11/7/2009 Ok a lot of things have changed with me and my life but i am still surprised often but others reactions to me. You wouldnt guess by my page but my initial nature is a bit shy. But what I find interesting is I have been natural off and on for the last few months and men feel more comfotable to approach me? Why is that LOL my hair is a hot mess my nails are no longer done yeah men are quicker to speak and compliment..LOL yall are funny oh and did I mention I look like a young boy like this ;)
6/13/2009 Ok I must say this maybe because I am getting old, But men the first thing you offer about you should not be sexual. I am not that woman! If you start that way I am going to quickly loose interest and you are mentally filed under nusiance. Come with something thats going to keep my mind, the fact that you have a big one, have naked pix or want to define yourself as a "freak" which by the way most of you arent. or write stories or poems like those romantic (porn) books that chicks use to read in highschool is not going to catch my interest. If this is the first thing that you are coming at me with I assume you have nothing else to offer and good conversation is a must. PS. If you dont have a picture up I assume you are hiding and no you cant email it to me
5/20/2009 I love good music and was recently introduced to Miguel Jontel. a few suggestions Strawberry Amazing, Sure Thing and Be my Vixen. I dont want to give you too much too soon. But his music... moving!
being too nice is my downfall. lesson learned
11/28 Sick of getting my heart hurt by people who dont matter. Soon I will be out of my feelings, than no more Ms. Nice Me
10/18 Today I did a favor for a very attractive black man. Just noticed how strong his jaw bone was. how smooth his skin is. how sexy his eyes are. and the lips leave me speechless. A man who has a calm patients and what seems to be a kind heart. Yet I am amazed that he doesn't have the confidence he should have. I am finding so many black men that don't have a clear understanding of how wonderful they are and how powerful they can be. Than again I am just finding my own confidence. Hmmm Beautifully Black
7/4 todays Vent. Oh my goodness I am so sick of you emotional unstable, no ball having, moody inconsiderate in great need of a midol men. I use to give men from the east so much credit, but you city men are some b*tches. and no women dont start hitting me up, thinkin I am gonna trade sides. yall are the reason these men are so dang stupid. I just want to share this web site www.myxertones.com thank me later IF anyone knows where I can find this song let me know Why You Beefin Wit Me by Scola 6/21/2008 I am learning to appreciate the life style or maybe just the mind set of bikers. The support they show is like a real good union. Maybe its the freedom of the ride. But I love that I seem to have a grup of big brothers, that are frank and honest with me. lol even though they may not be honest to all the women they know. I watched a man on the freeway wave hello to all the bikers he saw. Its a simple and beautiful connection. LOL yet I amd scared to get on a bike. Just a random thought
Welcome to my random thoughts
5/2/2008 OMG its 4:30am and I have lost someone else close to me. My closet friends big brother who is like a big brother to me. Lord why no warning.Ty I will miss Your smile, hugs and protection even when i didnt realize you had my back. Heaven has another angel please take good care of him for us.
3/18 I am told I need to change my outlook on men. and that yes there is a bunch of garbage, dishonest, run thru and use women, cant keep their word, believe that women have roles but men arent suppose to do ish but provide dingle. that their are trully good men out there, and they are just quite and scared to get hurt again. that I should just increase the men I talk to and when I see garbage trash it. LOL that just sounds like way too much energy. F it if you cant be friends there is no point.
2/26 looks like i will be at bike week again this year The only thang a man has in this world is his word. How come so many men are so dang flaky Wow its nice to have people that care about you that help you out with out you having to ask.
 WO W thanks Tonya Todays lesson know when people are a blessing to you.
Movie to see DEATH SENTENCE 1/18/2008
1/5/2008 My goal this year is to meet and befriend some incredible men. Men that can honestly be friends with women. If you cant be friends with a woman it really tells me you have a lack of respect for them.
Have you ever heard a song you just want to make love to?
 I was told today from a male that he couldn't just sit and watch a movie with me because he would try and put the moves on me. and that I cant fault him for being honest. That a man cant control himself around a woman he is attracted to, So if a woman wants to build a relationship with a man she has to start off with no alone time. if a man cant control himself. am I wrong to assume that its in his nature to cheat? I suggested that ugly women get quality time. He suggested a gay man. all I can do is shake my head its so much easier to remain single.
