people around you...but you can change the people you are around! Ask God for godly wisdom and discerment and choose wisely the people who sit in the front row of your life. Just because no one has shown up to love you on your level, doesn't mean you sink to theirs!

My very own pep talk!!!

"I'm hungry to succeed".

"YOU CAN"T STOP ME"

"My stiletto's are ready for the upward climb".

"I AM GONNA MAKE IT TO THE TOP"

"I'm in line with my star player"

Hello People,

I’m Tanisha, single from the South Jersey area. I’m not here to find Mr. Right Now, but Mr. Let’s Kick It. If you need an explanation drop a note I’ll respond. I am currently a full time Debt Collector and full time college student. My major is Psychology, no I don’t want to get in your head, I just have plans of working with the youth. I have my own car, crib, life, opinions, fears and concerns, so I’m not concerned with accruing yours. I live a motto when dating and finding new friends, “NO EXPECTIONS MEANS NO WORRIES!” So with saying that, it’s pretty much up to compatibility when determining how far we take it.

LET”S BE HONEST I am an ADULT WOMAN!!!! I have needs and want yes. Do I care to explore them with you? Let’s just say no for now. So please refrain from sending me messages about how well you can Fnck me. I think in my circumstance I’m doing a pretty good job in that region. I don’t mean to brag but, how can I be good to you if I can’t be good to myself. Ha Ha!!! Just joking.

FINANCIALLY I don’t worry about the fiscal ability of a man. I don’t care if you drive a Beamer or a Hummer. I don’t really concern myself with want you are able and unable to do monetarily. However, I must make certain that you don’t expect me to house you, feed you, or cloth you. So times I enjoy paying for the recreational aspects of our time together but, it’s nice to have the favor returned. Everything I have I have received from the favor of GOD and hard work, so don’t try to take advantage of my kind heart.

FAMILY MATTERS I am a single mother, that’s all you need to know. At no time do I introduce my children to any man friend, future friend, week end jump-off, or guy who fixes mommies car. LOL. So you need not have any concerns in that area of matters. They have a reliable father and out of respect for him and my children that’s it in a nutshell. WRAPPING UP Well I have completed with my running on about me. If you enjoyed any part thereof please feel free to leave a note. And if you did not that’s okay too. There is someone for everyone maybe you’re better off. Thanks for your time!!!!!

I want you

 I can't get you off my mind

Ooh you turn me on-stay

So sorry you think it's wrong being here alone with me

I wish I could understand you and what you feel

You must feel something or you wouldn't have let me get this far

So don't be afraid just give in If you let me have you just this once

I promise never to want you anymore '

Cuz what's happening now feels so good

And the forbidden always arouses temptations

Come here let me have you

Just stay

Ooh baby come on let me