Hey BP thanks for stopping by my page. I`m doing a lil remodeling right now so pardon the dust.
GOOD BLACK MEN
Good Black Men are indeed all around us. We pass them on the streets, in the malls and the halls at work. Most we can`t see because we don`t know what a good man really looks like. He usually isn`t flashy enough or rich enough to turn our heads. He might not wear a suit or push a Lex. He might not have a "body like Tyson with a Denzel face." But, as you mature, you realize it`s better to find someone who`s got your back than someone who turns your head. A good man doesn`t agree wholeheartedly with everything you say. He doesn`t just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. He doesn`t declare how sensitive, sweet, caring, sincere, yada yada he is (he won`t have to because it shows). He has his own opinions and you may clash, but he doesn`t have to degrade you to prove he`s right. He even admits at times to being wrong, especially if you are willing to do the same. A good man is not going to meet every item on your checklist. He is human with frailties and faults mixed in with all of his wonderful, strong attributes. He needs your love and respect. He needs to feel that you don`t live to "catch" him doing something wrong so you can declare, "Aha! I knew you were a dog!!"A good man doesn`t necessarily give you a huge birthday or Valentine`s gift. He shows his love in the ways that are comfortable to him. Don`t judge him by TV standards. No one is really living a fairy tale. You`ll miss out on your own fairy tale by buying into the myth that our men are no good. It`s just not true. Black Men, we salute you, and thank you for who you are and all you`ve done.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears,
The figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes,
Because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love
resides.
The beauty ofa woman is not in a facial mole,
True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul.
It is the caring that she gives,
The passion that she shows,
The beauty of a woman with passing years-only grows!
