kayt0wn So I can't be single because u think I look good...really?! - November 20, 2011 add/view comments (0)

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a>I'm back in Iowa and happy to be around family especially with my mother passing recently. 6 years in Wisconsin was too long. Time for a new start and hopefully done soon with my Associates in Office Management. I`ve been about my business but I'm just on BP chillin. I`m up to meet some new people and just kick it. I`m cool as a fan and like to kick with people like me. Ya just gotta be real

"Every girl thinks she can change a player...the truth is, it`s not the player that needs to be changed, it`s the girl...Every player is on a mission to find that one girl who will make him lose the desire to play...So don`t be so worried about trying to change him...be more worried about whether or not your that girl..." We all have a lil playa in us but the question is really to what extent. But ladies, when are you going to stop settling? The prize is within yourself. I'm a single mom with not a lot of time. I'm not a lookin for a hubby, whatever happens happens. But if you wanna chat drop me a note or just hit up the questbook. If you gonna try to holla, please don't come with "wassup ma" or "what's good" because those lines are no good. And a tip, I'm not a ratchet a$$ hoe with my tits and %#&@$! out all over the place. Take the hint and be respectful! Friend or more than friend, you gotta come with something a lil better than that. And if your profile has pic of your sh*t or your sn is something like goodlicker, you're not my speed. I don't get down like that. I'm not knockin your hustle, but just keep rollin.

A few things about me to give you a little insight:
* Don't ever expect me to bite my tongue.
* I love music and to go clubbin but I'm a single mom. I spend my time with my daughter so I'm fairly boring. I will not drop everything to revolve my life around a man, nor should he want me to. And really, I just won't do it. * I have a sense of humor (sometime's crass) and I love one in a man. * I'm about something and surround myself with people who are the same. * I only have a few "true friends" and I can count 'em on one hand. And if you're one of 'em, I'll do anything for you.

Fellas, please don't try to run game on me. I can appreciate your honesty more than you trying to tell me something you think I wanna hear. Please don't bring no drama my way, I want no part of it and I'll show you the same respect. I'm trying to live on a positive outlook and misery keeps company so if your miserable, don't try to take up company with me... I don't conform to stereotypes but I do believe in taking care of your man and making sure you feel like one, a man. A good man is hard to find, not to keep. And for the ladies reading this, nagging will not get it done. A person must be accepted as they are, you can not "mold" or "train" them to be something else. If all the other qualities of that person don't superceed those few things you so desperately want to "change", it may just not be meant to be. Flaws are just flaws. No one is perfect. But one person's flaws may fit perfectly with yours. There's too much to list when it comes to a woman like me. But you got a vague idea. But the it's a great thing to be able to get into someone's mind and heart and see what they're really about. My bp messenger doesn`t really work with my pop up blocker. So if u like what u see... drop me a note. Of course don't forget to lace the g-spot, but make sure you do it right!