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***LADIES I HAVE SOMETHING YOU SHOULD READ*** Im gonna use this section to answer the question that "black women" have wanted to know for years.... HOW CAN I FIND A GOOD BLACK MAN???? OR WHY CAN'T I FIND A GOOD BLACK MAN??????? NOTICE THAT I SAID A GOOD MAN...IM NOT TELLING YOU HOW TO GET HOOD ASS SILLY NIGGAS..THAT SHITTS EASY TO FIND...SO IF THAS WHAT YA LOOKIN FOR KEEP MOVING...BETTER YET..JUMP OFF A BRIDGE...My words may seem confusing or clustered because It's a rough draft so im typing pretty fast and as I think of other things or corrections I will make changes as I go so bare with me. First let me say that these are my opinions so if you don't agree with them then keep tha comments to yorself. I DIDNT ASK YOU TO READ IT....Im just saying some things that have been on my mind. and THANX FOR READING. OK HERE WE GO..FIRST...You have to know that there are plenty of contributing factors to why Its hard to find a a good black man..Im gonna try and touch on a few things....First and foremost....PROBABLY THE NUMBER ONE REASON WHY YOU HAVE A HARD TIME FINDING A GOOD BLACK MAN IS YOU! YOURSELF,,WHY?? for several reasons...your appearance...your character...mentality...all of those things are reasons...Ask yourself this question...When people sit and think about the perfect person to settle down with, what type of person comes to mind??? Beautiful...Successful...Good person...Faithful...Smart...ma ybe kinda tough...Right??..all of those things...Those are some traits that 90% of people, man or woman will say they want in a perfect spouse...NOW LET ME ASK YOU THIS...How many people will say that my perfect partner will be....Ugly....unemployed....cr iminal...dumb...broke....thing s like that???? Some might but not many...So why would you wanna be those things??..Or settle down with someone like that???..Think about it...,To understand the black male you have to realize that there are different types of black men: The first is..1. The unattractive black man who KNOWS he's unattractive. 2.The unattractive black man who THINKS he's attractive. 3.The attractive black man who KNOWS hes attractive. 4.The attractive black man who DOESN'T KNOW his potential. When it comes to men .Women have to realize that men are kinda like women in lots of ways...For one..if he hears constantly that he's attractive then its only natural that he may develop a cocky attitude and use that to his advantage.....Just as a woman would...and its the same thing for being NOT attractive..If your constantly dissed or told your ugly/fat/etc...you will begin to believe that...and it will show in your character and the way you carry yourself.... although the thing about a black man (and some black women) being unattractive..(and im sure ladies know this)..is that some black men are still very aggressive at approaching women EVEN tho they get told 80% of the time>>> "nigga eeew you ugly"...It still doesn't stop them..(mainly ghetto hood niggas)..But we'll get back to them in a second...A HUGE PROBLEM WITH WOMEN IS THAT THEY WANT A GOOD MAN BUT THEY THINK THEY'LL FIND A GOOD MAN WITH A CERTAIN IMAGE...SUCH AS A NIGGA WHO LOOKS GOOD...HAS SORT OF A HARD IMAGE...DRESSES NICE...HAS A NICE CAR...and has decent MONEY...BUT STILL BE A GOOD NIGGA (basically wont cheat)...HAHAHA "GUESS WHAT?? GOOD LUCK...thats the first problem with black women...Your looking for something thats like a 5% chance of happening....Im Not saying it cant...but its hard...Your chances of gettin all that in one package is gonna be hard..Just like a man finding a perfect package...A young BLACK WOMaN WANTs A GUY WITH AN IMAGE LIKE PLIES BUT DOESNT WANT HIM TO CHEAT ON HER AND BE FAITHFUL...LOL..but those types of characteristics come wIth a guy with that image...It is what it is...If you