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Ok I deleted my page and created a new one, why I really have no idea, I guess bp has more of a selection of color I can choose from. Ok anyway I'm orginally from NYC Boogie down Bronx, born and raised, seen a lot of shi* been in through a lot shi* but I guess that how life is. Im. Puerto Rican and Nigerian I got the best of both worlds. I love my nationality and hope one day I can visit Africa. Hopefully if I work hard enough my dream would be to live out there in South Africa.
I love to run , sing (but I sound horrible), dance work my butt off at the gym I have no kids all except for my dog she is my baby. I did some College in Ohio at Kent State Univ that was a great experience. Need to go back to school to finish.
I work at the greenest building on the strip and would so love to find another occupation but for right now its keeping my bills paid.
I moved out here from Ny in Feb of 05 so its about to be 2yrs never thought I would be here this long but here I am, the only thing good is the weather and the fact that I have accomplished more out here than anything. I'll get this out the way now I did not move out here for no Nigga (I get that question a lot) I had to Leave college for some reason and it brought me out here. I live on my own and do everything on my own with my Lord and Saivor by my side. Family for me is a plus I love my family means more than anything to me in this world my little brother is the Air that I breath I 've raised him since I was 5yrs old and never seen anything so beautiful when I first seen him born I knew what love was. I'm more of an old fashioned person, I dont deserve the Baby Momma title the structure of a family is my aim and a man that understands that would be most compatable to me.
Anything else about me you can just ask other than that I'll keep typing whatever comes to mind.

No offense to anyone but the men I have met out here have been the F*c* ing worst, wheather they were from Vegas, West Coast, Down South or from the Midwest (I miss BX dudes) wherever they are coming from Vegas attracts a different specimin of men that I cannot even describe and its not a positive one either. Vegas is not the place to meet people at all If I met a decent individual out here that was about something and had respect for a women,that is about his %#&@$! and is honest, liberal and sincere and most importanly knows how to treat a women I'll smack myself in the face other than that im stickin with what I'm saying now. A Man is not the fact of having the lateset clothing style, shoes, sneakers, watch, or all the brand name things in life, meeting a person that understand the meaning of Progression and knowing that becoming a man is not something that happens over night or having a Johnson between your legs, a MAN WHO KNOWS THIS IS A PLUS. I want someone I can learn from and he can learn from me, so that we can progress together so in the long run we have that rock to build our foundation. But like I said Vegas has yet to surprise me, those who want to continue playing the field be my guest there l are so many beautiful enticing women out here but Im a one man kind of girl and want the same in return, been disrespected and cheated on, its not in me to do that to another person so It would be nice if I can meet someone who understnds that also.
Someone who is willing to go out and have a good time with me, rather than just only being in the house and never wanting to do anything else, only F*c* when the time calles for it. All in all I'm just done with the GAME PLAYING I've surpassed and excelled in my life to be played a fool Im no dummy. Nor am I just a pretty face

Ok the ganja factor this i will admit Im not square by a longshot but I think I'm done with dudes who just smoke all the time and drink. If you dont have any recollection of a converstion because your high all the time I have no patients for that. Once in a while its cool but my feelings are detoured from it. If you do smoke weed dont do it around me because I want a fuctional individual not one who's going to be unfuctional because he is high all the time.

Though my father and I dont have the best of realationship he worked his butt off for his family and made sure we had food on the table, My father is a man from Nigeria(yes my daddy smoked but he got the job done) which made it more difficult to make a living but he did it, He once told me that a man that cannot provide for his family and is not willing to work hard for anything in life or is not trying to give you the best things in life possible is not worth it. (He was not talking about materialistic possessions either cant take them to the grave). He also said a man who ask a women for things is not a man but if you have that relationship and you both provide for eachother instead of a take take that is not a realtionship so I wont be bothered. Stubborn man but when he talked I listened. People say a girl wants a man like her father and to a certain extent that is true but I have yet to find anyone close. Many women dont know what they want I know what I need and deserve. Somenone's who is willing to have a real realtionship and work hard at it, wanting to get to know me and him wanting me to know about him, if we cant have that openess its a closed door that does not want to be open
Im very independent and would love it if I found a man who was independent and had a list of endeavors he would like to accomplish and I'm not talking about pimpin , selling drugs or something that is bound to catch up with you one way or another, grew up in NYC my peoples is locked up for stupidity I have no patients for it anymore. Dont want to disrespect anyone's hussle because I know how hard it can be I just cant deal with the pros and cons of it. I've dealt with niggaz in the game and I cannot do it anymore !!!!!!!!!!!
I'm tired of guys who try to emulate what they see on T.V (BET) who treat women the way its shown and heard on the radio attain your own identity. IF Making money is the most important thing in your life its ashame, The importance of life is so much more than glorifying it as if it is your eveything. Most of you dont even see that it says in GOD we trust but many dont even take the time out to know what that means its not all about money. And if you have money does not mean that every women just wants you for that reason.
Please have God in your life and at least try to walk that path its not easy and I know we sin everyday but have God in your life and try to have that relationship with him, I know that he did not put us here to never accknowledge him, get right with god and everything will follow.

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