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Hello ladies of BP! This is justfoyou! I'm back to spread the love of God and hopefully to someone special!

For those that knew me from my past pages. Know that I have been through many trials and tribulations and I thank God for them. Please forgive me. I just come to realize I was wrong. I am thankful that God brought me from them. He will not allow us to go through anything that we are not able to handle. Even though we may not think that we are strong enough. He knows us best. Everything that happens to you are not always for you. Sometimes he allows it to happen as a tool to touch others. So thank him for everything that happens to you! That he has brought you from with his love. It truly is a blessing. You can catch me on Myspace under justfoyou2 also.

So, on to me. I'm 5'9" 200lbs. Half Japanese and Black. I have kids. No drama! Never had it and will not tolerate any. I like to play cards, bowl, shoot pool, throw darts, dominoes. You know the usual black folk things. I like to cook and love to step. Can I? Hmmm! Let's say I look good doing it. I'm a homebody who likes to just sit in and watch movies. Hopefully cuddling with a special lady. Whom I have yet to find.

Do you know that you can be in the word and not have the word in you? Meaning that you can know the word and not live it.

We have to forgive so that we can be forgiven and receive the blessings of the Lord. This also means to forgive ourselves too! When you hold hate,dislike and things. You hold sin within. This roots and grows within you. You are Gods' temple and God will not rest in a sinful temple. This is why we can't find our mates or get that job and come out of debt. If someone wrongs you or you someone else. Forgive and pray! God will forgive you in return. Then by living in his words. You can receive your blessings. Don't fall into the traps of the devil thinking that God puts trials and tests on you. Those are the test of the devil. But, God has your way out. God is for you and never against you.

Why is it so hard to have a healthy relationship? Is it because so many have been scorned and fear the next time will be the same? Are we afraid of showing our feelings. Because the person you're with will just twist things and use it against you? Should one or two... Hell, three or four bad relations change who you are? When we change we make the real person that we are meant to be with unable to see the real beauty inside. God has a mate for you and when you pick and choose who it is that you want... as for their looks, height, weight, income or whatever. We overlook who it is that he is sending us. Yes, it would be great to find that perfect person that has it all together. Sometimes we find them and for some strange reason. You can't get along with them. It's not that they are not good people or that you aren't. It's just you weren't meant to be together. God tries to bring us from the very things that we try so hard to hold on to. Yet, we question ourselves. I have noticed that women tend to try to make a man do things that he should already know needs to be done. A person that is for you will never need to be told. They listen and know what it is that you need or want. If a man changes after you complain. It's not to make you happy. It's to shut you up. You know our lives are just big puzzles. There are many pieces. We tend to think that it's hard work to make a relationship or marriage work and it's not. There are some adjusting. When it's right it will all come together. It's only work when it's not meant to be. When putting a puzzle together. You have pieces that look like they belong in a certain area. You try hard to make it fit. But, it doesn't. That doesn't mean that it don't go to this puzzle. It just doesn't belong in that place. Meaning we try to make people to be more than they are there for and hold relations meant for someone else. Think about it!

Please ladies! You cannot make every relationship THE RELATIONSHIP. Meaning? Every man you get with is not going to be your husband. You all put everything you have into each man. Hoping that this is the one. Let God control that department and you just work on you. I love you all!!!!

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