want the street image then you have to accept the rest..EXAMPLE: I know this female who always talks about how her baby daddy doesnt give a crap about her kid(who she says is his) and how he aint sh*t...BUTTTT all she talks about is how she likes "Florida nigggas"...cause their real niggass...WOW...Do you see the problem here???..Those types of nigggas got yu here in da first place...I ONLY GOT TWO WORDS.."grow up"....YOU HAVE TO REALIZE THAT WHEN A MAN SETTLES DOWN ITS FOR DIFFERENT REASONS JUST LIKE THE DIFFERENT TYPES OF MEN...EXAMPLE.. A MAN WHO COULDNT GET FEMALES WILL PROLLY SETTLE DOWN QUICKER BECAUSE HES NOT USE TO HAVING A LOTTA FEMALE ATTENTION SO WHEN HE GETS ATTENTION HE MAY RUN WITH IT..AND VICE VERSA...A common myth around black men is that the Black man creates bad women from the things that they do...Suggesting that black women that go around doing crazy things,,,does them because of the things she's went threw with a black man ."ridiculous" First of all thats so fucckin ridiculous..NO ONE MAKES YOU A HOE..OR GAY..YOU DO THOSE THINGS BECAUSE YOU WANTED TO...AND IF YOU DID.,,THEN YOU NEED THERAPY...I CANT HELP YOU...Let's remember that probably 90% of black men do everything that they do to impress women...Actually all men to be honest..not just black men "it all comes back to women"..The rims...The jordans...The clothing...All that sh*t...is to impress women...AND YES EVEN THE NIGGAS ALREADY IN RELATIONSHIPS THAT DO DOES THINGS...And so if the black woman wasnt impressed by these things then WE probably wouldn't do it "SIMPLE AS THAT" But women allow those things to catch their eye..When im giving advice to any young men who ask me about pulling women..I tell them that the first thing you have to do is catch their eye especially when your talking about young black women...You need to stand out because if you dont they prolly wouldnt notice you...If a crowd of black women (mostly young ones) are standing in a club line talking,,,,they prolly wouldn't notice any cars coming by like the guy in da Honda accord...BUTTT if a nigg* comes by in an old car with big rims then every female in the line will try to see whos in the car..."simple as that"...and why is that you might ask???? Well its because it seems that the black woman is only interested in what a man can do for me RIGHT NOW...TODAY...and not interested in the POTENTIAL of the man...(of course not all of them)...But some are just ready to look good on the SIDE of this man TODAY..They think its cute to say...He's mine...OR..To ride shotgun in some nice car..Its sad that young black females would most likely choose a rap niggaa over a doctor or a lawyer...And then theres also the comment that "WELL THERE ARENT ANY GOOD MEN OUT THERE" OR "I WANT A GOOD MAN BUT I JUST SEEM TO ATTRACT BAD ONES"...Both comments are ridiculous...First off all there are good men out there,,, and GOOD BLACK MEN at that (im not even tryin to say im one..haha)..but there are plenty of young black men who are educated, professional or in college or work who maybe don't go out or isn't usually out and about and who don't wear the jordans or have nice cars with rims or don't talk with da what chu know daddy jive slang ebonics..lol..who chill at home focused on their future.....But black women don't look for these men.."their called lame or nerds and,,,geek"...And you attract dogs because that's what you look for...or thas what your past choices in life have left you with..EXAMPLE: The black woman who had the potential in High school to have any man she wanted and chose the cool guys and ignored the rest.,,then she gets older years lata and down the road has children and winds up single..And now its hard to find a good man becasue your used goods....