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About Me:

22 years old

5'0

Very petite

No kids

In college

Don't do drama

Love animals

Puts family first

Open-minded

R&B music, Poetry, Art

Dislikes:

People with baby moms

Uneducated people

Thugs

No goals

Living at home

No transportation

Looks and Physicality

 Forget about people being attracted to what is inside of a person, these days so often people see inside beauty as second best (closed minded people). To many times people can't see what is "inside" until they are drawn to a persons physical appearance. What happened to the good old days when good company, laughter and conversation were good enough?

Being Valued and Wanted

Every Women wants to feel important (almost like #1)"being said sarcastically" but so often they are made to feel second. Is it to much for a women to want to feel significant and desirable? As women or as a woman "maybe I speak for myself" I look for a soul mate and being valued for myself and myself only, not a mans last or even his second best. We love to belong to a man without the competition of other women. So often I hear men speak to women and refer to women with such disrespect it makes me cringe. Maybe men don't respect women because they don't respect their selves.

Security and Protection

Even though as women we have a lot of pride and can take care of ourselves pretty damn well. (clears throat) "excuse my language." It still makes a women feel good to feel protected and secure with a man. It can make a man (oh so attractive) when a women feels this way, a man is almost winning her heart.

Masculinity and Confidence

Women like a man who acts like a man (no in-between). The more masculine, caring and appreciative the man is, the more attractive the man will be to a women. A man being confident of his action and one who knows what he wants to accomplish is such a plus. Don't forget there is a difference between confident and just being very arrogant. Ignorance, Dishonesty, Stupidity, and Immaturity seem to be what make up men this day and age. Why don't they wake up and see it's not cute to be as hard as you can or just not to care at all.(as they call this being a thug)

I've been through break-ups ( the worst Kind!) so I know how it feels to hurt; I'm not even ashamed to say that I know how it feels to feel worthless...It has all helped me become a better woman for myself and for those I love. Being that I have learned from my lowest of lows, I know that it ALL happened for a reason.. So I'm living my life with NO REGRETS.... on a lighter note ; Women Respect Yourself If you don't then how can a man!!!!