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Hi. My friends call me Lemar. I'm a December baby, born in the most talked about year ever:1969. I'm a very simple guy (read country). In Oct 2009 I moved back to Georgia after living and working in the big city, trying to make my way. I lived in the KC Metro for 8 years. I'm single/divorced with one child; he's 7 as of this writing. Right now, I'm just looking to find some new friends and possibly a cuddle buddy (not to be mistaken for a sex buddy) or a wrestling partner (I like watching wrestling and sports in general). I'm 5'11" and a around 265 lbs. I started out 2007 at 305,so I'm losing. Baggy but losing. Update: It's June 2010 and I'm experiencing a upward creep, I'm bouncing between 265 and 275 lbs. I think that's good for 3 years. I'VE BEEN VERY LAX! Honestly, I'm afraid I won't be able to replace all of my wardrobe, especially my suits, but I have a goal to get down to 210 by June 2011 and hopefully level out at 220 or 225. Wish me luck, or for those who know Him, ask for His blessings, grace, and mercy in this endeavour. End update To be blunt, the features that win me over in a heartbeat: 1) If your smile makes you seem like you have 64 teeth or make you seem like you are about to swallow your ears, 2) If you have pretty hands and I keep reaching for them, 3) If your pants fit in the hips and thighs, but never fit in the waist (think Coca-Cola, J-Lo, Thelma Evans, etc.)...I'm just kidding. Honestly, on that note, if you are comfortable enough in your own skin to see yourself as confident, lady-like and attractive, you'll have my attention in no time. Sidebar: It's funny to me that it seems that everyone I've ever heard say that communication is the key to a happy marriage is currently divorced or has been married multiple times. I firmly believe that understanding and truly knowing a partner's expectations before marriage is the key to a happy marriage. Now the key fob that holds that particular key is God. If you understand what I'm saying you should read on. If not, you should probably move on to the next profile. You show me two folks who argue and I'll show you two folks who are communicating. They may be divorced in a year, but, man, they're communicating. But you show me two folks who understand expectations, whether they be physical, spiritual, psychological or behavioral, before marriage and end the engagement if an expectation is out of line or isn't remotely close to being met, I'll show you two smart people who are probably still married to somebody else. End sidebar. I'm a fun loving down to earth person who is very frank but fun to be around. I'm an engineer (read nerd) and I'm pretty much typical of a technical person (dry humor, thinking outside the box, not always following fads, can't dance. You get the picture). I enjoy a good movie (I said movie, not chick flick or an afternoon and evening of Lifetime TV), but I enjoy researching the latest electronic gadget even if I'll never buy it. I'm a car buff. I like working on my own vehicle (a 2004 Saturn Vue V6 AWD in Electric Blue for those of you who tend to judge people by what they drive as opposed to their character) and making it run more efficiently, or making the sound system sound better (done with that until this recession is over), or making the paint shine like jewels. I've built several computers for myself and a few for other folks. I enjoy music. My favorite artist is Luther Vandross and some folks say I sometimes sound like him when I sing, but I don't think so. My voice is way too harsh, untrained, and unprofessional. I do sing in 2 of my church's 4 choirs 9new church, same choir result). I do attend church regularly, but I'm fra frum purfict (get it?), and I don't consider myself a hypocrite although I've been called that to my face. I'm saved and forgiven and very prone to make mistakes, sometimes repeatedly, but I'm not perfect. I'm very thankful that I serve a God not just of a second or third chance, but of another chance. I'm the person most folks call for advise on future purchases or just research items in general. I'm the person that folks always think is older than he is. I've always had gray hair (since I was 20, thank God for hair color) so I always look older than I am. I'm a heavy guy, ( think: big, huge, when did he let himself go like that, teddy bear, you get the picture), but you can't help but love me. lol I'm a very sensual person, and I can be a horn-dog sometimes (full moons are the worst!!!) But I'm a loving gentleman at all times (especially when I'm a horn-dog)...meditate on that a little bit. I'm online all the time so feel free to hit me up, if you can find me. I go by Lemar and I was born in 1969. I hang out at Yahoo most of the time. (meditate on that a bit, too) We'll chat and get to know each other better.
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