>>>>Well what did u expect? When you had a chance to get a good man,,,you turned him away for the cool one because you wanted to look good NOW TODAY .and now you shouldnt expect a man with his whole future ahead of him to stop everything he's doing and accept you and your kids and you may still be kinda attractive and he wants sex and then he uses you because a lot of attractive cocky men our like that<(remember I said they have cockiness from the compliments they get)..Of course not all men are like that...I personally don't mind a female with kids but thas just how some men are...But then here comes the hood niggas you say you attract well of course they will talk to you because if you're a single female with your own place and car he will look past the kids because hes juss glad to be with a female that has a few things .So he'll seem to "care and love you"...but where else is he gonna go? Back to mamas??? But he's still a hood nigga so he keeps up drama with the cheating and maybe dope .constant arguing .even around the kids .that nigg* may have you ending up fighting other females over him...and your lifes sh*t now....Then you and him break up and in comes another one..IT'S A CYCLE..that you caused your self but you don't have to accept that.BUT LET ME STOP A MOMENT AND SAY THIS...NOT EVERYONE SHOULD BE LOOKING TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP...PEOPLE THINK THAT EVERYONES SUPPOSED TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP AND SETTLE DOWN AT SOME POINT IN THEIR LIFE SO THEY FORCE THEMSELVES TO SETTLE DOWN..BUT THE TRUTH is SOME PEOPLE ARE BETTER OFF SINGLE,,EVEN THO IM LOOKIN TO SETTLE DOWN SOON I HAVE NEVER HAD A PROBLEM BEING SINGLE....I LOVED BEING SINGLE BECAUSE I KNEW THAT I DIDNT CARE FOR DRAMA AND THAS SOMETHING THAT COULD BE EASILY FIXED...stay single..I WOULD ALWAYS BE AMAZED AT THE THINGS PEOPLE WENT THROUGH AND I ALWAYS TOLD MYSELF...ITS GREAT BEING SINGLE because i dont have that problem..AND I ALSO KNEW THAT I NEEDED ALOT OF ALONE TIME...SOME MEN CONFUSE BEING HORNY WITH BEING LONELY AND WANTING TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP..SITTING AT HOME ONE NIGHT THINKING...IM LONELY RIGHT NOW...I NEED TO BE AROUND A WOMAN...SO HE STARTS SAYING THINGS AND DOING THINGS HE USUALLY MAY NOT DO..SAYING BABY I CARE ABOUT YOU...OR IM TIRED OF BEING ALONE...LETS BE TOGETHER...BUT AFTER SEX HE DOESNT FEEL THAT WAY...I WAS LUCKY ENUFF TO LEARN THIS WHEN I WAS A TEENAGER....MAYBE IM NOT LONELY OR WANT A GIRLFRIEND...I MAY JUST HAVE A NEED I WANT SATISFIED AND IT HELPED ME ALOT..IT MAY SOUND BAD BUT ITS TRUE..I WOULD NEVER JUMP INTO A RELATIONSHIP DUE TO LUST..BECAUSE I DONT SEND MIX MESSAGES AND I DONT PLAY WITH PEOPLES HEARTS.I NEVER UNDERSTOOD WHY MEN CAN BE PLAYAS BUT TELL EVERY WOMAN THEY CARE ABOUT THEM OR THEY HAVE FEELINGS...THATS WHAT ALOT OF MEN DO..THEY KNOW MORE THAN ONE WOMAN AND INSTEAD OF BEING REAL AND SAYING HEY..I LIKE CHILLING WITH YOU BUT I DONT REALLY WANNA GET SERIOUS RIGHT NOW...THEY SAY THE OPPOSITE..BABY I CARE ABOUT YOU...AND MEN ONLY DO THAT BECAUSE THEY WANT IT BOTH WAYS...HE DOESNT WANT YOU DOING ANYTHING EVEN IF HE'S DOING THINGS..BLACK MEN CAN BE FUCCKIN LAME WITH THAT SOMETIMES..CAUSE THEY KNOW THAT SHITT HURTS...THEY WILL ARGUE WITH A WOMAN FOR EVEN LOOKING AT A NIGGA BUT BE OUT FUCCKIN EVERYONE IN TOWN..IF YOU CANT TAKE IT..DONT DO IT..WOMEN CAN LEARN FROM THAT TOO..PEOPLE TELL ME THAT I DONT HAVE A HEART AND IM ALWAYS NEGATIVE...BUT WHEN IT COMES TO WOMEN ITS BEEN A SUCCESSFUL TRAIT..I HAVE 99 PROBLEMS BUT A B**** AINT 1...HAHA...I DIAGNOSE EVERYTHING...The black woman needs to have standards and until she has standards and accepts only quality black men she wont have ne..Im amazed at how an adult female can allow herself to get into a relationship with a guy who doesnt have nething...Not a car...Not a job...and stays with his mom and barely has money and