I'm 43 and blessed,I have three grown children out on their own,I like biking,skating,walking,swimmin g,weight lifting,spades,chess,writing poetry,tennis and business,opportunities.My dating preferences are men 39 and up if they're mature,christian and single is a must.I feel as though the years have swept by,but God was good to me,he preserved my youth and blessed me above measure,while i am still a jealous woman i'm a patient woman,i don't let my heart rule my head nor the opposite,i temper them both with love and mercy,i'm quick to forgive for i may need your forgiveness,i'm quick to apologize for i may desire an apology,i don't worry about what people do to me;at the end of the day it's what i've said or done to others that bothers me,i try not to say anything i would'nt want said to me,but at the same time i have to be honest,so don't ask questions you don't really want the answer to,i try to be true to my God,my self,my family my lover and my friends,the reason i say try is because like all of us i am not perfect and i make mounds of mistakes,but God forgives us all and as we freely receive forgiveness,we should freely give it to all that seek it,some may not agree,but that's just me;my motto for life is "IF YOU DON'T DO ANYTHING WRONG,YOU WON'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT GETTING CAUGHT.As people come through my page I pray for them in the spirit to god,and if you need prayer just drop me a note and i will immediately pray for you and yours,I learned a great lesson this pass year meeting new people on BP and interacting with them,caring for them,loving them for who they are,charishing every moment with them as though it were my last really paid off,because in the end they had to go,not because we did'nt care for each other but because we both had different paths to take in life,and our paths only crossed but did'nt stay together long,everyone is not meant to stay in your life,accept that;some are traveling through your life,some stop in for awhile and some are here to stay,what ever the situation maybe,approach it carefully,treat it tender as though fragil,hold it loosely to allow it to breath and open your hand gently to release it that it may leave,let not your heart be troubled for what God has for you is for you.he has all power in his hands read(Genesis 1 the last 4 verses 27 to the end of the chapter)may God bless you.