10/20/2007 This was sent to me by another member. Great timing. I am trying to see the world a bit differently I Lost my brother on 9/24/2007 to a tragic accident I'm trying to be aware of lifes blessings life is really too short. any way read and enjoy
From:son_of_robert
To: luckybug
Subject: In response Actually, Real Men are like Jesus. They do exist, they love unconditionally, they sacrifice all for the one they love, yet they are often rejcted, mocked, denied and overlooked for the false pretender. I encourage you to never stop believing, hoping, praying. The Real Deal is often right in front of you wating for you to accept him. Waiting, watching, with open arms and a ready spirit to be all and give all and shower every good gift you so richly deserve. Remember the M&M's Christmas commercial where Red and Yellow meet Santa. They Look upon each other and discovered, "They do exist." BE BLESSED
6/24/2007 This is a messed up thought, But I am starting to believe that good men are like Santa. We would love to believe in him, the though of him comes with all kinds of promises, there are many pretenting to be him. But he doesnt really exist.
Clarification I say all this infustration that I see with the current mind set of many men. I know great men, But I also know a lot of men feel the same way about good women based on their interactions. Just food for thought.
4/28/2007 What type of friend do you make?
4/14/2007 The Art Of a Bath: After a long work week wrap hair up. light candles, slip into an origins inspired salt hot bubble bath. while listening to a mixture of Intro, Robin Thicke, Floetry, Vivian Green, and Neyo after a long soak finish up with some all over baby oil. The necessity of simplicity!
4/13/2007 to many black men seem to be tied to the character of ahole. many go out of their way to take advantage of women. disrespect their mothers and the women they know by refering to women as b's and h's. on a regular exspecially online as if its cool and earns them some type of points. I recently heard a radio show ask the question what lies have you told to get sex and men were so proud of themselves in the dirt that they have done. Sad thing is some how it has become the in thing to do to be garbage and disrespectful. I don't expect the world to change, but it would be nice if the great black men would take a stand to make themselves present. Many of my friends are considering other options. And I have been told a few times lately by white men that they treat women better than black men and I should give them a try. Sadly I feel like I can no longer waste my time standing up for black men who don't deserve the respect of good black women. .. just a long thought
4/7/2007 Suprised at how many men on here think they are intelligent but yet couldn't have a good conversation to save their life. I need to move to a country were men are still raised by men. and don't have so many chick tendencies
3/24/2007 Every good woman deserves a man to spoil her, and a good man she can spoil in return
3/23/2007 Plans to go to to black bike week and I am a little worried. Aside from the fact that I am a bit shy I really dont like people touching me and I am told there are a lot more men to women. Lawd I dont feel like fighting with grown azz men
3/21/2007 Random thought first day of spring: I love to see men with their children. But I have to say it annoys me to see men with a picture of their young children and pictures with their guns. It tells me You respect the life you created but not the life of someone elses child. It tells me you respect death. And that you might put yourself in the the path where your child wont have a father. Once you have a child your mindset needs to change. You life style has to change. If you arent ready for that, live your life all day with a condom on.
1/20/2007 Brian White from the Movie Stomp the Yard is Sooooo Very Sexy. I just want to nibble on his neck. lol
1/1/2007 I just got a note from some dude who said I was bitter. I would suggest that people "Men" actually take the time to read my page. I am not bitter I'm honest and its funny how I treat anyone in my life well or how I want to be treated or I just don't deal with them. Now these same men who consider me bitter will use woman and treat them like crap because they can. If only a few women because some of you will seperate women, into those you cherish and those you disrespect. which by the way says more about you than the women. Let me put it simply If you don't treat women in the fashion you would want your Mom, Sister, or daughter to be treated you are dirty, and the fact that you think a good woman should deal with you and be forced to accept the backlash of your karma is crasy. If the things I say about men don't fit you don't take it personal. Sad thing is when I have conversations with men about how many treat women they will agree but then follow it up as thats just how things are. It is always nice to meet people "men" who make it a personal effort to be a good person and take personal responsibility.
12/23/2006 My friends have come up with the conclusion that only unattractive men will treats women right. Problem how is one to be intimate with someone they are not attracted to?
