mr_blacknmild01 IM READY TO FIND THE WOMAN OF MY DREAMS, GOD WILLING!! - October 10, 2011 add/view comments (0)

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*****WHAT IM SEEKING IN A WOMAN!!*****

HEY WHATS UP PEOPLE OF NORTH CAROLINA. I STAY IN RICHMOND,VA. I JUST MADE A PAGE IN THE NC TO SEE WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE I COULD MEET. IM 29 YRS OLD LIBRA AND I LIKE "COUGARS". I LIKE LADIES 25 TO 40. IM SEEKING A LADY READY TO SETTLE DOWN. I WANT A LADY WHOSE SPIRITUAL BUT YET KNOWS HOW TO HAVE FUN. I CAN BE FREAKY, SO I WANT A LADY WITH NO INTERBISSION. I WANT A LADY WHOSE WELL EDUCATED, LOVING, ROMANTIC, A LITTLE HOOD( BEING ABLE TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF IN THE HOOD), SOMEONE WHO CHERRISHES COMMUNICATION. SOMEONE WHO CAN COOK AND HAVE A MANS INTERESTS AT HEART. POINT BLANK" I HAVE BEEN HURT DEEPLY, I WANT A BESTFRIEND AND WIFEY MATERIAL FOR ME, I WANT SOMEONE WHO WANTS KIDS, SOMEONE WHO CAN BE THE SEXUAL AND SENSUAL PERSON. IM VERY FEELING TOUCHY. I NEVER CHEATED, HAD DISEASE OR BEEN TO JAIL.I HOPE YOU DONT DISCRIMINATE!!

its crazy but for some strange reason i like "cougers", which means beautiful women between 30-40. i know she is out there, but im seeking a couger with a funfill spirit. they say 40 is the new 30 and 30 is the new 20. i see all these cougers out here and they be looking good as hell too. shoot!!it took my baby mother who is 32 for me to have my first child. i would like to find a funfilled, loving, looking for a that bestfriend, who is in to me, ready for commitment, who has patience, who doesn't have a problem showing me things to make me a better person WHATEVER the case may be. she gots to be beautiful and recognize when she sees potential and willing to take a chance, since u all be sayin ya all spirited and want a good man and stuff. i think what it is that a cougar will love me the way i want to love with that old school love. "girl show me how they did in the late 80's early 90's. i also been told that i have a old soul with old tendencies. its rare to find a cougar with 1 or max of 2 kids. um i like cougars because they would be able to translate my thoughts and ideas and make them better. someone who will encourage me,inspire me, someone with experience who wont be afraid to share with me what have experience and not be ashame, embarrass or selfish. let me find a cougar who is able to have and want kids, maybe 1. i have a girl, now i want a boy. well i can go on and on about why i want a atleast 30-40. OH AND PLEASE DONT BE ABOUT GAMES, COME ON THAT REAL OR BEING HONEST WILL DO. ITS LIKE WHY BECAUSE A OLDER WOMAN IS A ATTRACTED TO A YOUNGER GUY OR VICE VERSA, THE OLDER PERSON GOT TO FEEL THAT THEY HAVE TO RUN GAME OR PLAY GAMES TO GET WHAT THEY WANT? IM VERY OBSERVANT!!

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

Love is patient; love is kind. Love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way: it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrong doing, but rejoices in truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. And now faith, hope, and love abide, and the greatest of these is love ;

WHAT A GOOD RELATIONSHIP SHOULD BE ;

First and foremost, the backbone of any good successful relationship is the existence of love. Love suffers long for people, goes the extra mile and always has the best interest of the other person in mind. Love is the first and crucial element to any mature relationship.

Deep wet kisses every chance you get

Sleep eye to eye with each other

Rub each other feet!

Cook food together

Kiss him in the rain..

Stare at her in church..hold her hand..and recite a pray in her favor.

Tickle her when she is angry

Listen to her when she is telling you a wack story..sound interested.

Listen to him when he is talking about technical stuff!

Love him harder when guys stare at you.

Wear his T shirts and basketball shorts..and still look sexy!!

Dance slowly, in a random place...with no music..no song.

Give each other random gifts to make each other smile.

Send text messages saying that you love him or her.

Be by each other's side always, even in the bad.

Learn to agree to disagree. Understand that a difference of opinion doesn't make the other person wrong, it makes them unique.

Take responsibility for your own actions. Apologize for what you said, regardless of provocation.

Ladies, understand that you are not the center of the world. Make him the center of yours and you will become the center of his.

There are other things to do together other than movies. Ladies, do something that he likes to do sometime. Again, you are not the center of the world.

Pick and choose your battles. If it doesn't involve a major issue, don't waste your time arguing about it. Learn to let things go.

Let the past stay in the past. Don't throw what he did 10 years ago in his face everytime you get mad at him. If you choose to forgive him, then stick with it. Fellas, that goes for you all too. Learn that once you accept an apology, no matter what it is for, even if it's for infedility, an acceptance of an apology throws the wrong into the sea of Forgotten Things. It can't be brought back up. To do so makes that person a hypocrit

Hold his hand to help each other through life..its the simple things that matter most!!!

Once you get him ladies, you have to work 3 times as hard to keep him. Remember, men have short attention spans, so, don't get too relaxed because he will lose interest. Remember, you will always have competition. You may think you have him on lock but then the next "shorty" comes along and snags him and leaves you looking stupid.

Another element to successful relationship is the ability to be open to change. Everyone has different ideas, world views and perceptions about life and the ways things should be done. Many times we think our way is the best way but truthfully there is most likely a better way to something then you've ever done before. You need to be flexible and adjusting with the new changes and also with the changes in your partner's emotions and mood fluctuations.

Small things do count. Be appreciative instead of expecting everything your partner does for you.

Accept that things should be a compromise, not just one way all the time.

Ladies, I have learned that you have to let a man be a man. I believe in the Bible very strongly and I believe in old fashioned ways. The man is the head of household. That doesn't mean you surrender, it means submit to what's right.

Love unconditionally and hard.

Ladies, once you get the man, you have to work 3 times harder to keep him. Men have short attention spans. If you become too relaxed, he will lose interest and you will lose him to the next shorty.

Pick and choose your battles. Every issue doesn't have to be an argument. Sometimes agree to disagree. There are always different perspectives. I have learned that in life, an opposing view is not necessarily a wrong view. It's just a different view, which can be good.