7/4 todays Vent. Oh my goodness I am so sick of you emotional unstable, no ball having, moody inconsiderate in great need of a midol men. I use to give men from the east so much credit, but you city men are some b*tches. and no women dont start hitting me up, thinkin I am gonna trade sides. yall are the reason these men are so dang stupid.
I just want to share this web site www.myxertones.com thank me later
IF anyone knows where I can find this song let me know
Why You Beefin Wit Me by Scola
6/21/2008 I am learning to appreciate the life style or maybe just the mind set of bikers. The support they show is like a real good union. Maybe its the freedom of the ride. But I love that I seem to have a grup of big brothers, that are frank and honest with me. lol even though they may not be honest to all the women they know. I watched a man on the freeway wave hello to all the bikers he saw. Its a simple and beautiful connection. LOL yet I amd scared to get on a bike. Just a random thought
Welcome to my random thoughts
5/2/2008 OMG its 4:30am and I have lost someone else close to me.
My closet friends big brother who is like a big brother to me. Lord
why no warning.Ty I will miss Your smile, hugs and protection even
when i didnt realize you had my back. Heaven has another angel
please take good care of him for us.
3/18 I am told I need to change my outlook on men. and that yes
there is a bunch of garbage, dishonest, run thru and use women,
cant keep their word, believe that women have roles but men arent
suppose to do ish but provide dingle. that their are trully good
men out there, and they are just quite and scared to get hurt
again. that I should just increase the men I talk to and when I see
garbage trash it. LOL that just sounds like way too much energy. F
it if you cant be friends there is no point.
2/26 looks like i will be at bike week again this year The only
thang a man has in this world is his word. How come so many men are
so dang flaky Wow its nice to have people that care about you that
help you out with out you having to ask.
 WOW thanks Tonya Todays lesson know
when people are a blessing to you.
Movie to see DEATH SENTENCE 1/18/2008
1/5/2008 My goal this year is to meet and befriend some
incredible men. Men that can honestly be friends with women. If you
cant be friends with a woman it really tells me you have a lack of
respect for them.
Have you ever heard a song you just want to make love to?
 I was told today from a male that he
couldn't just sit and watch a movie with me because he would try
and put the moves on me. and that I cant fault him for being
honest. That a man cant control himself around a woman he is
attracted to, So if a woman wants to build a relationship with a
man she has to start off with no alone time. if a man cant control
himself. am I wrong to assume that its in his nature to cheat? I
suggested that ugly women get quality time. He suggested a gay man.
all I can do is shake my head its so much easier to remain
single.
10/20/2007 This was sent to me by another member. Great timing.
I am trying to see the world a bit differently I Lost my brother on
9/24/2007 to a tragic accident I'm trying to be aware of lifes
blessings life is really too short. any way read and enjoy
From:son_of_robert
To: luckybug
Subject: In response Actually, Real Men are like Jesus. They do
exist, they love unconditionally, they sacrifice all for the one
they love, yet they are often rejcted, mocked, denied and
overlooked for the false pretender. I encourage you to never stop
believing, hoping, praying. The Real Deal is often right in front
of you wating for you to accept him. Waiting, watching, with open
arms and a ready spirit to be all and give all and shower every
good gift you so richly deserve. Remember the M&M's Christmas
commercial where Red and Yellow meet Santa. They Look upon each
other and discovered, "They do exist." BE BLESSED
6/24/2007 This is a messed up thought, But I am starting to
believe that good men are like Santa. We would love to believe in
him, the though of him comes with all kinds of promises, there are
many pretenting to be him. But he doesnt really exist.
Clarification I say all this infustration that I see with the
current mind set of many men. I know great men, But I also know a
lot of men feel the same way about good women based on their
interactions. Just food for thought.
4/28/2007 What type of friend do you make?