9/24/2006 The question of the year where are the good romantic men at?
5/19/2006 OK it is official. We are considering doing some male strip shows. We will soon be having audtions. YES I know real random. But what would be a better job for single straight women who loves eye candy?
Toronto has some Sexy men with great manners I`m almost ready to move!! Thank you Caribana
**Attention, Attention** I figured I needed to put this at the top of my page since some of yall don`t read much. I can`t stand stupid people. Think about the note you send me and how it will come across. Think first.. Don`t be stupid Don`t do it to yourself.
On to my regular page.
12/16/05 Why did my aunt just send me and email on the safety of women. Like I needed another reason to not trust people. Man the world is full of crazy, evil people. With sprinkles of great people that make your life better.
11/04/05 Ok I have finally come to that point the BBW the bitter black woman. I am not going to say that there are no more good men left. But there are so few its not even worth the effort. Even those of you that think you are good guys normally turn out to be aholes. My tolorence is so low eye candy doesn`t even move me anymore. I`m soon to become the "cat lady" I think I`m going to go buy my first one tomorrow.
11/08/05 F the "good guys" that`s the character Aholes like to play
11/12/05 Ok this was posted for reaction reasons. I need a new topic for my site. Guess what Yes I think men are crazy and often take advantage of women. But I think women are just as crasy and take advantage of men. Problem is when most people are hurt instead of becoming better people and vowing to not put others what they have gone through, they take on the role of those that hurt them and seek out victims. Food For Thought
10/30/05 why do men think to run behind a woman pushing his pee pee on her butt is dancing??! then have the nerve to ask why you wont Dance with them? Brothas if you would look like a foul doing it by yourself.. that mess is not dancing
Not aneasy movie to watch but still good is City of Gods
2/24/05 OK stupid question I just saw a woman on TV going to court asking for MORE child support from a famous rap artist. Now the reason she gives is "my daughter and I live in a nice apartment and he has a large house. We deserve more!" Am I wrong for thinking chick get off your lazy as and do it for yourself. The reason that man has the house is because he worked for it. A man is supposed to support his child`s needs not give a lazy woman the life she dreams up but not willing to work to get. that logic sounds like prostitution.
My fathers next book is about to be out very soon titled How to Avoid a Chicken Head. The more I see these stupid women and men who deal with them I realize how bad the book is needed.
1/1/05 Just a thought I`m learning that many men don`t have a clue in how to treat a woman, and whats worse is men don`t have a clue as to how they should be treated.
2/16/05 am I the only one who is getting notes funny.
1/8/05 Ever know someone who lies so much they don`t even realise they are lying?
The ideal man
is honest, realistic, hard working and thoughtful. He thinks through things before he takes action, considers more than just himself, doesn`t think that to pamper or be pampered makes him a wuss and strives to understand the true meaning of a good man, and good woman. He selects carefully the people that he wants in his life, gives of himself, because it feels good, takes time to enjoy his surroundings, is not afraid of differences and has passion in how he feels and views the world. He is willing to go that extra mile for those he cares about, understands that his woman is grown, has a mind of her own, and loves and respects the challenge of her femininity. He spends more time creating then destroying, is proud of who he is but, doesn`t have to tell the world, because "Eventually" those who are important to him will know.
My personal fetish
6`0 or above, Thick and cut,with strong facial features, nice jaw bone, big hands, eyes a sista can melt in, lips sistas will dream about, thick strong legs to clasp on to, skin that is some beautiful shade of natural brown,dressed to get positive attention, and smelling so good you just want to be near him to breath his essence, but everything mentioned about the ideal man must be included
What you just read above is something I wrote years ago because Men kept asking me what I wanted and whenI told them They wouldalways tell me I was asking for to much. So I figured I would write it down and lookat it myself. My father found it made a copy and asked me to put it on the web for others to read. Funny thing is if I ask for a man with a nice car and money and tobe fine. like I have heard a lot of other women say thats not too much. As shallow as I can be (I love eye candy) I require people in my life have substance.
My Second home is long Beach CA Now could someone tell me where the attractive men hang at?
How many men can handle being one of many men for one woman?
