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  • Member Since:

    June 30, 2001

  • Sex:

    Female

  • Dating Preference:

    Male

  • Relationship Status:

    Single

  • Education:

    Some College Coursework Completed

  • Income:

    $30-50,000

  • Location:

    Gilbert, AZ

  • Race:

    Black/African American

  • Zodiac:

    Capricorn


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To the Women, Lady`s, Girls, Bisexuals, & Gay Lesbians who are sending me notes and leaving your bodies all over my gusetbook - I Just wish to say STOP! I only like MEN! Thank You! It will be erased!



Hello My Beautiful Black Men!

Thank you for stopping in to check me out. Now sit back and enjoy it while I introduce myself to you.



I decided to get right to the point. I GOT A TATOO UP THE FRONT OF MY BODY AND LOVE IT! View it on my pictures. I hope you like it, but If you don`t like me as I am, then you are not ment for me and no one gets hurt.



First understand that as I wish to be married someday, it is something I`m leaving up to the Lord. I wish to have a friend first, who will take the time to really know me and allow me to know him. I have no problem being with myself, because the Lord is with me.



My age is only a number, but I am seasoned to profection and only getting better with time. I don`t change much in looks, as I get older, it`s Gods gift to me. Sorry, if you wish to see what I look like today, you will need to ask me out. Smile. Or check out the pictures with my hair dreaded in my own style.



I have beem walking 2 miles a day by walking my dogs at least 1hour in the morning before 9am and 30 mins after 7pm, so I'm in petty good shape. But because I haven`t been really working out like I should, my stomach is not as tight as it used to be, but it is not out of control and my body is still about the same-nice and slim. I'm now wearing about a 9-10 depending on the dress too. 32w/36L in mens sizes pants. I do try to stay serious with my workouts and diet just means - eat whatever I like as long as it is in small portions, every 2hrs.



I colored my hair back to it's natural color - dark brown, so I don't have to die it any longer. My hair is dreaded and down to my butt, with twist bangs & still growing, and yes is my nature hair with no additions added. Now that I decided to let my natural color grow in, people said the dark brown make me look even younger, so I'm good with that. So I guess I won't dye it anymore, LOL! my brown eyes almost close when I smile, 155lbs, still mostly muscle, carmal complextion, 5`7`, firm body, but I need to work on my middle, firm meduim breast. I`m blessed because my breast are great at my age! I do have a Sexy medium build and a beautiful smile with dimples(so they tell me).



Born in Detroit, MI till age 15, high school at Compton High, Compton, CA, & became an adult in Altadena, CA. My job took me to Arizona where I own my home and now I'm selling my Ohio home. Now that I'm back in AZ - I LOVE IT HERE, and plan to stay. Yah! Happy days are coming! LOL! I would like to own at least 12 homes and least them all out and hope to get with a man who also believe in real estate as one of the best investments to have.



My Secure Job of 32 years from 1979 has come to an end and I'm working to become my own person. Everything about dogs - I wish to become great at training dogs and on the side I'm the best moving packer there is. Very independent, but would love to have someone to lean on sometimes when I`m feeling a little down.



I attract mostly younger men because I look younger then I am and young at heart & love to walk. But I would like to meet a man who can really relate to me, the person and not just my profile.



I`m a Baptist who is more spiritual then religious and this is why I needed to be real with you and myself.



I find some women have to lie to feel good about herself, but I feel good about me as I am and don`t need lies to help me feel better.



I have a wonderful daughter, who I am very proud of. But because she is an adult, I don`t claim to have children. Only because when you say children, it is assumed minors living in the home with you. She has blessed me with three beautiful grand children.



God`s way of blessing me is to take very good care of my daughter & my grands. I`m very happy for her 15 year marriage to a wonderful son-in-law, and thank him everyday for her happiness.



He has blessed me as well, so I pretty much have all I need, except maybe a good husband. One day, if it is his will, that too will come to past. I`m not getting older, I`m getting better.



I guess the man who is willing to attend some chruch at my side, who love dogs and who can be reliable, will prove to be the one.



I`m looking to start my own business - dog training, & I'm taking classes now or maybe a pet hotel. But still in the business planning stage. I hope to find a man who will not attempt to discourage this dream.



I`m looking for real love. My greatest gift is the love I have inside of me. It`s so strong, I have not been able to find a man who can accept my love for more then just

weakness to take advantage of,

and then is very surprised when I realize that Love don`t Love me back & leave his butt.



I hurt, but I`m strong and I know when I`m wasting my time.



I`m a giver, so I need to feel appreciated and wanted.



I love having young men want me, but I need a real man to want me. One who don`t need a women to take care of him financially. And is not threatened by my independence.

Because I believe two can do much better together then one. Togetherness is a wonderful thing, if ment for the good of both.



Are you the one? If not, I really don`t need to waste a lot of time with playing games. But, if you are game, let`s talk first at ladyjsee@att.net or just send me a note.