4/14/2007 The Art Of a Bath: After a long work week wrap hair up.
light candles, slip into an origins inspired salt hot bubble bath.
while listening to a mixture of Intro, Robin Thicke, Floetry,
Vivian Green, and Neyo after a long soak finish up with some all
over baby oil. The necessity of simplicity!
4/13/2007 to many black men seem to be tied to the character of
ahole. many go out of their way to take advantage of women.
disrespect their mothers and the women they know by refering to
women as b's and h's. on a regular exspecially online as if its
cool and earns them some type of points. I recently heard a radio
show ask the question what lies have you told to get sex and men
were so proud of themselves in the dirt that they have done. Sad
thing is some how it has become the in thing to do to be garbage
and disrespectful. I don't expect the world to change, but it would
be nice if the great black men would take a stand to make
themselves present. Many of my friends are considering other
options. And I have been told a few times lately by white men that
they treat women better than black men and I should give them a
try. Sadly I feel like I can no longer waste my time standing up
for black men who don't deserve the respect of good black women. ..
just a long thought
4/7/2007 Suprised at how many men on here think they are
intelligent but yet couldn't have a good conversation to save their
life. I need to move to a country were men are still raised by men.
and don't have so many chick tendencies
3/24/2007 Every good woman deserves a man to spoil her, and a good
man she can spoil in return
3/23/2007 Plans to go to to black bike week and I am a little
worried. Aside from the fact that I am a bit shy I really dont like
people touching me and I am told there are a lot more men to women.
Lawd I dont feel like fighting with grown azz men
3/21/2007 Random thought first day of spring: I love to see men
with their children. But I have to say it annoys me to see men with
a picture of their young children and pictures with their guns. It
tells me You respect the life you created but not the life of
someone elses child. It tells me you respect death. And that you
might put yourself in the the path where your child wont have a
father. Once you have a child your mindset needs to change. You
life style has to change. If you arent ready for that, live your
life all day with a condom on.
1/20/2007 Brian White from the Movie Stomp the Yard is Sooooo Very
Sexy. I just want to nibble on his neck. lol
1/1/2007 I just got a note from some dude who said I was bitter. I
would suggest that people "Men" actually take the time to read my
page. I am not bitter I'm honest and its funny how I treat anyone
in my life well or how I want to be treated or I just don't deal
with them. Now these same men who consider me bitter will use woman
and treat them like crap because they can. If only a few women
because some of you will seperate women, into those you cherish and
those you disrespect. which by the way says more about you than the
women. Let me put it simply If you don't treat women in the fashion
you would want your Mom, Sister, or daughter to be treated you are
dirty, and the fact that you think a good woman should deal with
you and be forced to accept the backlash of your karma is crasy. If
the things I say about men don't fit you don't take it personal.
Sad thing is when I have conversations with men about how many
treat women they will agree but then follow it up as thats just how
things are. It is always nice to meet people "men" who make it a
personal effort to be a good person and take personal
responsibility.
12/23/2006 My friends have come up with the conclusion that only
unattractive men will treats women right. Problem how is one to be
intimate with someone they are not attracted to?
9/24/2006 The question of the year where are the good romantic men
at?
5/19/2006 OK it is official. We are considering doing some male
strip shows. We will soon be having audtions. YES I know real
random. But what would be a better job for single straight women
who loves eye candy?
Toronto has some Sexy men with great manners I`m almost ready to
move!! Thank you Caribana
**Attention, Attention** I figured I needed to put this at the top
of my page since some of yall don`t read much. I can`t stand stupid
people. Think about the note you send me and how it will come
across. Think first.. Don`t be stupid Don`t do it to yourself.
On to my regular page.
12/16/05 Why did my aunt just send me and email on the safety of
women. Like I needed another reason to not trust people. Man the
world is full of crazy, evil people. With sprinkles of great people
that make your life better.
11/04/05 Ok I have finally come to that point the BBW the bitter
black woman. I am not going to say that there are no more good men
left. But there are so few its not even worth the effort. Even
those of you that think you are good guys normally turn out to be
aholes. My tolorence is so low eye candy doesn`t even move me
anymore. I`m soon to become the "cat lady" I think I`m going to go
buy my first one tomorrow.
