"I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then your sure as hell don't deserve me at my best."
"Beneath the makeup and behind the smile I am just a girl who wishes for the world."
"I don't mind living in a man's world, as long as I can be a woman in it."
IF A MAN WANTS YOU:
If a man want you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow you intuition (or spirit) to save your from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, SPEAK up. NEVER, let a man know EVERYTHING. He will use it against you later. You can't change a man's BEHAVIOR. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are....even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. OH, LORD! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you A-L-L-O-W him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with you issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals....look for someone complimentary....not supplementary. Dating is fun....even if he doesn't turn out to be MR..Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where your are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Don't fully committ to a man who doesn't give you everything you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know each other.
WOMEN ARE LIKE APPLES ON TREES. THE BEST ONES ARE AT THE TOP OF THE TREE. MOST MEN DON'T WANT TO REACH FOR THE GOOD ONES BECAUSE THEY ARE AFRAID OF FALLING AND GETTING HURT. INSTEAD, THEY SOMETIMES TAKE THE APPLES FROM THE GROUND THAT AREN'T AS GOOD, BUT EASY. THE APPLES AT THE TOP THINK SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH THEM, WHEN IN REALITY, THEY'RE AMAZING. THEY JUST HAVE TO WAIT FOR THE RIGHT MAN TO COME ALONG, THE ONE WHO IS BRAVE ENOUGH TO CLIMB ALL THE WAY TO THE TOP OF THE TREE.
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