the little money he has he spends on nice cloths which is what fools these women...HOW ARE MEN LIKE THIS GETTIN WOMEN???...I understand teenagers doin it BUTTTT ADULTs...???? THIS IS AMAZINGLY WRONG..BLACK WOMEN will lay up under these lazy niiggas and allow their body and mind to juss go to waste..WHICH by the way IS WHY HE LEAVES YOU after a while OR CHEATS on you..because your fat now from laying up under him everynight..you thought it was cute...but it backfired on you...lol..The men are winning the battle right now when the woman SHOULD NEVER LOSE WHEN IT COMES TO THE MALE/FEMALE RELATIONSHIP..Instead of black women saying "im not gonna accept these types of black men,,,,their actually IMPRESSED AND ARE ACTUALLY LOOOOOOKINGGG!!!!! LOOKING!!! for these types of men...you have to think..JUSS THINK...think for once in your life....What can a man whos been in and out of jail or whos selling dope...or who Cheats all the time...Do for your future???? NOTHING but your not concerned with that because it makes you look good now...or he may be attractive or has a nice car or he f*cks good (which is the reason 70% of the time and her dumbass keeps saying "but I love him" and im like..nigga please..you love getting f*cked by him lets, be real..ANY GUY WILL TELL YOU THAT ITS EASY TO HOOK A FEMALE WHEN YOUR GOOD IN BED...ESPECIALLY YOUNG WOMEN...IVE ACTUALLY KNOWN FEMALES WHO I HAD CASUAL SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS WITH TELL ME THAT THEY LOVE ME OR CARE ABOUT ME AND WHY???? BECAUSE I KNOW HOW TO F***...(NOT TO BRAG OR ANYTHING..BUT I AM GOOD IN DA SACK..LOL)...AND WE HAVE NEVER EVEN LEFT DA HOUSE TOGETHER...AMAZING...SAD BUT TRUE...But now let me tell you how to get him....THE FIRST THING A WOMAN HAS TO KNO is that "YOU CAN'T MAKE A MAN WANT TO BE WITH YOU"...Im sure you've heard that or know that already...He has to want to be with you...you cant force a man to want to be with you right? BUTTTTTT What a woman needs to know is that SHE HAS TO LEARN TO MAKE A MAN ""WANT TO WANT YOU...LOOK CAREFULLY AT WHAT I JUST SAID I didn't say "make him want you"...I said MAKE HIM WANT TO WANT YOU!!!!...and you may be asking well how do I do that???..First of all you need to figure out what type of man he is...GHETTO ASS NIGGASS ARE ATTRACTED TO GHETTO ASS HOOD FEMALES...LET ME BE CRYSTAL CLEAR WHEN I SAY THIS.......THERE AINT NOTHING ABOUT A BLACK FEMALE THAT TURNS ME OFF MORE THAN A FUCKINNG HOODRAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I CANT STAND TO LOOK AT HOODRATS.....I CANT STAND TALKING TO HOODRATS...HOES WITH BLUE...GREEN,,,GOLD HAIR AND SHIIT LIKE THAT...LOUD FUCCKIN MOUTHS..CHEAP ASSS CLOTHS THEY PUT TOGETHER FROM SIX DIFFERENT OUTFITS..CLUB HOPPING...CURSING..SCARRED UP HOODRATS..GOOD MEN DONT LOOK FOR HOODRATS...NIIGGAS DO...YOU EVER SEE RICH NIIGGAS GO BACK TO DA HOOD FOR RATS??? NO...THEY EITHER GET BETTER BLACK WOMEN OR WHITE femalez,,,...AND remember that everyone fronts when they meet....SO THINKING THAT YOU KNOW HIM AFTER A WEEK IS A LIEEE!!!!!!ITS IMPOSSIBLE....IMPOSSIBLE..I REPEAT...IMPOSSIBLE TO KNOW SOME ONE THAT SOON....Even the ones who say "im bein real and straight up" even women...AND remember that more than likely his %#&@$!S is whats making him sound so good lol...HERES A TEST!!!FIRST OFF WHEN YOU MEET AND ARE HAVING THOSE LONG CONVERSATIONS OR TEXT ON THE PHONE...TEST HIS SEXUALITY...FIND OUT WHAT HIS INTENTIONS ARE BY BRINGING UP SEXUAL TOPICS....AND NO THAT DOESNT MEAN ASK THE TYPICAL DUMB QUESTION..."SO HOW MANY WOMEN HAVE YOU BEEN WITH"...AND DONT ASK..."SO WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR"....BECAUSE OF COURSE HE WILL LIE..Just start talking about sex..simple as that and listen to his responses..THE SECOND THING TO TEST IS IF HE WOULD BE AROUND YOU WITH OTHERS AND IN PUBLIC...SEE IF HE WILL