11/08/05 F the "good guys" that`s the character Aholes like to
play
11/12/05 Ok this was posted for reaction reasons. I need a new
topic for my site. Guess what Yes I think men are crazy and often
take advantage of women. But I think women are just as crasy and
take advantage of men. Problem is when most people are hurt instead
of becoming better people and vowing to not put others what they
have gone through, they take on the role of those that hurt them
and seek out victims. Food For Thought
10/30/05 why do men think to run behind a woman pushing his pee pee
on her butt is dancing??! then have the nerve to ask why you wont
Dance with them? Brothas if you would look like a foul doing it by
yourself.. that mess is not dancing
Not aneasy movie to watch but still good is City of Gods
2/24/05 OK stupid question I just saw a woman on TV going to court
asking for MORE child support from a famous rap artist. Now the
reason she gives is "my daughter and I live in a nice apartment and
he has a large house. We deserve more!" Am I wrong for thinking
chick get off your lazy as and do it for yourself. The reason that
man has the house is because he worked for it. A man is supposed to
support his child`s needs not give a lazy woman the life she dreams
up but not willing to work to get. that logic sounds like
prostitution.
My fathers next book is about to be out very soon titled How to
Avoid a Chicken Head. The more I see these stupid women and men who
deal with them I realize how bad the book is needed.
1/1/05 Just a thought I`m learning that many men don`t have a clue
in how to treat a woman, and whats worse is men don`t have a clue
as to how they should be treated.
2/16/05 am I the only one who is getting notes funny.
1/8/05 Ever know someone who lies so much they don`t even realise
they are lying?
The ideal man
is honest, realistic, hard working and thoughtful. He thinks
through things before he takes action, considers more than just
himself, doesn`t think that to pamper or be pampered makes him a
wuss and strives to understand the true meaning of a good man, and
good woman. He selects carefully the people that he wants in his
life, gives of himself, because it feels good, takes time to enjoy
his surroundings, is not afraid of differences and has passion in
how he feels and views the world. He is willing to go that extra
mile for those he cares about, understands that his woman is grown,
has a mind of her own, and loves and respects the challenge of her
femininity. He spends more time creating then destroying, is proud
of who he is but, doesn`t have to tell the world, because
"Eventually" those who are important to him will know.
My personal fetish
6`0 or above, Thick and cut,with strong facial features, nice jaw
bone, big hands, eyes a sista can melt in, lips sistas will dream
about, thick strong legs to clasp on to, skin that is some
beautiful shade of natural brown,dressed to get positive attention,
and smelling so good you just want to be near him to breath his
essence, but everything mentioned about the ideal man must be
included
What you just read above is something I wrote years ago because Men
kept asking me what I wanted and whenI told them They wouldalways
tell me I was asking for to much. So I figured I would write it
down and lookat it myself. My father found it made a copy and asked
me to put it on the web for others to read. Funny thing is if I ask
for a man with a nice car and money and tobe fine. like I have
heard a lot of other women say thats not too much. As shallow as I
can be (I love eye candy) I require people in my life have
substance.
My Second home is long Beach CA Now could someone tell me where the
attractive men hang at?
How many men can handle being one of many men for one woman?
I`m working on a piece for my fathers next book. So for all the
brothas reading through my page tell me what you look for in a
woman. And what is something you are unwilling to do without?
and if you know soe females that don`t mind reading the page and
answering the question. Tell me Ladies what are you looking for and
why do you feel you deserve it?
