ladiivirgo1 It's soo dead around here lately!! - January 21, 2011 add/view comments (0)

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  I'm an alright chick, easy going with a wicked sense of humor leaning on the sarcastic side, but always in good fun..I'm friendly, funny, open-minded, witty, classy, sassy, spontaneous and genuine..

Everyone has a story to tell;

My story includes joy, pain, triump, defeat and strength. Amongst other things that have made me into the intelligent, caring, loyal and unique individual that i'am today..Just like anyone else, i have flaws and personal discrepancies yet i have a lot of good traits that are displayed in my demeanor and disposition..

Not on here looking for no type of Love Connection, just going with the flow.

I've only been a member of BP for a short time. But i'am versed with the "games"  that come along with this internet thing, so don't set yourself up to be embarrassed!..lol..I'm as cool as they come!, as long as you're up front and honest.

Life is funny to me...so i laugh a lot..I make fun of fools, and i embarrass men that act thirsty..

sue me 

Didn't give my life story, just the basics......Want to know more??  leave a message.

And if i don't respond , that mean i'm not interested....(catch up)

I love music!!!...Music is my air....(BREATHE!!!) 

A lil' food for thought..

Have you ever wondered why most relationships go to sh!t? Well because they lack the 3fazes...

(1st faze) Physical Attraction: I know some of you guys are like looks aren't everything...(right)

I guess an ugly mofo made that up huh...lol..only kidding.

Naw, there not everything..They do play a huge part though.

That is the first thing you see when the initial meeting begins. The physical plays a big part in you staying faithful..(always keep it tight)

(2nd faze) The Mental Connection: Who wants to kick it with a Ding Bat, or Dumb Azz..

The ooog baby you sooo sexy, only last for so long.... (you still wit me?)

You have to be able to hold a deep stimulating conversation, or be able to understand a persons wit, and sense of humor (A Must!) ...

We all want that person that understands us after all the sweating, and legs shaking from a long night of Good Sex.

We have to be able to MIND F*CK too!...(excuse my french)

(3rd faze) Emotional Connection! Now i know everyone has been here before.

When your just getting to know someone and their falling head over hills for you , but the feeling is not  mutual at that point.

their telling you that they love you and sh!t..(stong words!!) never play with them!

If you can't relate to their feelings don't say it back.

That will leave that person in limbo. Hovering around in space with these strong emotions that you don't feel.

Always be (Real!)..Let them know from jump what your looking for.

Try not to bring excess baggage into the relationship from your past relationships.(and no i don't mean yo kids..lol)

A new relationship deserves a fresh start! (real talk)

Make that person your friend first, before you make them your mate.

That way you can weed out all the fakes, and phoneys...

Are these 3fazes alive within you and yours?

How do you think those old folks in the Nursing Home  spend their whole life together grow old, and die next to each other.

Why you ask?

Because that person was their Best Friend.

Once the physical faded...All they had left was their undying love for each other.

Haven't  y'all seen the movie?...The Note Book...lol

Note to my brothers:

You flaunt your jewels, and timbs...But complain about a Gold Digger..

You want to be called Daddy...But can't be a Father to yo child..

You want a woman with her head on straight...But you constantly searching for a HOTTBODY...

You complain about the WHITE MAN...But you will date his daughter...

You want a woman to STAND BY your side through it all...But claim that she crowds you...

You claim your too young for a RELATIONSHIP...But ready for RELATIONS...

 GET IT TOGETER BLACK PEOPLE!!!

  It's about the little things that you are blessed with every-day that people forget and wonder why things don't workout...GOD,  fAMILY, LOVE, HAPPINESS, AND LAUGHTER...

Just some food for thought ...