jazzys-soulmate the truth is that the more intimately you know someone, the more clearly youll see their flaws.(thats just the way it is)........This is why marriages fail, why children are abandoned, why friendships dont last. You might think you love someone untill you see the way they act,....for goodness sake LOVE is something different....love is choosing to serve and be with someone in spite of their filthy heart, love is patient and kind, love is deliberate, love is hard, love is pain and sacrifice.....its seeing the darkness in another person and defying the impulse to jump ship...............Happy Friday everyone....... - 9 hours ago add/view comments (1)
Strong black woman
They constantly attempt to construct who we are, but it's through a negative light. What I call self defense, they call belligerent and quick to fight. If we hold our heads upright with confidence and positive idiosyncrasy, We are perceived as haughty and we behave selfishly.
I'm neither above nor below anyone here, but in myself I do take sufficient pride. I refuse to besmirch my character for their sake, and have them make big profits on the side. My place in society I'm taught by force and this we all know well.
Everyone else has the freedom to do as they please, but when a black woman does her own thing, all are quick to run and tell. This country we live in is anything but just! Reasserting who we really are is a mandatory must!
Things people say about us as a whole they swear they know up and down.They make reference to these crazy stereotypes and use them to keep us down. Some have said that we're not able to learn and are destined to suffer defeat. They yield the audacity to degrade our potential, and think they have us beat. From our voluptuous appearance they perceive us good for one thing, but we are good for many. Sexual activity is not my game, so no thank you little boy, I don't want to get "get friendly." We have accomplished and done so many things, but they have stolen it all.
Had it not been for Big Mama Thornton, Elvis would have no hound dog to back talk at all. We work so hard, yet we do too much. However, if we put forth no effort, they assumed that we'd give up. Do you know what it is exactly that they don't like about you or me? It's our faith, strength, self-assurance, and our natural ability. The ability that we have to succeed they can't bear to accept. We are incessantly treated as if we are inept. I know who I am and you know who you are. Not one person can take that away. Their views of how they feel we should be do nothing but from our goals stray us away.
Making sure that we fail is their plan and this will be attempted through many forces. Contrary to what goes through their heads, we can not give into them and give up There are no alternatives choices.
We are not sexual property, nor are we weak! A new plan is now in immediate affect: Recognize the beautiful, intelligent and gifted black woman! We deserve nothing less than RESPECT!!!
WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?
Freedom to love without fear Freedom Freedom from repression Respect Freedom of space and self-expression Intimacy.
To be accepted as i am. To be amused. To be loved. Not to be lied to. Not to be harassed. Not to be abused. Not to be used.
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