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Hello Everyone, well Sam Cooke couldn't have said it better when he said "It's been a LONG TIME COMING, BUT A CHANGE GON' COME..." It's been since 2001 that I've established this account and have never changed a thing about it... The time has come.. As we all know we all grow, change, and metamorphasize over the years...In my case, all of those have and are still occurring... My old page exhibited only one facet and to be completely honest, I really didn't understand much more than that about myself...Now 6 years later, I am SO MUCH MORE....Not because of anything monitary but because of my own personal growth... That is much more than any dollar amount or material thing I could ever acquire. So with this being said, over the coarse of this year(already almost half gone by) I will keep you updated on the metamorphasizing....ME

ABOUT ME:

I am a 31 year old transplant from California to the lovely ATLanta.... I have been here since 2003 so this is very much so my permanent home unless there is something or SOMEONE better to take me away. I have NO CHILDREN, but I would love to have one in the next couple of years with the RIGHT person, perhaps that may never happen but I'll just continue to keep hope alive.. Lets see, I am a very light hearted person for the most part, I have my days of course.. I love to laugh, but definately have a good grip on when it is actually appropriate to do so.. I'm down to earth, and those who truely know me know that my sometimes serious exterior is just that(an exterior), I am such a BABY at heart.... I love to be pampered HEY I'M A WOMAN, I SHOULD BE...LOL.


WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR....

Someone who truely understands the meaning of friendship and partnership. In my years I have come to learn that one cannot simply live on love alone. Love is a beautiful thing, but in all actuallity it does not sustain a relationship. Love is an emotion. It takes more than an emotion. Sometimes I sit and relish about how some of the other religions and cultures choose their partners in life, such as arranged marriages. Not that I totally agree with that, but the gist is the marriage is not based on love but rather a committment and partnership. Love generally will come later when everyone commits to their own responsibilities in a relationship. In my observation, those are the relationships that last a lifetime. Now please understand, that as I stated I do not totally agree with that way of life as I am in control of this ship, and only God and myself are allowed to choose for me. But what I take from that way of life is that love will come later, what matters to me now is your willingness to be my friend, partner and confidante... Of course to even want to be my friend you have to appreciate who I am and vise versa, but after that's established it doesn't take forever to figure out whether a person is worthy of your time investment. I know exactly what I want, and at your age(25-42) you should too...Well that is if you step to a woman like me... I'm not interested in a man who's not sure of what he wants. I understand, we all go through that stage and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. But just wait until you've passed that stage to advance to me... Lets see, what else do I look for in a man? I love a man who is well spoken, well groomed, and educated. There is nothing that turns me on more in a man than intelligence. I want a man that I can learn from, and not have to teach everything as if he were a child. I admire a man who is confident and sure about himself. I love a man who exhibits a dominant ora about himself, as I do still have some old fashioned submissive ways... NOW HEAR THIS AND HEAR THIS CLEARLY: I am NOT submissive to every man, but that very strong loving, passionate, compassionate, MAN.... That one who takes control of every bad or potentially bad situation, that protector, that father, that lover, that best freind who always has your best interest at heart, that man that whenever he feeds his belly yours is already full....THAT'S THE MAN I'll SUBMIT TO... I will follow a wise man to the moon, but a fool I won't even cross the street with... So keep that in mind, if you want a QUEEN BE A KING........ WATCH ME AS I METAMORPHASIZE.....51lbs and still melting...CORRECTION 166lbs DOWN!!!!!!!!!!!!