TAKE YOU SOMEWHERE VERY PUBLIC.."WAL-MART" IS PERFECT!!!..BECAUSE THIS SAYS ALOT ABOUT HIS INTENTIONS...I KNOW THAT OF COURSE SOMEGUYS WILL DO THESE THINGS IF HE'S REALLY TRYING TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU SO HE MAY TAKE YOU SOMEWHERE JUST FOR THAT PURPOSE...BUT THIS SAYS MORE ABOUT WHAT HE THINKS ABOUT YOUR "APPEARANCE" THAN ANYTHING ELSE..BECAUSE IF HE JUST WANTS TO F*CK AND HE DOESNT WONT ANYONE ELSE TO KNOW THEN HE'S NOT TAKING YOU ANYWHERE IN PUBLIC MORE THAN LIKELY..AND REMEMBER THAT A MAN CAN THINK YOUR BEAUTIFUL AND WOULD LOVE TO SHOW YOU OFF BUT IF YOUR "COOTCH" AINT GOOD WHEN HE GETS IT THEN THOSE THINGS WONT MATTER FOR LONG PROLLY....AND ANOTHER TEST IS THE AFTER SEX TEST...IF YOU REALLY WANT TO DO THIS MAN THEN YOU MIGHT AS WELL DO IT NO MATTER HOW LONG YOUVE KNOWN HIM BECAUSE AFTER HE'S BEEN WITH YOU AND FELT YOUR TOUCH IS THE "REAL TIME" THAT A MAN WILL BEGIN TO SHOW SOME OF HIS TRUE COLORS" SO HOLDING OUT WONT HELP....People say whatever they think a person wants to hear when they first meet .And I say this because I know alotta women say "well he didn't act like that when we first met" he changed" ..?? Don't sound so typical And how many times are u gonna fall for that??....Black women seem to think that having a big butt or a "thick" body will help them get men OR being like da fellas will help them get men...But you have to realize what a man's really saying...When a man sees a woman with a big %#&@$! or wearing a skimpy outfit he thinks to his self or says.... "Damn I would f*ck her..And women are dumb enough to think that means "he would be with me" It doesn't...There are women that men want to fu*k (buffy the body, Trina, hoes like dat)..but there are also women that MATURE MEN want to settle down with..da type of woman a man thinks about when he dreams of settling down....You ever notice that petite pretty faced women seem to have better chances of settling down????...because theres women that men want to be seen with and then theres women men would just want to "have sex with"...ANDDD I HATE TO SAY THIS BUT...just because you can f*ck good doesnt mean you have good pu&&y...lol..If it doesnt feel good then you can do all the shaking and bouncing you want...He's not gonna be completely satisfied...SO WAKE UP..and quit bragging on how good you f*ck...cause the way it FEELS is more important to keeping a man..sad but true..So figure out what type of person he is when you initially meet there are ways to figure this out AND JUSS NOTICE that ALL MEN ACT FUNNY AFTER THEY HAVE SEX WITH YOU DA FIRST TIME SO THERE AINT NO USE IN HOLDING BACK BECAUSE YOU THINK HE JUST WANTS THAT ..IF HE WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU BAD ENUFF HE'LL PLAY ALONG AS LONG AS IT TAKES SO THAT WONT WORK. .Just talking to him or just because hes taking you to a movie or out to eat or you've even met his friends means NOTHING Something important to know is that a lot of men DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY really WANT THEMSELVES...So he may say Im willing to settle down and im being true and he may be trying to be sincere But there are forces stronger than he can control The male sex drive and the need to be with women can be very powerful sometimes....A man or anyone for that matter, even women,,,, whos known to have been with several people throughout their life will have a hard time just up and quiting one day saying that Im gonna mess with one person...The chances are high that ONCE A CHEATER,,,,ALWAYS A CHEATER...of course not everyone but most...And women have to realize that just because your willing to throw everything away and push friends away for a man(which is what alotta women do)..Doesnt mean men will do da same...Men tend to continue their close relationships with their friends while women