Why Oh Why is it so hard to let go. Why do we, and when I say "we" I mean men and women, why do we take so much from a person just to say we are in a relationship. Why do we endure so much hurt for so little pleasure. I've heard it said " No Pain, No Gain", but if you ask me it's "No Gain When You Have Pain". You might think I'm wrong, but these are my feelings, so work with me. Why do we make people a priority and they make us a option? Why do we go against everything we know is right for the... (continue reading)

LADIES HOW CAN WE SAY WE WANT A GOOD MAN WHEN WE ARE NOT GOOD WOMEN? LADIES HOW CAN WE TEACH OUR CHILDREN WHEN WE ARE TO STUBBORN TO LEARN? LADIES HOW CAN WE TURN UP OUR NOSES AND DEGRADE EACH OTHER WHEN WE ARE IN THE SAME STRUGGLE? LADIES HOW CAN WE RAISE OUR DAUGHTERS TO BE STRONG WHEN THEY WATCH US BE SO SUBMISSIVE TO THESE MEN? LADIES HOW CAN WE FIGHT SO HARD TO KEEP A MAN IN OUR LIFE AND TURN AROUND AND CUT A FAMILY MEMBER OFF? LADIES HOW CAN WE HAVE A UNEMPLOYED MAN AND WE WORK EVERYDAY... (continue reading)

What makes you a man? Is it the base in your voice? Is it the hair on your face? Or maybe the equipment between your legs. Naw, none of that. That just makes you a male. You are a man when you earn the confidence you walk with, talk with and live with. You are a man when you can stick a key in the door of a home you work hard to pay for and not just the lady inside. You are a man when you kiss your woman goodbye and head to work and not closing the door behind her because she is the one heading... (continue reading)