For all of you brothas that might think I`m not interested in
conversation, because of my personal fetish... Go back up and read
my Ideal and ask yourself if you fit that. If youdo you should have
sent me a note about 10 mins ago. (Key word good conversation)
If you are really trying to get to know a sista. Let me help you
out as to what type of mind set I do have. The serious side of me
enjoys the thoughts of Doctors Ben Jochmin, Leonard Jeffries, and
Naim Akbar. If the thoughts of these men offend you I`m the wrong
chick for you to get to know.
also Check out the movie Bowling for Columbine
2.20.04 *personal thought for today* Send your time around deep
down good, strong, positive, caring, supportive helpful people, and
you will be amazed at how much of a better person you can
become.
1.5.04 I am 30 now I had to take the age off the side of my page
since a lot of older gentle men seem to be hitting my page. The
shallow side of me does love a young man since I am a big kid, but
if you are my age or a few years older and have those good genes
i`m cool as long as you look young and youaren`t too stuffy yet
mature at the same time. twisted combo i know. but i don`t like a
slow azz man at any age.
on the positive side of things i have met some great black men the
last few months. I love intelligentstrong brothas just makes my day
and puts a smile on my face.
12/26/03 a long thought.. ok its time for me to let the mean chick
out. Some of the notes I get drive me crazy. For different reasons
but most important I don`t find the page or the note of the sender
at all entertaining, thought provoking, funny, or just plain
interesting.
Some key things to think about, if you ask to `get to know me` it
tells me up front you didn`t read my page I don`t care how cute you
are you get no response. If you have porn of any form on your
page.. no notes i don`t respond to pervs. If you have weed or some
other form of drug, thats right no response. A picture of weapons
unless its a sword I like those.(he he)
If you have more pictures of other things like cars women, shoes...
lol turn off. Oh.. and if you have been somewhere taking pictures
with a bunch of half dressed chicks you don`t know.. no notes
man.
rule of thumb think about what kind of response you want back. I
send notes all the time telling a brotha how good he looks. I don`t
expected him to respond. Its just a thank you for theeyecandy. if
you want a response send a note worthy of me responding to
***
9/21/03 Question? If a man snakes another mans picture is he gay?
What scares me is the pictures they snake look real good. LOL whoa
thank you for the fake eye candy.
Why do some men seem to think its ok to judge and treat a woman
solely based on her looks and not her substance?
And for all of you men who only care about a womans looks... LOL I
have added a new picture at the bottom justfor you. Imagin waking
up to that in the morning..LMBAO
Question? If youhave to lie to get what you want, doesn`t that mean
you are not good enough?
If you are a pimp, playa, or thug I am too old for you. If you
don`t have proper home training Leave me alone!!
Aman only out for sex only has dyck to offer... and thats no where
near enough!
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05/21/04 another quick thought. Am I wrong to assume that these
young men coming back from the "war against terror" are going to
come back twisted from seeing and experiencing things no one should
have to.
**Note** I love a Fine man, but a fine man with nothing else to
offer is a waste of time. So.. shhhh keep quite and just look
pretty for mami.
Next time you look to book your travel do so via my page. And if
you are interested in making some extra money contact me about your
own travel site.
I just started selling accessories check out the site for great
prices on anklets, suede cell phone holders, Mother of pearl
(necklace,belts,and bracelets), and earrings. All make great
gifts.
So many people need to read this book. Chicken Head Habits seem to
be ramped and widely excepted behavior. Men need it to select
better women, Women need it to support positive behavior, and
Parents need it to help avoid typical weak-minded patterns lots of
girls are falling into.
Oh and yes my father is the Author
Check out myfathers new book too
and look out for my girl Crea
www.blacknbluebook.com
Ok its time for me to show appreciation to those brothas that
deserve it.
Since eye candy is so easy let me start there check out the
EbonySoul link. Ladies BUY BUY BUY
ok if you have read this far you should have a feel for a sista.
just so you know i`m a strong believer in energy, ifyou don`t come
with positive energy and a good nature.. heck if you just aren`t a
good person I hope you enjoyed your stay, but its time for you to
move on. naw man dont leave a note.. find an evil chick youcan play
games with and be nasty to.yall deserve each other. he he.. have a
good one people peace
