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Hey you, So much to say. I'll be brief. As i sip my wine...What's on my mind?...Lots...

Growth...

Came across another's page dealing with change, growth, and maturity. Got me thinking. I believe that's the 1st page that i can recall in quite awhile, where a man expressed his vulnerabilities and what he's doing to grow. Impressive, passionate, and honest. Got me thinking of us, human beings, where we are in today's world. Things seem so "out of order". Society telling us, pressuring us about what type of individual we should be. Us following, like heartless, brainless fools. No sense of individuality anymore, most...just carbon copies of the next one. I guess what i'm saying or rambling about, depending on how you take it, is we've lost our sense of self. We lost our need of wanting to get to that next level. Complacency. Stuck in this moment. Sure some hustle to obtain the material things. But is that what makes us, us? What happened to wanting to be more honest, more compassionate towards others, more passionate, respectful, and supportive towards our mates, family and friends, those intangible things that you can't see, only feel. Saddens me. I'm working on me, trying to be better, every day. Do I have flaws? Sure i do, we all do. It's senseless for us act as if we don't. We paint these unrealistic pictures of ourselves and wonder why things fall apart. If the foundation isn't well built and strong then you know what can and will happen right? Sure it's tough to better yourself but most things worth having won't be easy to acquire. I know this. It's designed that way to make you appreciate the struggle. We all have to find a way to rise to the occassion.

Relationships... Baffles me.

So many single people who can't seem to find each other. Maybe we're to picky. To shallow. To light, to dark, to fat, to skinny, to tall, to short, wrong career, not enough money, not enough status, wrong car, no house. I mean the list can go on forever. Just a few of what i hear. All physical things, not those intangible things i spoke of earlier. I mean sure, physical attraction... there's got to be something there, just a little. I'd be lying if i said it didn't apply to me as well. On the real though, most people are hoping to find someone who has drive, some ambition, determination, can compromise, communicate effectively and has patience. Even if you never reach that goal, the fact that you set one and tried to achieve it, says more than words can convey. Most women want a man who is a leader. A man who values his family. A man who honors his woman, knowing she has his back through any storm. Without her strength to compliment his, he isn't at his full potential. When are we going to recognize we NEED each other.

10 Things about me...

• 1.Trying to be a better me everyday.
• 2.Passionate, sensitive, sensual, intuitive, moody.
• 3.Love to laugh.
• 4.Love sports, basketball, football, baseball, track & field  (don't call me on sunday, i'm watching the game, lol). Go Celtics! Carolina Panthers...sigghhh, lol Go UConn Huskies #4 Jamal Coombs-McDaniel (my baby cousin)
• 5.Originally from Boston(Roxbury/Dorchester) MA, grew up in Charlotte NC, Lived in N.W. (Adams Morgan) DC, Brooklyn (BedStuy) NY, Alexandria VA (King St.), and Broward County (Coral Springs), FL.
• 6.Used to write song lyrics, hence my name "misslyricist".
• 7. Pretty domesticated, love cooking, extremely organized, enjoy all things "home".
  8. Would love to travel more, an island will be my next stop
• 9. I'm a book worm, just inquisitive about alot of things.
• 10. I dislike any man who's a deadbeat dad, your child/children need/s you.

 Some of my favorite quotes

A setback is a setup for a comeback.

Nothing beats a failure but a try.

You can't move forward if you're always looking back.

Define yourself or someone else will.

Live for today or sit and think about what you missed tomorrow.

Parting words for now...
I`m always around, if you wanna chat. You know what to do to make it happen. Please keep it respectful so you don't end up on my blocked/stalker list. I`m sure we`ve got plenty to discuss, from religion, to politics, to relationships, to culinary arts and music, to whatever is on your mind. Been here on BP for almost 11 years. Wow! Where did the time go? I imagine i have a teensy weensy addiction to this place...but don`t tell anybody! So i suppose i'm not going anywhere. But i`m glad that i do, i wouldn`t have met you if i hadn`t kept coming back.
 

Smooches,
MsL