miss_cutie_85 I happy n doing me very well - Mar 07 add/view comments (0)

Everybody have something to say about Rhianna & Chris brown. The real situation here is that abusive relationship has become an epidemic in America. Some people feel that Rhianna had to do something to make Chris Brown hit her. But in realty it didn't matter what she could of said or did to even deserve the amount of abuse that she had to go through that night of incident. A man need to learn how to control his self to the he needs to know when to walk way and, cool off. Abuse in a relationship is never OK nor will it ever be safe. I found it through my own experience its better walk away with a broken heart then with no soul and no self integrity, no self worth. Woman it time we do some serous soul and self love searching. Because no man can love you more then you can love your self. Its not easy because I'm still taking that course. But, please believe I'm about to pass this class with honors.

Yes yes I'm doing my thing. Drive my own car, live alone in my Hugh condo, and career doing well. My hair stay done, out fits always on point, ear rings, shoes and purse to match. Pay for my own drink at the club. Holding it the bills down. but, listen....... let me tell you something being independent what not an option for me. I had to do what i had to do, to make a life for myself. I love nice things, and I learned from an early age that if that's how I wanted to live. That I had get it done on my own. It's not like in the 50's & 60's when a man knock on your door and ask your father if he can have your hand in marriage. Then he work and u stayed home and raised the kids and lived happily ever after. Now........ Something went very wrong in the 70's where men (black men) loss their foundation on how to treat woman and take care of the house hold. And, girls lost their father figure so they look and found love in middle school by giving up their virginity in order to feel accepted and cool to feel love and wanted. Where girls are giving up the draws so fast that guys know they don't even have to work for it. Let's not even talk about the TV and music videos selling sex and disrespect and degrading woman. Our generation is so lost and so unstructured woman are force to take the lead in life and start taking care of them self's and their families. But, let get it right yea I'm independent now until I meet a great guy who want to wife me and take over. Be the man in my life that can take of home. God created Eve for Adam using one of Adams rib to create Eve. Their for I was not put here on earth to be on my own. I was created to be a partner to my mate. Because as I maybe holding it down on my own, and seem happy doing me living my life. The true is I will never be complete without that partnership that I was made to be apart of. I still want a man to take care of home and me. Now, yes it true I don't need one, but I still want one that's how I feel its suppose to be. Now, just because I'm confident and, know what I want and Know what makes me happy doesn't mean that i have to settle for what ever I get. Because the true is negro if you can't bring it on to me correctly then you need to step and back the F*** up. I need a man who can better me and my situation not bring me down. Like come on. If I live along and have a career. Why would I be with a man who lives with his mother and in between side jobs. It's just not a match for me. You have to have what i have or better if you feel like you want to be on my team. I'm trying to live comfortably and happily which I was already doing well before he came in my life. Dudes like to called woman like myself arrogant, or prissy. But, no boo boo don't try to bring me down because I have my shit together and you just need to catch up with me honey. I'm a black strong head minded, independent, educated, beautiful, funny, and confident. I'm going to hold it down on my own until that right man finds me and puts a ring on it. And, only then will I be complete.

Hey you ever got so mad driving. Your voice just change, you be in the car sounding like dark rader and sh*t. In your car cussing real loud like they can really hear you. But, you dont give a fu*k it make you feel better cuz that person just cut you off on the road and you just hate that sh*t. You be hooking like you know sos code to fu*k motherf*&ker I will f*&king ki* your a$$. You just wish you had a gun just to show then today is not fu*king day to piss you the f*&k off. I be about lose my mind on the road just get to work. All frustrated about to cuss out anybody that just look at me wrong. It be so bad you dont even want to go out driving during rush hour. Plus the damn sun don't be playing. Get in your car with the damn thing steaming. Maybe its the heat mix with bullsh*t that just have people about to lose their minds in the road but, I cant tell you why cuz I be acting up cuss and all myself. When I watch news and they talk about how someone got shot in a road rage dispute. I dont get mad man. I be like well they should of never cut the man off. Maybe he wouldn't be shoting and sh*t. If bit*hes just respect the road LOL... im a mess ya.

When u are all alone at home in her room, why is that the time that u just start thinking about the most crazist sh*t. I just hate that my mind wonders around like im f%^king losing it. I start thinging about what my true life calling. What was God's true intension when he made my ass. Then I start thinking about, What the f**k and I gonna eat im so hungry. Then, I start thinking about the last time I ate out and left all the food on my plate that was f%$king good but was just not in the mood to stuff my face. I how I would just F*&k the sh*t up right now. I also thought about all the people that owe me money. And, how I could really use that sh*t now cuz im broke ass f*&k. I should of said no motherf*&ker im broke but I didn't I gave that sh&t away. I might just be talking out my a$$ right now but my mind just be lost. I need a hobby or something cuz my mind just be wondering...... get back lol

Come on yall! Tell me what's going on. Please can some one just break it down to me because I just dont understand how women with kids always get in to new relationships with good man that move in with them and help take care of them, and all of their kids. I mean here I am.... A pretty female that keeps her self up to date with my nails done, hair right, outfit always on point. Good career, live alone in a nice condo. I drive my own car (a 2007 car by da way). I have personality, I can hold great conversation. I make good money. But, I cant find a good man for nothing, because they are all booed up with baby mama's that didn't even their kids. Now, don't get me wrong I get dress and go out to have a nice time with my girls. But, only meet broke niggas thats just dont have shit but their di*ks in their hands taking bout.... "Yea girl! So what's up with me and you", Uwwhhh.....Nothing broke ass nigga dont even have a job catching rides to the club with their homeboy plz!!! Are you serious! Man, I know their are still some real good independent men out their looking for good women like me. Who can pay her own bills and still come home and cook some good dinner after work. You feel me! WUA SUP!!! Listen, yall fellas who had them crazy ass ex gurl friends, that cheated on your while you was at work trying to pay the bills, just dont give up because their are still real good ass females like myself waiting for u to come put a ring on it. So holla at your gurl.

Life runs slow and sad with no love. It make life seem so dull. Your days seem quite and still. Each image of happiness make you angry with envy. Sleeping alone make nights so cold. When love enters your life its like rebirth of energy. Every walk and movement you make glows with spark and shimmer. You daydream and your face smiles and glows, and then everyone know yep thats love in the air cause look at that face of full inlight of joy. I will lay down right here till love comes and dries my tears.