I`m working on a piece for my fathers next book. So for all the brothas reading through my page tell me what you look for in a woman. And what is something you are unwilling to do without?
and if you know soe females that don`t mind reading the page and answering the question. Tell me Ladies what are you looking for and why do you feel you deserve it?
For all of you brothas that might think I`m not interested in conversation, because of my personal fetish... Go back up and read my Ideal and ask yourself if you fit that. If youdo you should have sent me a note about 10 mins ago. (Key word good conversation)
If you are really trying to get to know a sista. Let me help you out as to what type of mind set I do have. The serious side of me enjoys the thoughts of Doctors Ben Jochmin, Leonard Jeffries, and Naim Akbar. If the thoughts of these men offend you I`m the wrong chick for you to get to know.
also Check out the movie Bowling for Columbine
2.20.04 *personal thought for today* Send your time around deep down good, strong, positive, caring, supportive helpful people, and you will be amazed at how much of a better person you can become.
1.5.04 I am 30 now I had to take the age off the side of my page since a lot of older gentle men seem to be hitting my page. The shallow side of me does love a young man since I am a big kid, but if you are my age or a few years older and have those good genes i`m cool as long as you look young and youaren`t too stuffy yet mature at the same time. twisted combo i know. but i don`t like a slow azz man at any age.
on the positive side of things i have met some great black men the last few months. I love intelligentstrong brothas just makes my day and puts a smile on my face.
12/26/03 a long thought.. ok its time for me to let the mean chick out. Some of the notes I get drive me crazy. For different reasons but most important I don`t find the page or the note of the sender at all entertaining, thought provoking, funny, or just plain interesting.
Some key things to think about, if you ask to `get to know me` it tells me up front you didn`t read my page I don`t care how cute you are you get no response. If you have porn of any form on your page.. no notes i don`t respond to pervs. If you have weed or some other form of drug, thats right no response. A picture of weapons unless its a sword I like those.(he he)
If you have more pictures of other things like cars women, shoes... lol turn off. Oh.. and if you have been somewhere taking pictures with a bunch of half dressed chicks you don`t know.. no notes man.
rule of thumb think about what kind of response you want back. I send notes all the time telling a brotha how good he looks. I don`t expected him to respond. Its just a thank you for theeyecandy. if you want a response send a note worthy of me responding to
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9/21/03 Question? If a man snakes another mans picture is he gay? What scares me is the pictures they snake look real good. LOL whoa thank you for the fake eye candy.
Why do some men seem to think its ok to judge and treat a woman solely based on her looks and not her substance?
And for all of you men who only care about a womans looks... LOL I have added a new picture at the bottom justfor you. Imagin waking up to that in the morning..LMBAO
Question? If youhave to lie to get what you want, doesn`t that mean you are not good enough?
If you are a pimp, playa, or thug I am too old for you. If you don`t have proper home training Leave me alone!!
Aman only out for sex only has dyck to offer... and thats no where near enough!
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05/21/04 another quick thought. Am I wrong to assume that these young men coming back from the "war against terror" are going to come back twisted from seeing and experiencing things no one should have to.
**Note** I love a Fine man, but a fine man with nothing else to offer is a waste of time. So.. shhhh keep quite and just look pretty for mami.
Next time you look to book your travel do so via my page. And if you are interested in making some extra money contact me about your own travel site.
I just started selling accessories check out the site for great prices on anklets, suede cell phone holders, Mother of pearl (necklace,belts,and bracelets), and earrings. All make great gifts.
So many people need to read this book. Chicken Head Habits seem to be ramped and widely excepted behavior. Men need it to select better women, Women need it to support positive behavior, and Parents need it to help avoid typical weak-minded patterns lots of girls are falling into.
Oh and yes my father is the Author
Check out myfathers new book too
and look out for my girl Crea
www.blacknbluebook.com
Ok its time for me to show appreciation to those brothas that deserve it.
Since eye candy is so easy let me start there check out the EbonySoul link. Ladies BUY BUY BUY
ok if you have read this far you should have a feel for a sista. just so you know i`m a strong believer in energy, ifyou don`t come with positive energy and a good nature.. heck if you just aren`t a good person I hope you enjoyed your stay, but its time for you to move on. naw man dont leave a note.. find an evil chick youcan play games with and be nasty to.yall deserve each other. he he.. have a good one people peace
