lashh5 Last time I checked, Blackplanet wasn't JUST a dating site, so don't get mad cause I'm happily involved! lol - May 10, 2011 add/view comments (0)

I just finished the 3rd to the last thing I need to accomplish to finish my book, the photo shoot! MAN, finding people to be on the cover of your book is harder than I thought. I've been trying since last year to get this done and FINALLY it is finish. Now I have to send it to the graphic artist to start working on the cover of my book, then off to the printer we go! ;o) I'll be posting soon when the release date will be here. I'm so excited and nervous...lol.

I've heard many men, especially black men, say that the sistas don't pay them any attention. Doesn't matter if they are short, tall, light, dark, gentleman or educated...the sistas just don't look their way. And it got me to thinking, are the sistas visually challenged? Do they over look the good black man with a decent job to stand in line and put out easily to be with the baller? Then be the first ones to say "there are no good men". I beg to differ, I think there are a lot of... (continue reading)

In this ever changing technology world, more and more women are in charge at home and the office. The way of the world is nothing like it used to be when my mother was raising us. Even though my mother is extremely independent, she still let my father be the man. And I know there are numerous women out there who are holding it down and raising their kids as a single parent. It's hard, isn't it ladies, to just turn your back on the life you brought into the world? Unfortunately, with the... (continue reading)

Time and time again I have heard the reason why men would cheat because they weren't getting it at home. I even had guys hit on me that were engaged or involved; tell me that they weren't getting any at home. At first I just thought it was a line to get in my pants, which NEVER worked, by the way. But as I got older and started to listen to people complain and discuss their relationship problems, I realized that more and more women use sex as a bargaining or punishment tool. How this came... (continue reading)

I was watching "What Chilli Wants" for the first time last month, because I'm not big on reality shows, but I do like Chilli, at least I liked her a lot more before I saw her show. If you haven't watched the show, it's all about her finding a mate. Now I'm not opposed to finding a mate, because everyone wants that special companion in their life, but I do have problems with her lists and questions on the first dates. She would immediately ask guys, "if they wanted to get married", if they... (continue reading)

This is something that totally irritates me, especially with women. I've encountered so many women who have children that have numerous uncles. You may think that isn't so unusual, but it is if the men really aren't their uncle, just men they were dating. You shouldn't introduce any one (men or woman) to your kids until you have been dating for at least 6 months, they should only talk to them on the phone after 3 months. Introducing men to your children when you are not certain of where the... (continue reading)