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Many people start out by asking me ( and other men and women) questions like... Do I have kids? NO. Am I single? NO, I'm currently in a relationship with "Myself" because for the year of 2007, "I'm doing me." I'm not being selfish but it is something I chose to do in order to make myself a better person because I have tended to other things that I probably should not have placed importance on! We have to love God first and then ourselves, remember that. Having a "man" would be nice but I have to make sure that my house is cleaned up before he comes, if you get my drift at all. For those that are a little slow, please do catch up. I believe that many of us mess up when we go out and look for that "ideal"person. We need to learn to let things just happen and quit being anxious trying to make it happen. "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God (Philippians 4:6).? So yeah, I may want a man to be by my side but "I " can't make it happen. I used to regret my past relationships and stay upset about them but I learned that this is a sign of bitterness...so as for my past relationships I look back and say "Move around and take it as a valuable lesson learned." WE have to quit harping on the past. It's done! Last year I shared words of wisdom on the difference between love and infatuation, this year I will share with you words of wisdom from T.D. Jakes. I know my page is long (lol-sighs) but I just wanted to share: In 2007 Let It Go! Get Right or Get Left...Think about it There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. The bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19] People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay. Let them go. And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead. You've got to know when it's dead. You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay. Let them go!! If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to...... LET IT GO!!! If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ... LET IT GO!!! If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth..... LET IT GO!!! If someone has angered you LET IT GO!!! If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge...... LET IT GO!!! If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction...... LET IT GO!!! If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents LET IT GO!!! If you! u have a bad attitude....... LET IT GO!!! If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better...... LET IT GO!!! If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him...... LET IT GO!!! If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship....... LET IT GO!!! If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves...... LET IT GO!!! If you're feeling depressed and stressed ....... LET IT GO!!! If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need to...... LET IT GO!!! Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for 2007!!! LET IT GO!!! Get Right or Get Left .. think about it, and then . LET IT GO!!! "The Battle is the Lord's!" -T.D. Jakes Thanks for visiting my page! |
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