will easily push everything away for a man...sometimes even their kids...You ever notice how single mothers "especially single black mothers have this thing about saying their "independent"????And they always claim that "my kids are the number one thing in my life"???...first of all your kids are supposed to be da number one priority in your life and you don't have to keep sayin that everytime you meet a man..Your actions should show that..not your big loud mouth...And tha only reason they say that is because There wanting to see if he's willing to accept me and my kids...Its not about the kids as much as it is about HERSELF and seeing if he's comfortable with her kids...And da only women that yell "im independent are "single black mothers" hahaha its so typical and ghetto..AND THOSE ARE THE WOMEN WHO GET THE EXACT NIGGGAS THAT IM TALKIN ABOUT today....and the first thing they do is let that nigga move into da apartment,,,sittin in da living room playing Playstation all day and she puts da kids to bed everynight at 7pm so she can be in da living room with him fu*king or whateva...Sad But back to what you have to do ..Yu have to make a man want to be around you...have a zero tolerance..the moment he does things that you don't agree...let them know..He has to know that with her I cant f*ck up..cause I don't know what she'll do...Women or even men whos predictable will know what to expect when they do sumthin and will take advantage of that..have you ever heard the saying "opposites attract" THAT'S NOT TRUE IN RELATIONSHIPS AND PEOPLE HAVE TO REALIZE THAT..You need someone that you have things in common with and can relate to .It would be hard for a male who enjoys goin out a lot to be successful with a female who never goes out ."its trouble waiting to happen"..And as far as sex..You have to notice how often he wants sex and how freaky he his..IF HE'S REALLY FREAKY...THERES A HIGH CHANCE HE WILL PROLLY DO SOMEONE ELSE IF HE GETS A CHANCE...Sometimes its good to have sex with him often because remember after a man has sex he'll be ok for a while so keep that occupied ....but if it started out with a lotta sex then slowed and prolly stopped then he's prolly cheating..Cause I can assure you his "horniness" hasn't slowed and hes fuc*in....And for women who don't like having alotta sex and he does... Ill just say this...like I always say>>>>I WILL TELL MY WOMEN THIS..IM HAVING SEX AT LEAST THREE DAYS A WEEK SO EITHER YOU CAN BE IN ON IT OR YOU WONT .SO MAKE A CHOICE ..lol .. But Ill just say this Don't be so NAIVE.. if you are having 100 problems with your boyfriend you've had for years?..Why would you marry or move in with him????Think before you do that..LIFES TO SHORT TO BE WORRIED ABOUT NIGGGAS AND HOESS..ARGUING ALL DAY...DRAMA...CRYING AND SHIIT...NOT WORTH IT...GO HAVE FUN...IM SORRY....The excuse that well you go threw ups and downs is dumb because yes people go threw ups and downs..And the marriage vows say "FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE but they weren't talking about sticking by someone whos fuc*ed everyone in town or who brings home a sexually transmitted disease or beats da %#&@$! out of you....AND remember that its easy to meet someone but its hard to stick with someone....and remember the times you wasted in da past with bums and terrible relationships...Quit fuc*ing men after 30mins of meeting and quit thinking that just because you have a big asss that you are attractive,,YOUR NOT!!! YOUR FACE IS STILL UGLY.,,and don't wait till its too late to LOOK FOR A GOOD MAN.. cause after your good days are over it will be hard .. AND FINALLY....MY LAST WORDS OUR THIS....IF YOUR OVER 25 AND YOUR STILLING SAYING THAT ALL MEN ARE DOGS OR NO GOOD...THEN GUESS WHAT???? ."ITS YOU" Im open for questions ..So hit me up if you want some info. lt;..<