Memo to all the cute young wannabe kings who staying high every fckn day without a plan of life: stay away from me...you can´t handle me and i cant handle you!
i dont really expect to find a man here
i dont puprose to meet everyone who write me and drivin around the world. SO, make sure that you really wanna get to know me....then you can holla at me, and when i do answer, you should take the time to write me more times b4 you ask me if we could meet.
Thank you
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he
doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop
making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your
intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop
trying to change yourselves for a relationship
that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never
live your life for a man before you find what makes you
truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was
not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you
can't "be friends." A friend
wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If
you feel like he is stringing you along, then he
probably is. Don't stay because you think "it
will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a
year later for staying when things are not better. The
only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a
bunch of different women. He didn't marry them
when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any
differently? Always have your own set of friends
separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy
treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never
let a man know everything. He will use it against you
later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change
comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is
more important than you are...even if he has more
education or in a better job. Do not make him into a
quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow
someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with
you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you
the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT
dogs. You should not be the one doing all the
bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time
to heal between relationships, there is nothing cute
about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing
a new relationship You should never look for someone to
COMPLETE you, a relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals, look for someone complimentary...not
supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't
turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes,
when a man always know where you are, and your always
readily available to him-he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give
you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar
but get to know others. Share this with other
ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another
RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE. They
say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour
to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire
lifetime to forget them.