MY VITALS:

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I`m a Heterosexual Female. I pray to meet my soulmate, who is a Male Heterosexual, between 48-62 yrs old. Who would be able to take me back to the good times in life or at least take a nice trip where I can see some water now & then. I really need to stay out of the snow. LOL



MY DETAILS:

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I`m looking for a Serious relationship, so I also pray that the man that finds me, will have some College (Desirable but not necessary). He must be already set up where his Annual Income is above

$35-$50,000+ and very secure. I'm wishing to find a handy-man and one that can also cook. You must love dogs! I love the Lord and believe in Jesus Christ and firmly believe if he is sent from God, he will also be Equally Yoked. Being Single AND Free is a must! I pray he has a medium or toned large body (not fat), be 5-11 - 6`2 feet tall, drink ether Socially or Never. I hope he Never smoke any form of tobacco.



MORE INFO:

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I love Dreads/Braids, so I`d love to have a man bold enought to wear them or have short hair or none is good. Long hair on a man is ok also, just don't try to play me.



PHOTO:

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Well you have seen photos that look like me, now it`s time to see the real deal, to really know if you like what you see. Just know that I realise that true beauty is inside and out.



MY ESSAYS:

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*What are the top 5 qualities I look for in a man?



1.Productive: knows how to take care of business, to get where we need to be and does what he say he will do. 2. Honest: is trust worthy and means what he says. Not afraid to show he loves the Lord! 3.Loyal: only want me and find no need to wonder or flirt with other women. Gets into my heart and takes time to get to know me. 4.Great Since of Humor: can laugh at things that may seem to try to bring us down. Don`t allow words that may not come out right to kill a good day. 5.Generous: not afraid to spend a little money on us/me, to have a great time while out on a date/outting; or for special gifts for special occasions or just notices when there is a need. And don`t need to feel a need to be given something first, in order to exhibit his Generosity.



*What`s my biggest complaint about dating?



Someone who is cheap. Who takes me dancing but refuses to dance. Who tells me to eat what I like, but gets upset at my choices, or that I eat it all (I will feel setup). Who acts like I`m not there when his friends comes around. Who ask me out, but may cancel, simply because others that may have been joining us had decided not to go. Who treats people badly, like people of service, ie: waitresses or waiters. Who stands me up, instead of calling to cancel. Who is not open to new ideals. Who attempts to introduce Sex on the 1st few dates, ether by sex talk or a sexual gesture; without being invited to do so(a real man knows when an invitation is given). Who talks too much about his X/s or who may put her down to make himself look good (remember I`m a women too). I feel if you don`t have anything good to say, that is short and sweet, then don`t say anything. Who refuses to say he can't fix something and insist on fixing it anyway instead of calling a professional to do it right.



*A good thing to know about me is:



I`m outspoken and direct - with my own opinion; independent and spoiled. Will only except being treated like a Lady and don`t like Cursing or using the Lords name in Vain. I love the Lord, and is more Spiritual then I am Religious, but enjoy going to both Church School and Church Service on Sundays and out dancing on Fridays to a friends home or gathering. I`m looking for a man who is willing to go to all, with me sometimes. I am a One Man Woman, who love to be affectionate. I`m a giver, so I`m careful at whom I give my Love too. I love family, close friends & dogs. I don`t smoke cigarettes & don`t allow smoking in my house. I`m not a drinker, but can hold my own if I`m enjoying a good family or friend gathering. I love seeing a good movie, which I expect to listen to it and if at the theater, I love to sit in the middle section (So, I pick the seat, smile). I love the outdoors. Spending time at the park is calming. I enjoy working out in many ways. I dream of becoming a good wife, of a good man, to help him get better, as he makes me better, while we grow old together. I love traveling, fish tanks, kids, jet sking, air hockey and more. I`m open to new things. I'm buying my own home and would love a man who is doing the same or at least is a handy man around the house.



*SOMETHING I FEEL IS NOT FORGIVABLE & ENOUGH TO LEAVE THE RELATIONSHIP FOR EVER:

To find out my man is anything less then a real man; ie: is Bi-Sexual, Gay; is really a woman; doing hard drugs; a jail bird or gang banger or is wanting a sugar momma...



TO PAUSE:



So, now you know what you`re getting into, petty much. I just want to Thank you for reading this message to the very end. I`m still praying to meet my soulmate, but I`m not in a big hurry. I`m having fun just as I am. But two will be nicer! Is it you? If you think so, and feel you`d like to take the chance your soulmate is ME, just leave me a note or e-mail me at ladyjsee@att.net, letting me know you are from the BlackPlanet and I will Thank God for allowing me to meet a Good Man. Always real, Janice.



QUOTE ME:

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"GOD IS LOVE! GOD IS NOT BLIND! IF YOU ARE BLIND TO YOUR SITUATION, IT IS NOT BECAUSE LOVE IS BLIND."



"REMEMBER TO PUT A BIG SMILE ON YOUR FACE AND MAKE SOMEONE HAPPY, OKAY?"

Chow

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